Rick Santorum wants to ban hardcore pronography - agree or disagree (POLL)

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Should hardcore porn be made illegal n the USA?

  • Agree - there should be a law

    Votes: 74 62.2%
  • Disagree - it should not be illegal

    Votes: 25 21.0%
  • Not sure

    Votes: 5 4.2%
  • I'm an alien from mars

    Votes: 15 12.6%

  • Total voters
    119

Elizabeth619

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I know you were directing some specific comments to, I believe, Nautilus. If you didn't want anyone else to read and comment, you should have posted it privately. By posting it publicly, you are inviting others to comment. That's the way chat boards work.


You don't have to "prove" anything to me. What I would like to get you to understand is that it is possible -- and in fact very common -- to disapprove of something but still accept its legality in the U.S. I've stated this several times, in several different ways, but you still don't seem to get it, because you say things like that, seeming to think I approve of porn and I'm trying to "get" you to approve of porn.

There are a lot of things I don't approve of. I don't approve of people skipping Church for some sporting event. But that is their choice. I'm not going to ask the US to pass a law making church attendance mandatory.

I don't approve of people refusing to date people of another race, just because they are another race. But that is their choice. It would be impossible to "force" someone to find someone of another race attractive, even if we tried, and I wouldn't want to try.

I don't approve of porn. But I am not about to sit here and say that someone else is not allowed to use it within the confines of their own home, as long as it doesn't affect anyone else.

If you tell me, "Okay, I get what you're saying, and because of some of the dangers to society at large, I'm still against keeping it legal," I would accept that, and agree to disagree. But that's not what you're saying. You're saying that you want it to be illegal because you don't like it. Sorry, that I cannot accept. "Not liking" something is not a good enough reason to want to make it illegal.

If it were, I'm pretty sure Brussel sprouts would have been outlawed centuries ago.

And yes, you do have to justify that to me, or risk being seen as a selfish idiot who doesn't understand anything about the American legal system. Now, I know you are neither selfish nor an idiot -- I know you are a loving, Christian person who, based on your writing, is probably above average intelligence. That is why I'm making it an issue. If I thought you were just an idiot, I'd let it go, figuring you just couldn't figure it out. I know you're smarter than that.


If you want it to be illegal, you are in support of taking rights away, by definition.


Just to reiterate, I do NOT think you're wrong to hate porn. It is disgusting. Personally, I don't understand what men who do enjoy it see in it ... What little I've seen is either boring or gross on the level of watching a doctor operate. No thanks.

And, as I said before, if you were to come out and say, "Okay, I understand that making it illegal is restricting a freedom, but I feel, because of the damage porn does to our society, the risks of keeping it legal are greater than the risks of limiting this particular freedom" -- Well, I would disagree with you, but that would be an opinion of yours, not a fact, so you wouldn't be "wrong." Yes, you have said enough to support that position.

Where I draw the line is when you make false statements, like "I am not trying to limit people's rights," when clearly you are, or "Why are you saying that it's a bad thing for me to hate porn," which I have never said nor implied, and in fact have said the opposite several times.

There's nothing wrong with having an emotional reaction to some issue. I get emotional about a lot of stuff. It's what makes us human. And what makes us mature humans is being able to recognize logic within that emotion, rather than throw all sense out the window.
I have stated more than once that people do not benefit from porn. Aside from it being immoral it does have SEVERAL disadvantages. You can argue that all you want, doesnt matter. Yet you try to misconstrue what I say for the sake of an arguement. I do not think it should be illegal just because I don't like it.
Anyway, I am finished with this conversation with you. You approve of it being legal. I do not. So...when you are able to actually carry on a conversation without misconstruing what I say I might continue on. Until then try to understand that just as you have every right to approve of something I have every right to not approve.
Stating my point of view is also not taking away anyone's rights. I am one of those people that thinks just because I have a "right" to do something. That doesn't mean I should do it either.

Then again, maybe you are right in a way. Yes, we both agree porn is wrong..but if others cant figure that out for themselves it is their problem. It is also clear that eventhough Christians are commanded to encourage others and help then turn away from sin the goverment is pretty well putting laws on that to where we can't even do that now. Heaven forbid me try to have a bible study with a porn addict without them screaming I am infringing on their rights.

