Wife wants divorce

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axp55

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My wife sever me last night and I opened the folder and I felt like I was having a heart attack she sign first I told her no and fell on my knees and I told her she rip my heart out
 
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axp55

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I did not sign and I wanted to do was go to our bed and sleep and she was moving my things into the other room and I told her no I want to share our bed and she told me know and I fell to the floor sobbing
 
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axp55

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OK I am going through it to and she rip my heart out last night
 
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axp55

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I am not ready at all
 
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axp55

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How can I she was my best friend I feel like I am not going to make it
 
blue_ladybug

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axp55 said:
I am not ready at all
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I suggest you use this time to accept all this, and focus on healing, and moving on. It's hard to do, but you WILL make it through this tough time..
 
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axp55

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How do I do that I am shaking so much
 
blue_ladybug

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axp55 said:
How can I she was my best friend I feel like I am not going to make it
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GOD is your best friend. Human friends leave us, hurt us and betray us but God never will. As long as you have God, you WILL make it through. :)
 
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axp55

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She is all I think about and we try marriage counseling
 
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axp55

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OK we can't be friends but she rip my heart out we did not have sex because she had issues and I got an attitude with her
 
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axp55

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I think I never love her I ran away from my horrible family and I am was mean like my dad
 
blue_ladybug

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axp55 said:
She is all I think about and we try marriage counseling
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You are wayy past marriage counseling, because she served you papers. The marriage is OVER. Counseling now would be beneficial for YOU, to get over this.
 
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axp55

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I know and I hate it I always thought we be together and I would wait for her and help her if she needs it but she says no she wants to move on when ready and we can't be friends
 
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axp55 said:
OK we can't be friends but she rip my heart out we did not have sex because she had issues and I got an attitude with her
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axp55 said:
I think I never love her I ran away from my horrible family and I am was mean like my dad
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Don't blame yourself for this. Some marriages just aren't meant to be. Especially if they're not put together by God. Do something to fill up your time so you don't sit and wallow in your misery. Play a sport, go to a ballgame, hang out with buddies, etc etc.. Do lots of praying and ask God to take away this pain.
 
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axp55

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OK thanks I am still crying
 
blue_ladybug

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axp55 said:
I know and I hate it I always thought we be together and I would wait for her and help her if she needs it but she says no she wants to move on when ready and we can't be friends
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Then you need to respect her wishes, and leave her alone so she can move on. Don't try holding onto something that isn't there anymore. You are not alone in feeling the pain of divorce, because many people here are going through the same thing.
 
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axp55

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No I am not and I do not talk to my family if I get sick or get in an accident who would be there for me
 
blue_ladybug

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axp55 said:
OK thanks I am still crying
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Crying is therapeutic, even though it does make you feel lousy. I'm sending you a cyber hug. :) Don't cry for what you've lost, rejoice in what you're gaining: a closer relationship with God. :)
 
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