The "jerks" know the dating game. See from my experience its not that men are jerks from the get-go. I have seen very nice boys grow up to be a "jerk".
The guys perspective. On men.
These guys are usually more attractive then the nice guys. They notice from a early age they have a leg up on everyone else. Everyone thinks they are cute and adorable. And with the old spider man motto with power comes irresponsibility!
So with this power the start to test it just like all men do. If a 16 year old boy is given a brand new Lamborghini Adventedor yah he might drive speed limit for a day, But he will begin to test how fast the car really is. Until he knows his limits, usually going above his limits and ending up pulled over or in the hospital.
The boys begin to start to test how they can get away with certain things. They begin with baby steps and grow their knowledge. See these men have realized it is much easier for them to treat a women with not respect, like a dog if you will, then to treat them as gold. It is easier to not pay attention to their emotional feelings then to listen. And everyone knows its true, it is easier to tell your friend rub some dirt in it, then to listen to a hour long story and then give a 30 minute explanation...
Mans perspective on why women Go out with them and stay with them
So everyone thinks these women want to be degraded and mistreated...???
That is total bogus... These women find a cute looking man who is extremely flirty and fun to be around. See these men are not beginners are the dating game. They know how to keep a woman's interest, what to say, and how to say it... They know the in's and out's of every detail there is about a new relationship...
They are easier to get to know and funner to get to know,
No one likes going on a date and saying, whats your favorite color... Whats your last name... What do you do for a living...
These men instead go out on a date and bring up topics in funny our hilarious manners. They keep the girl laughing and feeling like they are talking to a best friend. Not the dreaded interview dating.
So these women end up thinking this man is funny, charming, nice, and GOOD LOOKING! They begin to become attached and around this point the man begins to care less... The girl will strive to bring the relationship out of the waters and tries to keep the "Romance" alive... The more she tries the more the guy see's this and cares less... its a repeating cycle...
(PERSONAL EXPERIENCE!!!!! NOT SAYING ANYONE IS THIS!)
These women when they become attached have some type of man missing from their lives, they usually find this "Jerk" fills the void they have in them.
So that's the way I see it... I am not a ladies man, I do not get women hand over fist... But, this is what I have noticed... The "Nice" guys are usually nice because they have not been tainted by their own EGO'S!