Anyway... I am sure I will see you around in other threads. I do believe this is the only time I have ever disagreed with you too. lol...
 
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Girls why do these things always end in personal arguing. You both have different views on the matter for different reasons. I'm sure you're both well adjusted moral individuals though. Sometimes I gotta think 'just accept that people feel differently about this'.

If pron's an issue for me personally, then I won't watch it. If other people wish to, the same as any sin, that's their decision. Fair enough?
 
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Encouraging someone away from sin, isn't the same as disallowing them exposure to it. The decision needs to be theirs. Nobody can force anybody to do anything. My mum used to say that if you wrap someone up in cotton wool, they can't deal with the world when it comes off.
 

Elizabeth619

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Encouraging someone away from sin, isn't the same as disallowing them exposure to it. The decision needs to be theirs. Nobody can force anybody to do anything. My mum used to say that if you wrap someone up in cotton wool, they can't deal with the world when it comes off.
You're right. That is why I am backing away from this conversation.
 
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TheGrungeDiva

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Yes, we both agree porn is wrong..but if others cant figure that out for themselves it is their problem.
EXACTLY!

I was not purposely misconstruing what you said. It honestly felt to me like you were saying it should be illegal just because you didn't like it. I'm so glad to hear that I was wrong, and had just misunderstood.

I would love to live in a society where there would be no need for any laws about porn, because all humans had matured to a point where they realized how stupid it was, and no one was interested in it. It's like, we don't need to pass a law making it illegal to eat dirt. A few kids do that just to see what it's like, and by the time they turn 3 or 4 they figure out it's just not that fun. It saddens me that there are so many people in the world so dark that they actually enjoy porn. Indeed, what IS this world coming to?

Anyway... I am sure I will see you around in other threads. I do believe this is the only time I have ever disagreed with you too. lol...
I think so, too, and I'm glad we were able to come to a truce, where we at least seem to understand each other's position, even if we disagree.
 

Elizabeth619

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EXACTLY!

I was not purposely misconstruing what you said. It honestly felt to me like you were saying it should be illegal just because you didn't like it. I'm so glad to hear that I was wrong, and had just misunderstood.

I would love to live in a society where there would be no need for any laws about porn, because all humans had matured to a point where they realized how stupid it was, and no one was interested in it. It's like, we don't need to pass a law making it illegal to eat dirt. A few kids do that just to see what it's like, and by the time they turn 3 or 4 they figure out it's just not that fun. It saddens me that there are so many people in the world so dark that they actually enjoy porn. Indeed, what IS this world coming to?


I think so, too, and I'm glad we were able to come to a truce, where we at least seem to understand each other's position, even if we disagree.
Ive been a hothead lately. I would like to blame is on trying to quit smoking...yeah... ill blame it on that. :D
 
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"zero" and others---Weird? Pornography is weird, and "Christians" defending it sends an even-weirder message, hypocrites.

Of course, the "Church" today emulates MTV as opposed to being reverent and promotes pluralism as opposed to the gospel--- to a) attract more attendance and b) attract more money......but also to, yes, c) corrupt as many as possible and lead them to Hell, and yes, even Christians can go to Hell because salvation can indeed be lost.

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It isn't beneficial. But it's also someone's right.

People call God a tyrant, but he's the one giving us the choice of whether we want to watch porn or not . .
 
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prisonofflesh

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Why should it be illegal? Since when does making something illegal make it disappear?

Certain drugs are illegal, rape is illegal, murder is illegal, drunk driving is illegal. Get my drift?

So what? Make porn illegal and send people to jail for it? Child porn is illegal. It's still out there.

Making something illegal just creates a black market. A black market means bad dudes run it. Bad dudes running it means no good for anyone.

OK, fine. Make it illegal. But don't blame me when your father, brother, husband or son gets sent to jail.

Anybody here have teenagers that have smoked weed? Have YOU ever smoked weed? Please go to jail.

When did Jesus say anything should be illegal? I don't recall that word being in His vocabulary.

