Defining Homosexuality

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Rosesrock

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I'm trying to take a deep breath here - A teen posted something. I know this topic is discussed by teens. I know that I for one have things to say about it. I really think its unfair Adults hijack this room. You have all the other rooms to comment about this topic because I see its the feature topic in everyone of them. I don't think its fair that the agenda in those rooms are pushed here. This room I thought was for the Teens to push the agenda. I am afraid that the issues in the USA causing lots of emotion are going to be dumped here. If your an adult thinking of doing that well this is one teen whos telling you...think about posting it in an adult room and don't inject your emotions and agendas here please.

#1 this is in an adult forum
#2 talk to your parent about this subject
#3 if you dont like adult opinions about biblical issues that tells me how immature you are spiritually
 

blue_ladybug

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Rule #9
9. Please do not hang out where you do not belong.
Please do not use the Teens chat room unless you are between 13 and 19 years old. And please do not use the Singles chat room unless you are single and 18 or older. (The other chat rooms are for general fellowship and are open to all.)

I believe Zoii is correct.

aw, he got banned. Zoii is correct about what?. This forum is NOT a chat room and as whoever reads this can plainly see, there are adults posting in here all the time.. The adults are allowed in this forum, and the teens are allowed in any of the forums..
 

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Don't agree with the whole "agenda pushing" thing you said, but yes, this is clearly Christian TEENS Forum, so I agree that non teens shouldn't be posting here. Us old folks have plenty other places. :) (I'm aware of the irony of me posting this here, but it was just to agree with Zoii) :) *disappears*
[h=1]Christian Family Forum:[/h]
I want to be clear it was not my understanding this topic was in the teen room nor is the post of those in here which is not the teen room
 
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prodigal

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Christian Family Forum:


I want to be clear it was not my understanding this topic was in the teen room nor is the post of those in here which is not the teen room
it was moved :)
 

zoii

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#1 this is in an adult forum
#2 talk to your parent about this subject
#3 if you dont like adult opinions about biblical issues that tells me how immature you are spiritually
Hi
When I posted this it was in a teen room and we thought we were having a discussion amongst teens. There are a lot of teens like me who dont like posting in adult rooms because we are nervous about what happens. We got told some pretty harsh things for saying our bit.... I wont being saying more here and I wish the mods before they moved this to an adult room had removed my posts because I would never had made any comment if I'd known it was going to be put here.
 
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Rosesrock

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Hi
When I posted this it was in a teen room and we thought we were having a discussion amongst teens. There are a lot of teens like me who dont like posting in adult rooms because we are nervous about what happens. We got told some pretty harsh things for saying our bit.... I wont being saying more here and I wish the mods before they moved this to an adult room had removed my posts because I would never had made any comment if I'd known it was going to be put here.
Then dont post threads in the adult forums :) have a great day.
You get told harsh things because they're from the bible. Like i said, you probably need to refer this to your parents not avunch of teens. Im not attacking you. I have a 14 yo daughter and would be livid if she was talking about this stuff with kids she didnt know, second talking to adults disrespecfully. I wont be responding to anything ypu post in the adult forum, because your authority is your parents.
 
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Rosesrock

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This thread was started in the Teens Forum and moved to the adult forum by the mods.
I was refering to her previous threads shes started in bible discussion, not this one
 
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Prayful

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Well I believe in the term "Love the person, but Hate the Sin". I have a nephew who is gay and he has gay friends. Do I hang out with them? Sometimes. But I do not support the homosexual act itself, no. For my Nephew and his friends, that's enough for them.
 
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My mistake. It seemed that your response was to her post where she said: "When I posted THIS it was in a teen room and we thought we were having a discussion amongst teens." and not to others that weren't mentioned.
Have a nice day. :)
 

zoii

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I have never at any time, started a thread in Bible Discussion.
 
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I cant imagine the unbearable pressure for some gay teens. One of my closest friends is Gay. Noone, not even her parents (especially not her parents) knows she's gay. Shes super pretty and guys buzz around her. She acts like shes interested and talks boys sometimes when my other friends are discussing guys. Why does she feel trapped - why does she feel like she cant talk about the emotions in her.

