I Don't Like Men

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my sister enocouraged my little brothers to get their first cellphones cos she pretty much wanted to spy on them. They were reluctant at first and couldnt see the point of them, but she soon bulldozed her way through their objections. lol

Its the same with things like facebook. Or as I call it the gossip mill. Its also a mecca for stalkers.
my sister enocouraged my little brothers to get their first cellphones cos she pretty much wanted to spy on them. They were reluctant at first and couldnt see the point of them, but she soon bulldozed her way through their objections. lol

Its the same with things like facebook. Or as I call it the gossip mill. Its also a mecca for stalkers.
I don't do Facebook. CC is my sole source of social media.
 

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I have this huge, extreme, major, disgust disappoint of men. How do I get rid of this?
Male or female, people CAN BE disappointing and sin IS disgusting...but Jesus thought every single one of us was worth dying for.

Forgiveness is the key to unlocking one's own chains in order to be free and move forward, whether a person is sorry for their actions or not. Forgiveness doesn't mean you don't hold them accountable and/or set clear boundaries.

A hardened heart is a lonely place.

Prayers.
 

VineyardsOfEngedi

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Male or female, people CAN BE disappointing and sin IS disgusting...but Jesus thought every single one of us was worth dying for.

Forgiveness is the key to unlocking one's own chains in order to be free and move forward, whether a person is sorry for their actions or not. Forgiveness doesn't mean you don't hold them accountable and/or set clear boundaries.

A hardened heart is a lonely place.

Prayers.
Lonelier is he who's heart is not hardened and endures abuses of all sorts.
 

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my sister enocouraged my little brothers to get their first cellphones cos she pretty much wanted to spy on them. They were reluctant at first and couldnt see the point of them, but she soon bulldozed her way through their objections. lol

Its the same with things like Facebook. Or as I call it the gossip mill. Its also a mecca for stalkers.
Many years ago, I saw a post from someone who said you shouldn't use Facebook because that was a place where people met other people to have affairs. She probably heard one story of someone who used it that way. I use as a place for Bible study, discussion, and fellowship. I have probably seen just a bit of gossip, not counting politics.

They have a left-wing slant on a lot of things. But to a large extent it is whatever people use it for.
 

presidente

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tip for peeing straight use a toilet paper tube or Christmas warping paper tube. Best to just sit down.
"Bottoms Up!" is the picture I put in my bathroom to remind the boys what to do.
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I wonder why this is controversial at all. Do women not look before they sit? Men who go to public school are well-trained to look before they sit. There could be urine, or worse, on the seat. I would imagine the woman's restroom would be lower risk for some of this, but still a high enough risk to train women to look. I scrub and/or cover before sitting in a public area. Elementary school taught me to examine a seat before sitting even in the cafeteria. One encounter with ketchup should be enough to teach the lesson--- look before you sit. If you look before you sit, how is this an issue?

Putting a seat down is usually less disgusting that putting it up. The top of the seat gets wiped more frequently. You never know what is on the bottom.
 

TheLearner

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my sister enocouraged my little brothers to get their first cellphones cos she pretty much wanted to spy on them. They were reluctant at first and couldnt see the point of them, but she soon bulldozed her way through their objections. lol

Its the same with things like facebook. Or as I call it the gossip mill. Its also a mecca for stalkers.
clearly she is a member of W.I.N. aka Women's Intelligence Network.
 

TheLearner

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I wonder why this is controversial at all. Do women not look before they sit? Men who go to public school are well-trained to look before they sit. There could be urine, or worse, on the seat. I would imagine the woman's restroom would be lower risk for some of this, but still a high enough risk to train women to look. I scrub and/or cover before sitting in a public area. Elementary school taught me to examine a seat before sitting even in the cafeteria. One encounter with ketchup should be enough to teach the lesson--- look before you sit. If you look before you sit, how is this an issue?