Prostitution is illegal in most places. What did Jesus tell the prostitute? You are under arrest? Didn't think so.
 
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According to that mentality we just shouldn't have any laws or rules, because there will be a minority that won't follow them. So basically what you're describing is we should promote anarchy. All because of a minority that can't follow the rules. Great logic.

And actually, the bible does tell us we are to honor the laws of the nation which we live in. Just because Jesus didn't specifically make a point to say something about things being illegal doesn't mean the concept is wrong, or doesn't work. In fact, what do you think the 10 Commandments are? What do you think the law is? What do you think hell is? These are rules, laws, spiritually illegal acts, that we get punished for performing. The bible itself, is in some ways, a handbook of right and wrong, and tells us those who do wrong, break the rules, break the laws, live 'illegally', are to be punished for their disobedience.

I don't see anywhere in the bible where lawlessness, no rules, is encouraged or taught. Nor do i see anywhere in the bible where people should not receive the consequences of their wrongs, except for Jesus saving us from hell. Otherwise, people always had to deal with the consequences of doing wrong.
 
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the issue you will run into with banning it, is this is a slippery slope, today porn, tomorrow who knows what else? the same freedom that allows porn to exist is the one that allows us to worship without interference, banning something doesn't stop it, teaching the truth about it is much more effective, saving people and allowing God to work against it is much more effective, Alcohol is one of the enemeys favorite tools to destroy homes and family, and we all know what happened when we attempted to ban it, if they want to spend money and time trying to stop porn, spend more time trying to stop child porn, thats something that needs to be stopped completely, it destroys children, if the resources were dedicated to it that need to be, it could be stopped 100 percent, and I will support that. While we may not agree with it, most other porn is made by people old enough to make their own decisions
 
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In the beginning, there was God. And God made the Earth. And God made Adam and Eve.

And God gave them free will.

Before they knew sin, before they knew lies, before they knew pain, toil, or even blame, what they had was choice.

That was God's will.
 
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prisonofflesh

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According to that mentality we just shouldn't have any laws or rules, because there will be a minority that won't follow them. So basically what you're describing is we should promote anarchy. All because of a minority that can't follow the rules. Great logic.

And actually, the bible does tell us we are to honor the laws of the nation which we live in. Just because Jesus didn't specifically make a point to say something about things being illegal doesn't mean the concept is wrong, or doesn't work. In fact, what do you think the 10 Commandments are? What do you think the law is? What do you think hell is? These are rules, laws, spiritually illegal acts, that we get punished for performing. The bible itself, is in some ways, a handbook of right and wrong, and tells us those who do wrong, break the rules, break the laws, live 'illegally', are to be punished for their disobedience.

I don't see anywhere in the bible where lawlessness, no rules, is encouraged or taught. Nor do i see anywhere in the bible where people should not receive the consequences of their wrongs, except for Jesus saving us from hell. Otherwise, people always had to deal with the consequences of doing wrong.
You're putting words in my mouth. I didn't say we shouldn't have any laws and anarchy never entered my mind. I don't understand your need to make everything you don't agree with, illegal. Good grief, we're talking about porn here. I don't recall anyone ever being injured because somebody else watched porn.

Where does the Bible tell us to honor the laws of a nation? If you could quote that for me, that would be great, but somehow I doubt you'll be able to. The Bible does tell us to respect the AUTHORITIES of a nation. The authorities are PEOPLE. According to you, if tomorrow I wake up and Christianity is illegal, I should give up Christianity. Just so you know, there are many countries around the world where the Bible and talking about Christ, is illegal. I guess the missionaries and Christians in those countries shouldn't be there.

Even if we still lived under the Law from the OT, which we don't, you still wouldn't be able to compare it to the laws of our governments. Do you know how many new laws are passed every year? You don't, the president doesn't know, no one in congress or the senate knows and no lawyer knows. Nobody knows. You wouldn't be able to keep track of all the new tax laws that pass in 1 year, even if you wanted to.

I can keep track of the 10 Commandments just fine. That's only 10 rules and nobody here can claim they haven't broken at least 1! (more like 9)

We're probably all breaking laws on a daily without even knowing it.

