Christian Leaders Threaten Civil Disobedience Pending SCOTUS Gay Marriage Ruling

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Ricky - that's such an insulting and horrible thing you write about gay couples. You might not like that they are gay and don't want to see them married - but to imply gay people are to linked to paedophilia is just a mean thing to do and I'm feeling so upset that this site could be saying such a thing. Gay people must have to endure a lot and I am not going to add to the hate and misery thrown at them. What u are saying is just terrible of u to do - so I just wish them all the best.
Are you insulting paedophilias? After all they are only expressing their deepest emotion of love the way they know best. This upsets me that you can speak in such belittling comparisons.

I hope you get the picture.
 
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Zoii, where does this stop? Science has shown that the same 'wiring' that makes people gay makes other people pedophiles. A lot of pedophiles insist they 'love' the children they molest. Since they do it in love shouldn't we just live and let live with them? How about polygamists? They use the word love too, I guess maybe that's ok as well? So where do you draw the line, and what do you say to people who then don't like where you've drawn it?

You're comparing two adults capable of consenting to a relationship to an adult and a prepubescent child who's not capable of doing so. That's the line of demarcation: ability to consent.

A plausible solution, which is also more of an anti-statist solution, would be to keep government out of marriage altogether, except for the enforcement/settlement of contracts. If adults want to enter into a marriage contract wherein they share assets, denote inheritance, and the like, then allow them to do so without interference from the government, whether they're gay, straight, bi, or polygamous.
 

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You're comparing two adults capable of consenting to a relationship to an adult and a prepubescent child who's not capable of doing so. That's the line of demarcation: ability to consent.

A plausible solution, which is also more of an anti-statist solution, would be to keep government out of marriage altogether, except for the enforcement/settlement of contracts. If adults want to enter into a marriage contract wherein they share assets, denote inheritance, and the like, then allow them to do so without interference from the government, whether they're gay, straight, bi, or polygamous.
That's the point, if government stepped out of marriage who would there be to define marriage? God? Heaven forbid (sorry for the pun).
And who has arbitrarily set up the 'ability to consent ' rule?
 
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You're comparing two adults capable of consenting to a relationship to an adult and a prepubescent child who's not capable of doing so. That's the line of demarcation: ability to consent.

A plausible solution, which is also more of an anti-statist solution, would be to keep government out of marriage altogether, except for the enforcement/settlement of contracts. If adults want to enter into a marriage contract wherein they share assets, denote inheritance, and the like, then allow them to do so without interference from the government, whether they're gay, straight, bi, or polygamous.
I'm guessing you're not Southern Baptist, right? Or any other conservative denomination, for that matter.

The United States Constitution says nothing about marriage. The issue of what relationships government recognizes as marriage is a political question, not a constitutional one. States have always been able determine who may legally marry in their states.

There are many limitations in the right to marry, including those concerning consanguinity. First cousins are prohibited from marrying in most states, but permitted in others. Some states recognize as valid cousin marriages performed elsewhere, but other states deny them legal recognition.

If states have the power to limit marriage to relationships that are not too closely related by blood, surely they have the right to codify the intrinsic male/female nature of marriage.
 

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You're comparing two adults capable of consenting to a relationship to an adult and a prepubescent child who's not capable of doing so. That's the line of demarcation: ability to consent.

A plausible solution, which is also more of an anti-statist solution, would be to keep government out of marriage altogether, except for the enforcement/settlement of contracts. If adults want to enter into a marriage contract wherein they share assets, denote inheritance, and the like, then allow them to do so without interference from the government, whether they're gay, straight, bi, or polygamous.
Bingo; the ability to consent is an important demarcation. But not an absolute one.

And I'm with you 100 percent on the government shouldn't be in the marriage business.
 
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Bingo; the ability to consent is an important demarcation. But not an absolute one.

And I'm with you 100 percent on the government shouldn't be in the marriage business.
OK, so we'll just let anyone marry anyone else -- or anything else.


 

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it isn't necessary to be so upset over this. Its just people in love wanting to spend their lives together. I don't think Christians need to feel threatened really... well that's my view anyway

Zoli,


The issue is not about 'gay' marriage. The issue is governmental attempts to force Christians to perform or participate in 'gay' marriage contrary to their beliefs.
 

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I think that when Christians are brought to court over refusal to participate in 'gay' marriage; the question to ask is

'are you overturning the 13th amendment completely; or are you just making involuntary servitude a province of the bench?'
 

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Zoli,


The issue is not about 'gay' marriage. The issue is governmental attempts to force Christians to perform or participate in 'gay' marriage contrary to their beliefs.
and secondly the issue centers on the right of a government to redefine what God has already defined long before said government existed.
 
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In Western Civilization, the government has been in the "marriage business" since long before the Bronze Age (c.2500-1100 BCE).

Interestingly, ancient pagan Rome grappled with the same situation modern Western culture. Here's how events transpired for them:

5 century BC: Roman civilization is a strong patriarchy, fathers are liable for the actions of their wife and children, and have the primary authority over the family.

1 century BC: Roman civilization blossoms into the most powerful and advanced civilization in the world. Material wealth increases. They have running water, baths and import spices from thousands of miles away. The Romans enjoy the arts and philosophy; they know and appreciate democracy, commerce, science, human rights, animal rights, children rights and women become emancipated. It is at this period that no-fault divorce is enacted and quickly becomes popular by the end of the century. Homosexuality propagates.

