Women, when a man is truly interested in you...
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I think the effort should be mutual. In my marriage, I was the one always initiating everything. Time together, dates, etc. I also had to buy my own Christmas presents and wrap them and put them under the tree. It was such a sad life. I do not miss it and will not go through that again but I don't expect the man to do all the work and I do nothing. I do think that is snotty.
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I never did get subtle, even back in the 70's. I couldn't even dance with a guy because I didn't get how they signal the next move subtly. (I have size 11 feet, so when I step on your foot you really know it. When I do it three times in a minute... well, who is dumb enough to want to go for the next minute?) So the guy I was dating and I took disco lessons together. We memorized the moves. Then we'd take turns calling out the next move with choices 1-14.
And then we broke up.
And then I met hubby. And he doesn't know disco and I don't remember how to dance rock and roll, so we just cuddle and move slow if we dance.
But outside that, we simply tell each other what we're thinking. And if it is a repeat thought, we made a signal for it that can't be missed. The only signal we have that isn't a hand signal -- well, I have to raise my bangs so he can see me waggle my eyebrows. And now my eyes are myopic, so he got to the point of waggling his whole head so I could catch the "subtle" signal. lol
And then we broke up.
And then I met hubby. And he doesn't know disco and I don't remember how to dance rock and roll, so we just cuddle and move slow if we dance.
But outside that, we simply tell each other what we're thinking. And if it is a repeat thought, we made a signal for it that can't be missed. The only signal we have that isn't a hand signal -- well, I have to raise my bangs so he can see me waggle my eyebrows. And now my eyes are myopic, so he got to the point of waggling his whole head so I could catch the "subtle" signal. lol
