No your making your daughter a robot and take her free will and break her. That will cause way worse rebellion and a hardened heart than letting her go through a small phase where she will face palm herself afterwards.
What made you so legalistic? Why are you so extreme about this specific thing
My daughter is 15 and has a mind of her own- which i encourage. But at the same time, I have made it clear that until she is an adult, and my words become advice instead of rules, i will raise her in the way she should go, and according to God, during that time she is to obey her parent in the Lord.
But she tells me her opinion, and if she will do things differently with her daughter, and 99 times out of 100 her opinion is that she agrees with me. In her free time she watches youtube videos of how feminism has gone too far, then comes and tells me about it- I don't make her do that, she does that from her own mind and freewill.
If she did not agree with wearing feminine clothes, I'd still make her, but she does agree, quite strongly. She may have to obey my rules whether she likes them or not, but she is entitled to her own thoughts and opinions, and is definitely not a robot. (Funny you say that cause she is sooooooo against robots, whereas I am not).