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blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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Joe, you are NOT in a relationship. You talk to this girl online and on the phone. That's not the same as being in an ACTUAL serious, committed, in-person relationship. How can anyone be in a relationship with someone they've never actually met? It's impossible.. At best, the most you are to each other, is online friends.
 
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thatfizzyguy

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blue_ladybug said:
Joe, you are NOT in a relationship. You talk to this girl online and on the phone. That's not the same as being in an ACTUAL serious, committed, in-person relationship. How can anyone be in a relationship with someone they've never actually met? It's impossible.. At best, the most you are to each other, is online friends.
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Yeah that is still a valid point though still treating it serious and we have talked about meeting.
 
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thatfizzyguy

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PennEd said:
I think this says it all. Joe deep down knows there's something fishy, but is enjoying the ride. Like being on a roller coaster, enjoying it, all the while knowing it will end.

Joe may be getting catfished, but he is doing some dog fishing of his own!
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Well I'm about to find out very soon...hmm well speaking of her...!
 
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thatfizzyguy

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thatfizzyguy said:
Well I'm about to find out very soon...hmm well speaking of her...!
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Awesome I told her the truth that it's my birthday and if she would call me and she did and this time around I heard her voice and she heard mine at least I know now that she is a woman!
 
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thatfizzyguy

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thatfizzyguy said:
Awesome I told her the truth that it's my birthday and if she would call me and she did and this time around I heard her voice and she heard mine at least I know now that she is a woman!
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And she does sound like spanish like as I was thinking.
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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thatfizzyguy said:
I didn't ban them lol I just asked respectfully for women not to pm me it doesn't mean I won't still talk to them here in the "forums" you know like the thread we are all talking in right now.
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The fact that she wants you to stop talking to other women... even if it was only on one site... is in itself a red flag. It could very well be because she knows other women will warn you about how fishy she sounds...

Ask her to videochat with you. If she comes up with reasons why she won't, then she's probably not who you think she is...

Note: I have turned down requests for videochatting with some online friends because I am horrible at small talk. It would just be one long awkward silence unless it was with someone I was in love with...then i wouldn't shut up. And I've been on the chat room cams here before in the CC lounge when they had cams in there (maybe they are back now, IDK).. but that's proof Im not a catfish (no one probably cares if I am or not anyway...)
 
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thatfizzyguy

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zeroturbulence said:
The fact that she wants you to stop talking to other women... even if it was only on one site... is in itself a red flag. It could very well be because she knows other women will warn you about how fishy she sounds...

Ask her to videochat with you. If she comes up with reasons why she won't, then she's probably not who you think she is...

Note: I have turned down requests for videochatting with some online friends because I am horrible at small talk. It would just be one long awkward silence unless it was with someone I was in love with...then i wouldn't shut up. And I've been on the chat room cams here before in the CC lounge when they had cams in there (maybe they are back now, IDK).. but that's proof Im not a catfish (no one probably cares if I am or not anyway...)
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Well I asked about that before and she was nervous because her phone is glitched but, today I told her that for my birthday that it would make my birthday to talk to her and told her I understood about the glitch(she called me twice before the second call messed up letting me hear everyone around her but, they couldn't hear me) and she actually did call me and the phone was still a bit glitchy(she couldn't hear me a few times) but, I finally heard her voice wishing me happy birthday and she got to hear my voice!
 
Tommy379

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They often claim their phone is defective, to conceal the the truth.
 
Tommy379

Tommy379

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I scambait these sacanmers all the time. Would you like to see screen shots of how it goes down? I bet she called you names of endearment right away.

Joefizz, your talking to a skinny dude overseas.

People don't mix up their home state.

If they had a profile that list them one place, and they tell you they live somewhere else, they are a scammer and can't keep track of all their profiles.

I need a honest answer Joe.

Where did you meet this person?
 
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Janna38

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The glitches are signs of God Joe, God could have a say on this too you know. Glitches are the #1 sign. Believe me. *glitch *glitch *beep * beep *beepitybip*********
 
MichaelOwen

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*sigh* The struggle of finding a good single Christian woman is real.......

but........

Happy Birthday Joe, hope it's been a blessed one!
 
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thatfizzyguy

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Tommy379 said:
I scambait these sacanmers all the time. Would you like to see screen shots of how it goes down? I bet she called you names of endearment right away.

Joefizz, your talking to a skinny dude overseas.

People don't mix up their home state.

If they had a profile that list them one place, and they tell you they live somewhere else, they are a scammer and can't keep track of all their profiles.

I need a honest answer Joe.

Where did you meet this person?
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Popular media server and I was thinking on that state deal instead of a mix up it could be that she "originally" lived in Louisiana and just didn't change the state anyways I looked through our conversations and she said she lives in Texas brown field and I looked that up it's a real place.
 
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