Well for a start her parents are very devout Christians. They are lovely people and have been good to my friend and I can she how she is loved. I was having dinner with her family when the news of Ireland's decision to legalize gay marriage came through. Without meaning to be hurtful they remarked how sinful this was. How condemned gays were. How horrible their acts were. How intolerable the whole gay issue was.

I was frozen. I just wanted to pull my friend into a hug. We got to her room and she cried and cried and cried. My beautiful and gentle friend.....it was so heart breaking.

I know all about self esteem issues and things that can build in your head until you do something you shouldn't. SO - I acknowledge the bible's position - but what I want from Christians is to go very very gently with teens. Telling them about some sort of reversion therapy or telling them they r going straight to hell just might send them to the end of a rope.

If that ever happened to my precious friend it would crush me n this world would have lost a jewel.
Zoii,

Do you mind if I ask a question? The question I have is do you know if your friend was abused? (It's one of the things that is very,very,very common with those who are LGBT. Being sexually abused as children is so common that I know of less than 10 that have not been, and I do minister to those)
 

zoii

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Zoii,

Do you mind if I ask a question? The question I have is do you know if your friend was abused? (It's one of the things that is very,very,very common with those who are LGBT. Being sexually abused as children is so common that I know of less than 10 that have not been, and I do minister to those)
No. I know her really well n I'm sure she would have told me
 
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No. I know her really well n I'm sure she would have told me
I know some that were set from the homosexuality once they dealt the abuse issues,that why I asked. (The sad part is many do not want to deal with the abuse issues,and I know for myself dealing with them is not fun at all) :(
 
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NewWine

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My take on love is that it's a choice we make, whether it's homosexual love or heterosexual love. The homosexual feelings may be normal to many (possibly more than will admit to the feelings in fact), probably due to many factors that go above my head, but Love is not a feeling. It's a verb. It's something we do out of choice. The actions are the sin to me.....feeling attraction to another of the same sex is just that.....a feeling.....acting on that attraction takes choice. God gave us free will for exactly this sort of dilemma. We are free to sin, due to free will, but every action has a reaction, so while I am free to sin, sins have reactions.....or consequences...whether that be physical consequences, emotional consequences or whatever.....there is a consequence to sin.

Now that we all know I believe the actions of homosexuality are sin, we should also know that I also believe over eating, smoking and drinking to excess are also sins, since they don't care for the Temple (body), and the Bible is pretty clear that no sin is any worse than another......so, to me homosexuality is no worse than the lying, murdering, over eating, me.

If I dismiss everyone who sins in ways I don't approve, then I will run out of people to love reallllllllly quickly. Not to mention the fact that one's sexual orientation is only one small part of who they are, unless they or I choose to make it more than that. If I segregate myself from those who sin differently than I, I will be missing out on getting to know a LOT of awesome people.....besides, sexuality are one of the last things my friends and I discuss anyways.
Then again, I'm nobody.
Peace!!
 
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Mitspa

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My take on love is that it's a choice we make, whether it's homosexual love or heterosexual love. The homosexual feelings may be normal to many (possibly more than will admit to the feelings in fact), probably due to many factors that go above my head, but Love is not a feeling. It's a verb. It's something we do out of choice. The actions are the sin to me.....feeling attraction to another of the same sex is just that.....a feeling.....acting on that attraction takes choice. God gave us free will for exactly this sort of dilemma. We are free to sin, due to free will, but every action has a reaction, so while I am free to sin, sins have reactions.....or consequences...whether that be physical consequences, emotional consequences or whatever.....there is a consequence to sin.

Now that we all know I believe the actions of homosexuality are sin, we should also know that I also believe over eating, smoking and drinking to excess are also sins, since they don't care for the Temple (body), and the Bible is pretty clear that no sin is any worse than another......so, to me homosexuality is no worse than the lying, murdering, over eating, me.