Where in NT does it say people should be punished for their wrongs?

If anyone is blameless, let him throw the first stone. No?

God will judge each and every one of us. I don't see how making porn illegal or sending people to jail for smoking weed makes any difference. Sorry.
 
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i'm not defending porn, but I am defending the right for people to make decisions,thats why we have this thing called freedom, thats why God gave us free will, to do what he says or not do what he says , I choose not to look at it, but I dont want the government trying to make that decision for me
 

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Eh I dont see how porn is ruining peoples marriages or is causing prostitution prostitution existed before pornography. I think whats ruining peoples marriages and causing violence is, psychotic people who have no control over their emotions and blame things like porn... lol
 
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You're putting words in my mouth. I didn't say we shouldn't have any laws and anarchy never entered my mind. I don't understand your need to make everything you don't agree with, illegal. Good grief, we're talking about porn here. I don't recall anyone ever being injured because somebody else watched porn.

Oh where to start. Though masturbation may be nearly a 'victimless' crime, porn is FAR from it. I can provide you with about 20+ hours of vids on this if you doubt me.

Where does the Bible tell us to honor the laws of a nation? If you could quote that for me, that would be great, but somehow I doubt you'll be able to. The Bible does tell us to respect the AUTHORITIES of a nation. The authorities are PEOPLE. According to you, if tomorrow I wake up and Christianity is illegal, I should give up Christianity. Just so you know, there are many countries around the world where the Bible and talking about Christ, is illegal. I guess the missionaries and Christians in those countries shouldn't be there.

Well, there is this also: 'Dear friends, I urge you, as foreigners and exiles, to abstain from sinful desires, which wage war against your soul. 12 Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.' from 1 Peter 2 11-12. How does one live a life that appears good to people apart from God's law? By living their life in accordance with what they define as 'good.' In a nation that would involve following the nation's laws which define 'good' behavior therein.

Even if we still lived under the Law from the OT, which we don't, you still wouldn't be able to compare it to the laws of our governments. Do you know how many new laws are passed every year? You don't, the president doesn't know, no one in congress or the senate knows and no lawyer knows. Nobody knows. You wouldn't be able to keep track of all the new tax laws that pass in 1 year, even if you wanted to.

I can keep track of the 10 Commandments just fine. That's only 10 rules and nobody here can claim they haven't broken at least 1! (more like 9)

We're probably all breaking laws on a daily without even knowing it.

So are you proposing that this is a valid excuse? Or that you equate a law banning pornography on the same level as obscure tax law that affects .001% of america?

Where in NT does it say people should be punished for their wrongs?

Would you accept excommunication as punishment?
But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people.2 What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside. “Expel the wicked person from among you.”
1 Corinthians 5:11-13


If anyone is blameless, let him throw the first stone. No?

Is this intended to be a biblical argument, or just a pop culture reference?

God will judge each and every one of us. I don't see how making porn illegal or sending people to jail for smoking weed makes any difference. Sorry.

And what of the men and women who get tricked into engaging in it? Forget for now about the few women who make it a career choice. There are far more that don't.
Are these God's thoughts?
 
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prisonofflesh

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Oh where to start. Though masturbation may be nearly a 'victimless' crime, porn is FAR from it. I can provide you with about 20+ hours of vids on this if you doubt me.
I get your point. But tell me how making porn illegal will make it to where there are no victims? Turning something into an illegal activity always makes it more dangerous because, well, it's illegal. Therefore criminals run the show.

As a side note, should we make cars illegal? How about construction work? Maybe firefighting as well. I mean people die doing those things so why not make them illegal?

Dear friends, I urge you, as foreigners and exiles, to abstain from sinful desires...
Laws don't tell us what is sinful and what isn't. God does.

...live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.
Daniel was accused of doing wrong: he didn't follow the law, he didn't bow down. But when you live a life that glorifies God, you become a light to the world and the pagans will come to glorify God.

How does one live a life that appears good to people apart from God's law? By living their life in accordance with what they define as 'good.' In a nation that would involve following the nation's laws which define 'good' behavior therein.
This pretty much sums it up. It doesn't say "a life that APPEARS good" and it definitely doesn't say "APART from God's law". "...in accordance with what THEY define as good"? "...following the nation's laws which define good behavior therein."