1-2 century AD: The family unit falls into rapid decline. Many men refuse to marry and the government tries to revive marriage with a “bachelor tax” to compel them to marry but to no avail. Children are growing up without fathers. The wealth and power of women grows very fast while men become increasingly demotivated. Non-martial sex and homosexuality become widespread during this time with the latter (e.g. homosexuality) politically championed.

3-4 century AD: A moral and demographic collapse takes place, Roman population declines due to below-replacement birth-rate. Immigration is increased to try and compensate; however, it's immigration from non-loyal people groups who have no patriotism for the Roman Empire and often are former enemies. There is extreme economic, political and military instability as twenty-five successive emperors in half a century are crowned (many end up assassinated). The Empire is ungovernable and on the brink of civil war and crime and corruption increase. The bright spot is that a new Catholic Religion teaching a very different normative morality has been gaining power amidst the chaos.

5 century AD: The Empire is ruled by an elite of military men that use the Emperor as a puppet; due to massive debts and financial problems, the Empire cannot afford to hire foreign mercenaries to defend itself (Roman citizens have long ago been replaced by mercenaries in the army), and starts “selling” parts of the Empire in exchange for protection. Eventually, the mercenaries figure out that the “Emperor has no clothes”, and overrun and pillage the Empire.

After the Western Roman Empire "collapses," in the 5th century, the new Catholic religion provides the moral foundation needed for restoration. The pillaging barbarians are converted and the elevation of marriage to a holy union begins to restore family and society (a fact even the anti-Christian historian Edward Gibbons states clearly in his work). Christian marriage gained preeminence when theology began to influence legislation as well as actual practices amongst the general population which realized it's benefit for producing and raising children; promoting mutual fidelity; and uniting man and wife in a bond of love derived from God.

Previously, I've shared at CC historical research studies produced at Harvard, Yale, Cambridge, etc... (including one from the founder of the anthropology department at Harvard) which documented the benefit of absolute monogamy to every major culture in history that utilized it and chronicled the decline of every major culture that abandoned the practice. They are epic sweeping socio-anthropological historical studies that make for fascinating reading.

“Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” -George Santayana


And I'm with you 100 percent on the government shouldn't be in the marriage business.
 
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Miri

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See the following link below. Is it possible that gay marriage will be legalised but religious
organisations cannot be forced to perform the ceremonies?

Q&A: Gay marriage - BBC News
 

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I think that when Christians are brought to court over refusal to participate in 'gay' marriage; the question to ask is

'are you overturning the 13th amendment completely; or are you just making involuntary servitude a province of the bench?'

While this is certainly a first amendment issue; the first amendment seems to be loosing respect in the courts and in the congress and the legislatures.

The thirteenth amendment is apparently still holding ground.
 

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See the following link below. Is it possible that gay marriage will be legalised but religious
organisations cannot be forced to perform the ceremonies?

Q&A: Gay marriage - BBC News
Yes this has been promised by the 'honest ones' but what hasn't been promised is the protection for religious colleges, dorms, charities etc., and thus endangering the tax exempt status of the churches who oversee those groups thus endangering the churches and their outreaches.
 
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That's the point, if government stepped out of marriage who would there be to define marriage? God? Heaven forbid (sorry for the pun).
And who has arbitrarily set up the 'ability to consent ' rule?
The individuals themselves; it would be a purely contractual matter. As to you last question, the legislature(s), as they already do.
 
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OK, so we'll just let anyone marry anyone else -- or anything else.

If anyone means an adult capable of consent, yes. Oh, the horror it would be to not dictate to adults which other adults they can or cannot marry. You're the biggest statist on the board. I'm not even sure what you mean by anything. Surely you're not even dumb enough to believe animals and inanimate objects can consent, but then again, who knows.
 

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The individuals themselves; it would be a purely contractual matter. As to you last question, the legislature(s), as they already do.
Let me try to get this straight. You claim to be Christian but what God has defined as marriage in Genesis 2, you say should be up for grabs by the individual. How do you reconcile that?
 

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OK, so we'll just let anyone marry anyone else -- or anything else.
Letting government dictate marriage parameters



Letting government dictate religious freedoms (or the lack there of)



Forcing those in love to bow to and feed the state



Government in pretty much all it's iterations



And heck why not, supporting policies that go against your own best interests (and I'm not just singling out the gay thing, I'm also including supporting Ben Carson in that one) is EXTREMELY
 
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Perhaps from a human perspective. Another is that He was executed for blasphemy.

In reality, He was executed because God ordained it.
I thought he laid his life down and took it up again......although I agree with the fact he was put to death for our sins......and by Roman capital punishment....!
 
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Those passages don't really mean anything to people in love.... n I don't think I need to explain what love is - we all know what it means. People who love each other aren't evil for wanting to spend their lives together; or at least I don't think its something that we have to get distressed about.
Homosexual and lesbianism is based upon lust not love......the bible is clear...those who practice such activities have been given over to a reprobate mind void of judgment and this type of activity is based upon pure lust, not of God and has nothing at all to do with real, genuine love according to the word of God....either receive it or reject it....period!
 

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Posting a donkey so to fly under the radar with a direct cursing at someone who is clearly not being hostile, just disagreeing.

Boy, it's no wonder some Christians are ashamed of their faith...