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Simply send her this so she can send it to her hubby.
Actually, get her to print it out and stick it above his computer or near to it. Frame it if you have to.
Watch your thoughts, they become words.
Watch your words, they become actions.
Watch your actions, they become habits.
Watch your habits, they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.
Actually, get her to print it out and stick it above his computer or near to it. Frame it if you have to.
Watch your thoughts, they become words.
Watch your words, they become actions.
Watch your actions, they become habits.
Watch your habits, they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.
M
I feel like I’m the only woman on this forum who feels this way, but I don’t see looking at porn as the same thing as a physical act of adultery.
That being said, even if I did, I can’t say that scripture supports adultery as right to divorce. I mean… if you carry out the logic of some of the statements on this discussion no one would stay married.
Lust = adultery= adultery is a right for a divorce? I don’t buy it. I would be devastated if my husband had a relationship with another woman. After I shot him and beat the crap out of her I would be crying in my jail cell.
This is what I don't understand. Why the wife feels that this is about her. A woman’s husband looks at porn…. Why is this about her? If she is a gossip or is morbidly obese is that on him? The sin doesn’t comment on her beauty or even sexuality, it’s about his struggle. Why do we as women make everything about us? No one should take that on .
Very early in our marriage I caught my husband looking at porn online. We had been married a little under two years I think. I was more insulted by him asking me if I was going to leave him than I was over the porn. My commitment to my marriage isn’t really about him or what he does; it’s about who I am and what I believe.
That being said, even if I did, I can’t say that scripture supports adultery as right to divorce. I mean… if you carry out the logic of some of the statements on this discussion no one would stay married.
Lust = adultery= adultery is a right for a divorce? I don’t buy it. I would be devastated if my husband had a relationship with another woman. After I shot him and beat the crap out of her I would be crying in my jail cell.
This is what I don't understand. Why the wife feels that this is about her. A woman’s husband looks at porn…. Why is this about her? If she is a gossip or is morbidly obese is that on him? The sin doesn’t comment on her beauty or even sexuality, it’s about his struggle. Why do we as women make everything about us? No one should take that on .
Very early in our marriage I caught my husband looking at porn online. We had been married a little under two years I think. I was more insulted by him asking me if I was going to leave him than I was over the porn. My commitment to my marriage isn’t really about him or what he does; it’s about who I am and what I believe.
The bible clearly says what it thinks about adultery. That if a man looks upon a woman lustfully, he HAS already committed adultery with her in his heart. And what purpose would shooting hubby and beating the crap out of the girl serve, except getting you life for murder and assault?
I wouldn't be happy if my man looked at porn, but I'd make it very clear: it is me OR the porn, you ain't having both and if you choose the porn, your butt is history..
D
Desertion. Anything that makes you leave your spouse for another.
That can be physically or mentally leave. It can be anything that becomes more important:
-- football.
-- the kids.
-- fishing.
-- gabbing with your friends.
-- a hobby.
-- work.
-- fixing up the house.
-- going to bible studies and prayer meetings five nights a week, instead of spending time with spouse.
-- a TV show, a game, music.
Desertion. Anything that becomes more important to you than your spouse.
Now that that is cleared up, I think it would be good to realize we all do it, and we should all stop. The one thing God hates the most is when we give up time with him for something more important (Ha! How about that? It's a two-way street. Not only are we supposed to give ourselves totally to our spouse, we also are supposed to give ourselves to God fully!)
That can be physically or mentally leave. It can be anything that becomes more important:
-- football.
-- the kids.
-- fishing.
-- gabbing with your friends.
-- a hobby.
-- work.
-- fixing up the house.
-- going to bible studies and prayer meetings five nights a week, instead of spending time with spouse.
-- a TV show, a game, music.
Desertion. Anything that becomes more important to you than your spouse.
Now that that is cleared up, I think it would be good to realize we all do it, and we should all stop. The one thing God hates the most is when we give up time with him for something more important (Ha! How about that? It's a two-way street. Not only are we supposed to give ourselves totally to our spouse, we also are supposed to give ourselves to God fully!)
M
The bible clearly says what it thinks about adultery. That if a man looks upon a woman lustfully, he HAS already committed adultery with her in his heart. And what purpose would shooting hubby and beating the crap out of the girl serve, except getting you life for murder and assault? I wouldn't be happy if my man looked at porn, but I'd make it very clear: it is me OR the porn, you ain't having both and if you choose the porn, your butt is history..
I wouldn't be happy if my man looked at porn, but I'd make it very clear: it is me OR the porn, you ain't having both and if you choose the porn, your butt is history..
I can understand that, if he was addicted and unwilling to get help or just liked his sin more than his wife. That would be a tough spot to be in.