God's "Laws" are SUPERIOR to man's "laws". Period. Living a "good" life does not mean following man's laws.

"Live such good lives among pagans..." GOOD=GODLY What is good to man does not equal good to God.

What you're saying is if I go live in an Islamic State, I should stone the adulteress to death in an effort to show the people that I am "good" by following the nation's laws.

So are you proposing that this is a valid excuse? Or that you equate a law banning pornography on the same level as obscure tax law that affects .001% of america?
I didn't know I was making an excuse for something. And if I was, I still don't understand what I'm making an excuse for.

Again, the point is that man made laws are just that, MAN MADE.

Are laws banning pornography on the same level as tax laws? Hmmm... Beside the point. Not sure where you're coming from.

Would you accept excommunication as punishment?
But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people.2 What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside. “Expel the wicked person from among you.”
1 Corinthians 5:11-13
You're taking something that is meant for the Church and applying that to the entire world.

If I wrote you a letter telling you to kill your dog because it's sick, you wouldn't go to CNN and tell them they need to tell everybody to put their dogs down because they're sick.

Again, you're mixing Holiness with man's idea of justice. Of course people are going to be punished. People will end up in hell. But nowhere does it say we need to go out there and judge and punish people ourselves for doing wrong. Meaning it's not our job to punish people for smoking weed or watching porn. But by saying "we need to make this and that illegal because it's immoral and I don't approve", you're using the government as a proxy for handing out judgement and punishment.


Is this intended to be a biblical argument, or just a pop culture reference?
John 8: 3-11 : 3 The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before the group 4 and said to Jesus, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5 In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?” 6 They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him.But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. 7 When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.”8 Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground.
9 At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. 10 Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”
11 “No one, sir,” she said.
“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin."

Hope that answers your question.

Notice how they tried to trap him so they could accuse him. They accused him of many things and he ended up on the cross. You see, Jesus broke many of their laws and they didn't like him much because of it.


And what of the men and women who get tricked into engaging in it? Forget for now about the few women who make it a career choice. There are far more that don't.
Making a statement doesn't make it true. I think your ratio of willing to unwilling is a little off.

I don't give money to the humane society just because they show me a few puppies while playing sad music while a paid actor tells me how horrible their lives are.

And by the way, what you're saying supports what I've already said. If you really believe that most women are tricked into it, how many more will be tricked if porn is made illegal? If it's illegal, where is the incentive to compensate the women for their "work"?


We all agree that porn is wrong! What you haven't been able to explain to me is: "how does making it illegal change anything?"

How does this country become a better place by making porn illegal?

Making anything illegal makes it a precious commodity. That's why people engage in illegal activities. There's a lot of money to be made.
 

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the women that get tricked into it? really? women dont get tricked into legitimate porn. they know what they are doing. Sure someone may be unknowingly videotaped, but that isnt the porn santorum was even discussing.
 
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the women that get tricked into it? really? women dont get tricked into legitimate porn. they know what they are doing. Sure someone may be unknowingly videotaped, but that isnt the porn santorum was even discussing.
Beg to differ, Nautilus.

There are women who are promised careers in "the film industry." Usually it's women from other countries who don't speak English well, but I've seen it happen to American women, too. They come to Hollywood to pursue a career in film, and they get a phone call. "I saw you at that audition last week. You didn't get the part, but I thought you were great. I'm working on a film, I think you'd be perfect for it...."

It happens all the time.
 
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prisonofflesh

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Beg to differ, Nautilus.

There are women who are promised careers in "the film industry." Usually it's women from other countries who don't speak English well, but I've seen it happen to American women, too. They come to Hollywood to pursue a career in film, and they get a phone call. "I saw you at that audition last week. You didn't get the part, but I thought you were great. I'm working on a film, I think you'd be perfect for it...."

It happens all the time.

You'd be perfect for it... one thing leads to another and next thing they know they're in a porno!
"Mom, Dad, I don't know what happened! I thought I was acting, but obviously this DVD says otherwise!"

Really? Come on.