Putting a seat down is usually less disgusting that putting it up. The top of the seat gets wiped more frequently. You never know what is on the bottom.
My wife knows our house well enough to walk in the dark, thus she sits in the dark on her Throne.
 

Lanolin

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Many years ago, I saw a post from someone who said you shouldn't use Facebook because that was a place where people met other people to have affairs. She probably heard one story of someone who used it that way. I use as a place for Bible study, discussion, and fellowship. I have probably seen just a bit of gossip, not counting politics.

They have a left-wing slant on a lot of things. But to a large extent it is whatever people use it for.
CC is much better for bible study and fellowship
 
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Wow, I'm really sorry to hear that. It isn't just "men" as a plural, is it? Because sometimes I really feel like I have to deal with too many people on any given day myself. What were you thinking, just more wanting to be single, celibate and independent, or were you just thinking that there were a few too many around you who were just too... you know...?
 
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CC is much better for bible study and fellowship
NNNNNN.....it might be, but who says that's why the programmer wrote it? I mean, I remember when they shut down the Seattle Craigslist Personals for being totally filthy, and the site had it coming. That may have been more what they used it for than just a function of what a personal board is meant to be.
 

Lanolin

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uh well Ive been on other Christian forums and some are not as good as this one cos they have ads or bullying mods.

In fact this is one of the best even when its a bit silly :ROFL: or maybe because there are some funny christians on here....
 
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I have this huge, extreme, major, disgust disappoint of men. How do I get rid of this?
to be Honest, I see where you are coming from. and at least you want to change how you view men. I just don’t like the double standard here. My advice to you is that you should look at every person as an individual, and not as a whole. The actions of the men who have wronged you do not display the character of every single man : ) and try to judge a person based on what they have done, not what you think they could do to you.
 
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I think you should consider looking into Erasto scenes logic. What is it, and I realize how hard it is, the three logical operators are all, some and none, with the contrapositive not all as the fourth logical operator. I'm getting the impression that you have an "all men" problem, but you'd want to solve that, right? Can it be distributed over the square? Can you form a statement in terms of the same problem by explain what it is that none of all men do, and then set up the proportion about the terms? The some do this, and there's an associated, not all do that. Because it might really just be that there's only one man you have a problem with, but he knows all the rest of the men you know, and they all have some relationships the one of each to each of the others. Just find the original slanderer and try to get a case into court, and his followers will likely scatter, just given what a male dominance hierarchy is like.
 

TheLearner

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I think you should consider looking into Erasto scenes logic. What is it, and I realize how hard it is, the three logical operators are all, some and none, with the contrapositive not all as the fourth logical operator. I'm getting the impression that you have an "all men" problem, but you'd want to solve that, right? Can it be distributed over the square? Can you form a statement in terms of the same problem by explain what it is that none of all men do, and then set up the proportion about the terms? The some do this, and there's an associated, not all do that. Because it might really just be that there's only one man you have a problem with, but he knows all the rest of the men you know, and they all have some relationships the one of each to each of the others. Just find the original slanderer and try to get a case into court, and his followers will likely scatter, just given what a male dominance hierarchy is like.
Is this star track or what?
 
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Is this star track or what?
Well, the square of logic might be useful. One question I'd ask is seriously, "what kind of men?" Do these men have ages, races, national Identics, gender different ways of being themselves, do they have politics? I would ask well do you know their names? because if it's really "men" as a large group, you might have had a very serious mob violence problem. And you might not be able to tell even someone safe if you found someone safe who the men are that you have a problem with.
 

TheLearner

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Well, the square of logic might be useful. One question I'd ask is seriously, "what kind of men?" Do these men have ages, races, national Identics, gender different ways of being themselves, do they have politics? I would ask well do you know their names? because if it's really "men" as a large group, you might have had a very serious mob violence problem. And you might not be able to tell even someone safe if you found someone safe who the men are that you have a problem with.
Thank You, Daniel