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Sc81, I owe you an apology for I did not speak to kindly. People do not understand what truly constitutes D/s relationship.
I was intimately involved in it for years.
This kind of submission has nothing to do with the Bible. Is it ever Biblical to ask another to physically harm them????
It damages not only the submissive but also the dominate. It creates sense of superiority and desensitizes one to the pain of others. As with any type of abuse the abuser feel guilt and then punishes that which caused it. (the sub)
Please accept my apology but understand This lifestyle is not what God intended. I have seen first hand what can happen. It isn't pretty and it's not a game.
I was intimately involved in it for years.
This kind of submission has nothing to do with the Bible. Is it ever Biblical to ask another to physically harm them????
It damages not only the submissive but also the dominate. It creates sense of superiority and desensitizes one to the pain of others. As with any type of abuse the abuser feel guilt and then punishes that which caused it. (the sub)
Please accept my apology but understand This lifestyle is not what God intended. I have seen first hand what can happen. It isn't pretty and it's not a game.
For those of you who have set yourself against what SirsSubmissiveWife and her husband do in the privacy of their marriage bedroom, I have to ask, do you believe the following scripture is truth?
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
Marriage is honourable in all, and the [marriage] bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
If you believe this scripture is truth then you concur that what SirsSubmissiveWife and her husband do in the privacy of their bedroom is OK with God. Anything other than concurring reflects your unbelief in God's Holy Word.Marriage is honourable in all, and the [marriage] bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Well the fact is that this lady didn't even appear to know what this sick sex stuff was that she was being accused of...It sure does seem her accusers was well informed about this sort of behavior? 
Additionally, knowing information isn't dangerous. Some here know about these activities because they have previously been involved with them. Others know about them because they are well-read and informed. To look askance at these folks as if the possession of knowledge is a sin is inappropriate.
You obviously didn't read all the posts. Another poster asked the OP if she and her husband were involved with BDSM, and she says YES. It not only appeared in the original posts, but was REPOSTED AGAIN because people like you keep accusing the brethren instead of actually reading what has been posted.
Here's what I don't understand. I don't understand why people who can't be bothered to do their own research are so quick to judge dedicated Christians speaking sanely and kindly.
I refer you to the posts #330, #342, and #393.
Not only did she admit to being involved in BDSM, but she claimed that her husband never caused her pain *unless she wanted him to do so*.
Since you very quick to judge fellow Christians in a public (and, dare I say, inappropriate) manner, I think it most appropriate that you offer your apologies publicly as well.
I refer you to the posts #330, #342, and #393.
Not only did she admit to being involved in BDSM, but she claimed that her husband never caused her pain *unless she wanted him to do so*.
Since you very quick to judge fellow Christians in a public (and, dare I say, inappropriate) manner, I think it most appropriate that you offer your apologies publicly as well.