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thatfizzyguy said:
Yeah I know believe me I'm being careful and I must admit I haven't opened up with any woman like I have with her and she has done the same with me like telling me about some tragedy in her life and she believes in God even quotes scriptures she talks about phone stuff that I don't understand too and we agree on many things like what we want in a relationship I really don't think a person can fake all that so definitely believing she's who she is and not a scammer or anything like that.
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Glancing through this thread there are some red flags on this chick. She may be legit but it sounds fishy already.
Entering into an online relationship without, at the very Least, having video chats, is asking for trouble.
You've never even heard her voice.
Her appearance contradicts what you've heard of her family.
Knowing scripture and claiming to believe in God is pretty flimsy. Satan could also make the same claim.
Nothing you've said is convincing except to the one that Wants to be convinced.
 
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Blonde haired white people don't usually tend to be Latino.. unless she's adopted or was at a friend's house or something..
 
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Blonde/light complexion Latinos do exist, but they are not as common.

Being careful isn’t a bad thing. I recommend a video chat just to be sure she is who she is. :)
 
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melita916 said:
Blonde/light complexion Latinos do exist, but they are not as common.

Being careful isn’t a bad thing. I recommend a video chat just to be sure she is who she is. :)
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Hey Melita, maybe you or your mom in law can go check her out. You guys are in Texas. Maybe she's close. Close in Texas talk is within 200 miles. Lol
 
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Good luck. I'm quite certain that she will make you into the man she has always dreamed she wanted.

Mine has been working on it for nearly 45 years and I'm still a work in progress.

For the cause of Christ
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What city is she in, if you don't mind sharing, Joe. I, too, live in Texas. The best state in the whole world!
Oh and there are some light skinned Mexicans. I am one of them...but I have brown hair.
My brother is light skinned with dirty blond hair. We are Mexican American..but yeah. Like Melita says, they are rare.
Be careful, bro...keep us posted. Is the lady from CC? I wanna know who it is. :D
 
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thatfizzyguy said:
Hi everyone That fizzy guy Joefizz here I am now in a relationship and so first please any women no private messaging me anymore though I have liked chatting with you I just feel it's best to cut out private messaging with women on every site I'm apart of so I can be open and honest with my girlfriend.
Also it's been fun being single but, I think I'm ready now for the first step out from being single.
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That's wonderful news my friend and it's a good thing to make known that private messages may no longer being appropriate for you in order for you to be honest and open with your girlfriend. Very exciting news Fizzy, yes indeed.
 
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thatfizzyguy said:
Yeah I know shocking zero turbulence but, well you never know in life what will happen next I mean no other women were interested in me and I in her so that's just the way things go.
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What you have said is true. You just never know who God is going to send your way. A single man could very well bump into his future wife while browsing for produce and thumping the honeydews in his local grocery store or at a 7/Eleven paying for his Slurpee to sweet single woman behind the counter. She gives him a wink and a smile and so it begins.
 
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notuptome said:
Good luck. I'm quite certain that she will make you into the man she has always dreamed she wanted.

Mine has been working on it for nearly 45 years and I'm still a work in progress.

For the cause of Christ
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Me too but I am proof that you can teach an old dog new tricks.
 
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thatfizzyguy said:
And Tommy thanks for the support in urging me to get out there I didn't expect to actually find any woman actually interested in me and especially not so soon but, well maybe God is speeding things up because of the time I sacrificed for others.
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I believe that it is true that God helps those that helps themselves. Way to go my fizzy friend! :)
 
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thatfizzyguy said:
Well we're hoping to but, we are texting each other on sites and on our phones though recently she called me and my phone glitched to where I could hear her family in the background they sound either latino or mexican I say that because from her pictures she looks white and blond haired and they were speaking some form of spanish I think.
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My wife and I got to know each other through our long talks on the phone too before we actually physically met.
 