If I dismiss everyone who sins in ways I don't approve, then I will run out of people to love reallllllllly quickly. Not to mention the fact that one's sexual orientation is only one small part of who they are, unless they or I choose to make it more than that. If I segregate myself from those who sin differently than I, I will be missing out on getting to know a LOT of awesome people.....besides, sexuality are one of the last things my friends and I discuss anyways.
Then again, I'm nobody.
Peace!!
I don't get it? you sin therefore we should now approve more sin? Stop approving sin and you might find you have more power over sin by Gods grace. God gives grace to the humble and resist the proud...those who promote and excuse sin, are in pride...like gay pride..they will never be delivered from sins power and many will suffer the greatest judgment of all... so its not a game to play, Its a God to fear and obey.
 
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Mitspa

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I know some that were set from the homosexuality once they dealt the abuse issues,that why I asked. (The sad part is many do not want to deal with the abuse issues,and I know for myself dealing with them is not fun at all) :(
Of course you deal with the abuse issues as you help them overcome their sin..but you don't use the abuse as an excuse to leave them bound in their sin...The idea is to help them get out of sin, not give them excuses for staying in sin.
 
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Of course you deal with the abuse issues as you help them overcome their sin..but you don't use the abuse as an excuse to leave them bound in their sin...The idea is to help them get out of sin, not give them excuses for staying in sin.
Did I say that it could be used as an excuse to remain in sin? God wants to bring them healing,leaving bound to the sexual abuse leaves them in bondage. Didn't Jesus say this was the reason He came

Luke 4

[SUP]14 [/SUP]Jesus returned to Galilee in the power of the Spirit, and news about him spread through the whole countryside. [SUP]15 [/SUP]He was teaching in their synagogues, and everyone praised him.
[SUP]16 [/SUP]He went to Nazareth, where he had been brought up, and on the Sabbath day he went into the synagogue, as was his custom. He stood up to read, [SUP]17 [/SUP]and the scroll of the prophet Isaiah was handed to him. Unrolling it, he found the place where it is written:
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“The Spirit of the Lord is on me,
because he has anointed me
to proclaim good news to the poor.
He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners
and recovery of sight for the blind,
to set the oppressed free,
[SUP]19 [/SUP] to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”
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[SUP]20 [/SUP]Then he rolled up the scroll, gave it back to the attendant and sat down. The eyes of everyone in the synagogue were fastened on him. [SUP]21 [/SUP]He began by saying to them, “Today this scripture is fulfilled in your hearing.”


Aren't we suppose to be pointing to those in bondage to the one who can set them free or are we to throw them an anchor to a drowning man?
 
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Mitspa

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Did I say that it could be used as an excuse to remain in sin? God wants to bring them healing,leaving bound to the sexual abuse leaves them in bondage. Didn't Jesus say this was the reason He came

Luke 4

[SUP]14 [/SUP]Jesus returned to Galilee in the power of the Spirit, and news about him spread through the whole countryside. [SUP]15 [/SUP]He was teaching in their synagogues, and everyone praised him.
[SUP]16 [/SUP]He went to Nazareth, where he had been brought up, and on the Sabbath day he went into the synagogue, as was his custom. He stood up to read, [SUP]17 [/SUP]and the scroll of the prophet Isaiah was handed to him. Unrolling it, he found the place where it is written:
[SUP]18 [/SUP]
“The Spirit of the Lord is on me,
because he has anointed me
to proclaim good news to the poor.
He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners
and recovery of sight for the blind,
to set the oppressed free,
[SUP]19 [/SUP] to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”
[SUP][f][/SUP]

[SUP]20 [/SUP]Then he rolled up the scroll, gave it back to the attendant and sat down. The eyes of everyone in the synagogue were fastened on him. [SUP]21 [/SUP]He began by saying to them, “Today this scripture is fulfilled in your hearing.”


Aren't we suppose to be pointing to those in bondage to the one who can set them free or are we to throw them an anchor to a drowning man?
I think my issue is that it seems that many dont know they are drowning and don't really see the need for a Savior...
 
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I think my issue is that it seems that many dont know they are drowning and don't really see the need for a Savior...

Or that their real need is to be healed of the hurts and pains to be set free?