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It would appear to me you are planning to commit adultery:
[31] "It was also said, `Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'
[32] But I say to you that every one who divorces his wife, except on the ground of unchastity, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery." Matt 5:31-32 RSV
[31] "It was also said, `Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'
[32] But I say to you that every one who divorces his wife, except on the ground of unchastity, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery." Matt 5:31-32 RSV
This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth, And says, “I have done no wickedness.”
Proverbs 30:20 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/pro.30.20.NKJV
For the commandment is a lamp, And the law a light; Reproofs of instruction are the way of life, To keep you from the evil woman, From the flattering tongue of a seductress.
Proverbs 6:23*-24 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/pro.6.23-24.NKJV
Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding; He who does so destroys his own soul.
Proverbs 6:32 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/pro.6.32.NKJV
And there a woman met him, With the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart. She was loud and rebellious, Her feet would not stay at home.
Proverbs 7:10*-11 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/pro.7.10-11.NKJV
Now therefore, listen to me, my children; Pay attention to the words of my mouth: Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways, Do not stray into her paths; For she has cast down many wounded, And all who were slain by her were strong men. Her house is the way to hell, Descending to the chambers of death.
Proverbs 7:24*-27 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/pro.7.24-27.NKJV
That should sum it up. If God's Word doesn't convince her, we sure can't.
Proverbs 30:20 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/pro.30.20.NKJV
For the commandment is a lamp, And the law a light; Reproofs of instruction are the way of life, To keep you from the evil woman, From the flattering tongue of a seductress.
Proverbs 6:23*-24 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/pro.6.23-24.NKJV
Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding; He who does so destroys his own soul.
Proverbs 6:32 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/pro.6.32.NKJV
And there a woman met him, With the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart. She was loud and rebellious, Her feet would not stay at home.
Proverbs 7:10*-11 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/pro.7.10-11.NKJV
Now therefore, listen to me, my children; Pay attention to the words of my mouth: Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways, Do not stray into her paths; For she has cast down many wounded, And all who were slain by her were strong men. Her house is the way to hell, Descending to the chambers of death.
Proverbs 7:24*-27 NKJV
http://bible.com/114/pro.7.24-27.NKJV
That should sum it up. If God's Word doesn't convince her, we sure can't.
For the OP, leave that man and his marriage alone. Walk away. You can't fix him. You can't fix his marriage. Just walk away. You are responsible for your walk with Christ. Get back to your prayer closet. Get back to truly studying the Word. The Holy Spirit will help you make the changes you need to make in your life.
we have several friends in these types of situations, and we are caught in the middle, as we LOVE
them both so much that it hurts.
both want to vent to us and of course we have to listen and be there for them, but we have laid out
the boundaries- but it seldom goes well! all we can do is what we are told to say and do, the rest
is up to them...
most important rule, 'don't ever say to us, 'if I tell you this and this, promise me that
you won't tell the other what I said or what I did...
this is a no-no for us, because the fine line between 'betrayal' is a very fine line indeed....
our oaths are to Jesus and not to man...
we tell them from the start, and it never goes well, especially if they want us to come over and
'referee, - at some point, either one always says that we are 'taking sides'...
it's such a terrible situation to be put in, but this is one of the things we are required to do in our Walk, =
listen, advise, sympathize, support, but most of all, we have to Love equally and to not show parciality,
but equal Love for both, if not equal judgment, for it is very rare that it is 'both' who are doing the
worst-wrong thing to the inth degree...there is always an un-balance on one or the other's part...
this does not excuse the sins of both, but it makes it a burden for us, to tell them the TRUTH...
Yes, it does hurt, but the TRUTH MUST ALWAYS BE TOLD, no matter the cost...
them both so much that it hurts.
both want to vent to us and of course we have to listen and be there for them, but we have laid out
the boundaries- but it seldom goes well! all we can do is what we are told to say and do, the rest
is up to them...
most important rule, 'don't ever say to us, 'if I tell you this and this, promise me that
you won't tell the other what I said or what I did...
this is a no-no for us, because the fine line between 'betrayal' is a very fine line indeed....
our oaths are to Jesus and not to man...
we tell them from the start, and it never goes well, especially if they want us to come over and
'referee, - at some point, either one always says that we are 'taking sides'...
it's such a terrible situation to be put in, but this is one of the things we are required to do in our Walk, =
listen, advise, sympathize, support, but most of all, we have to Love equally and to not show parciality,
but equal Love for both, if not equal judgment, for it is very rare that it is 'both' who are doing the
worst-wrong thing to the inth degree...there is always an un-balance on one or the other's part...
this does not excuse the sins of both, but it makes it a burden for us, to tell them the TRUTH...
Yes, it does hurt, but the TRUTH MUST ALWAYS BE TOLD, no matter the cost...