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Silly was Puerto Rican, but light skinned. Almost as white as me and I'm pretty dang white :ROFL::ROFL:
So it's true some spanish people can be light skinned and blonde (even dyed blonde) but I'd always be cautious if there is a discrepancy from the norm until having more solid proof.
Fizzy needs to watch some Catfish the TV Show to see just how far some people are willing to go to deceive people into romance.
Anytime someone on there says "we've never video chat" the hosts always roll their eyes, exasperated and proceed to inform the person that with that fact alone the chances of the person lying go up dramatically. It's one of the biggest red flags.
Never having a successful phone call is even worse.
 
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Ugly said:
Silly was Puerto Rican, but light skinned. Almost as white as me and I'm pretty dang white :ROFL::ROFL:
So it's true some spanish people can be light skinned and blonde (even dyed blonde) but I'd always be cautious if there is a discrepancy from the norm until having more solid proof.
Fizzy needs to watch some Catfish the TV Show to see just how far some people are willing to go to deceive people into romance.
Anytime someone on there says "we've never video chat" the hosts always roll their eyes, exasperated and proceed to inform the person that with that fact alone the chances of the person lying go up dramatically. It's one of the biggest red flags.
Never having a successful phone call is even worse.
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I like that you always have constructive though some don't like and you're right I need to be careful.
 
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Update...
Well a lot of stuff looks like it checks out though I think she's a bit mixed up on details for instance on her profile it says Louisiana and she said Texas but, that's right next to Texas so that's about accurate.
 
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LittleMermaid said:
What city is she in, if you don't mind sharing, Joe. I, too, live in Texas. The best state in the whole world!
Oh and there are some light skinned Mexicans. I am one of them...but I have brown hair.
My brother is light skinned with dirty blond hair. We are Mexican American..but yeah. Like Melita says, they are rare.
Be careful, bro...keep us posted. Is the lady from CC? I wanna know who it is. :D
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No she's not from Christian Chat.
 
seoulsearch

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thatfizzyguy said:
Update...
Well a lot of stuff looks like it checks out though I think she's a bit mixed up on details for instance on her profile it says Louisiana and she said Texas but, that's right next to Texas so that's about accurate.
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Joe,

Please be careful. Everything you've said about this girl is setting off just about every warning bell there is.

Her profile says one state, but she says she's in another, BUT they're right next to each other, so that's about accurate???

I mean, a person might as well put "Wisconsin" as their location in their profile but say they're in Canada, because they're "practically right next to each other, so that's about accurate", right? :eek:

You don't need "about accurate." You need cold, hard facts and rock-solid proof.

It sounds like you have some great things going for you and I hope that isn't about to be ruined by what seems like an obvious catfish. I just wrote a thread about people how everyone these days knows all the signs, but they still choose to fall for it. :(

We have all come to care about you here and don't want to see you get hurt.

I will hope for the best because I would love to see you happy with a God-fearing woman who loves you back just as much as you love her, but I have to tell you, it's not looking good.
 
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seoulsearch said:
Joe,

Please be careful. Everything you've said about this girl is setting off just about every warning bell there is.

Her profile says one state, but she says she's in another, BUT they're right next to each other, so that's about accurate???

I mean, a person might as well put "Wisconsin" as their location in their profile but say they're in Canada, because they're "practically right next to each other, so that's about accurate", right? :eek:

You don't need "about accurate." You need cold, hard facts and rock-solid proof.

It sounds like you have some great things going for you and I hope that isn't about to be ruined by what seems like an obvious catfish. I just wrote a thread about people how everyone these days knows all the signs, but they still choose to fall for it. :(

We have all come to care about you here and don't want to see you get hurt.

I will hope for the best because I would love to see you happy with a God-fearing woman who loves you back just as much as you love her, but I have to tell you, it's not looking good.
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I would be happy if you proved me wrong--in fact, I'm hoping you will.

But she's going to need to achieve a lot more qualifications than "about accurate."
 
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Awww she called me babu! I mean uhhh not that we are getting mushy.;)
 
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