I'm in a quandry

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AgapeShellArt

AgapeShellArt

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Homewardbound said:
I am at a point now where I just do not want to be a dumping ground for his misery. He has been married now for about six weeks, and he is starting in again about *stuff*. I told him last time he spoke to me that he needs to find professional help to bring his problems to...don't know if he will, but...
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Sometimes love is setting boundaries about what is and isn't okay in relationship/ friendship.

Perhaps if you guys do stay friends just ask to change the subject whenever his romantic relationship comes up.

God bless.
 
Homewardbound

Homewardbound

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AgapeShellArt said:
Sometimes love is setting boundaries about what is and isn't okay in relationship/ friendship.

Perhaps if you guys do stay friends just ask to change the subject whenever his romantic relationship comes up.

God bless.
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Thanks for this. I am setting a lot of boundaries about it. We remain friends, but I will not be the dumping ground anymore. Changing the subject seems to be a great start! I plan to continue to recommend he get professional counselling. (or go to his pastor for support)... again, thank you, and blessings to you too!
 
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