Lady cards have no power here either...
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Manicures - I think they hurt and I can do a great job myself, thank you
Pedicures - I don't like other people touching my feet/legs
Heels - Death trap. Though, I do want to wear them more just because.
Shoes in general - I'm not a shoe person. I really don't care. I'm a purse girl, though
Chick flicks - Just...no. Action movies are where it's at.
Fixing my hair - Ain't nobody got time fo' dat
Pedicures - I don't like other people touching my feet/legs
Heels - Death trap. Though, I do want to wear them more just because.
Shoes in general - I'm not a shoe person. I really don't care. I'm a purse girl, though
Chick flicks - Just...no. Action movies are where it's at.
Fixing my hair - Ain't nobody got time fo' dat
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I don't wear heels (only on special occasions, dates), I don't have a collection of shoes, I don't take forever to get ready for a date, I don't excessively say the word 'like', I naturally get along with guys more than girls and have had more guy friends then girl friends in the past. I've had some of the best times with my guy friends. I hate going shopping with girl friends. I like playing old Nintendo games. I don't get my nails done.
R
No salons except for the once a year haircut
No make up
Rarely wear heels and if I do they're only 1-2 inches
Rarely ever dress up
Rarely fix my hair
I love being in sweats :/
I can get ready in 10-15 minutes
I don't stare at myself constantly in mirrors lol
I keep my skin covered O:
I dislike sexy photo poses... Makes me feel weird
I only carry a wallet and my work bag when I go to work
I hate shopping... All shopping including groceries lol
No make up
Rarely wear heels and if I do they're only 1-2 inches
Rarely ever dress up
Rarely fix my hair
I love being in sweats :/
I can get ready in 10-15 minutes
I don't stare at myself constantly in mirrors lol
I keep my skin covered O:
I dislike sexy photo poses... Makes me feel weird
I only carry a wallet and my work bag when I go to work
I hate shopping... All shopping including groceries lol
i embrace the pasty and freckled (no tanning)
i wear very little makeup most of the time
i hate most shopping, and i don't do the mall thing, almost never
if i am shopping, i won't try anything on
i love shooting and archery
i leave my fingernails natural and short, and do my own pedicures
i have pretty easy, almost "wash and wear" hair
at home i live in men's t shirts/tanks and yoga or track pants
i wear very little makeup most of the time
i hate most shopping, and i don't do the mall thing, almost never
if i am shopping, i won't try anything on
i love shooting and archery
i leave my fingernails natural and short, and do my own pedicures
i have pretty easy, almost "wash and wear" hair
at home i live in men's t shirts/tanks and yoga or track pants
U
Hmm... it seems to me most of whats being said here is the same things. It doesn't really do much for the validity of the 'woman card' if all the women are denying the same things. It would seem the concept of the woman cards standards are misunderstood if all the women are of the same mind in denying all the same areas.
And really, much of this stuff is pretty normal for women anymore.
And really, much of this stuff is pretty normal for women anymore.
U
*hands over lady card to Ugly*
Tell us how it's done then, tell us what things DO go against typical female stereotype...stuff...!
Tell us how it's done then, tell us what things DO go against typical female stereotype...stuff...!
I'm not even saying i know. But if all the women are saying the same thing, how is that going against standard? Sounds as though the way women perceive the standard vs the reality of the standard is different. Personally, i think this 'woman card' standard is more of a Hollywood/marketing standard, but the actual day to day woman, the real women that we all interact with on a day to day basis, don't fit into the Hollywood/marketing standard (thankfully). So, i suppose the challenge here is are women going to define a 'woman card' by Hollywood/marketing standards or by 'real day to day women' standards?
It's okay Seoul, no one can take away your lady card, either.
(What other womanly things do you hate, eh?)
(What other womanly things do you hate, eh?)
It makes Jesus cry. It almost made me cry.
There's also super popular show among girls, called Pretty Little Liars. HATE IT!
Rachel mentioned heels. I'm with her. Also...really any type of dressy shoe I can't stand to wear more than 10 minutes. Even 10 minutes is pushing it.
It's all about things that are iconically (or humorously) feminine, just like the male counterpart. So while you may get a man card for growing an incredible beard, a woman could get points on her woman card for learning to walk very gracefully in heels.
A man could get major points for building a house, and a woman gets tons of points for giving birth.
Also, I know PLENTY of women who love chick flicks, are shopaholics, and could probably do a triathlon in 4 inch stiletto heels. Just because the majority of the women HERE don't do or enjoy those things doesn't mean that the "woman card" is that unrealistic.
To prove my point, I'll throw in some stuff that Could earn me points on MY woman card:
I can cook
I have sewn my own clothes before, and yes they were perfectly presentable.
Though I don't prefer walking in heels, I can walk very gracefully in them when I do wear them.
I enjoy wearing skirts and dresses. In fact I wear them 95% of the time
and back to the OP. Things that could get my woman-card revoked:
i despise shopping for clothes/accessories. I despise it with a fiery burning passion.
I rate the majority of chick flicks as awful.
I have never had a professional pedicure.
A man could get major points for building a house, and a woman gets tons of points for giving birth.
Also, I know PLENTY of women who love chick flicks, are shopaholics, and could probably do a triathlon in 4 inch stiletto heels. Just because the majority of the women HERE don't do or enjoy those things doesn't mean that the "woman card" is that unrealistic.
To prove my point, I'll throw in some stuff that Could earn me points on MY woman card:
I can cook
I have sewn my own clothes before, and yes they were perfectly presentable.
Though I don't prefer walking in heels, I can walk very gracefully in them when I do wear them.
I enjoy wearing skirts and dresses. In fact I wear them 95% of the time
and back to the OP. Things that could get my woman-card revoked:
i despise shopping for clothes/accessories. I despise it with a fiery burning passion.
I rate the majority of chick flicks as awful.
I have never had a professional pedicure.
U
It's all about things that are iconically (or humorously) feminine, just like the male counterpart. So while you may get a man card for growing an incredible beard, a woman could get points on her woman card for learning to walk very gracefully in heels.
A man could get major points for building a house, and a woman gets tons of points for giving birth.
Also, I know PLENTY of women who love chick flicks, are shopaholics, and could probably do a triathlon in 4 inch stiletto heels. Just because the majority of the women HERE don't do or enjoy those things doesn't mean that the "woman card" is that unrealistic.
To prove my point, I'll throw in some stuff that Could earn me points on MY woman card:
I can cook
I have sewn my own clothes before, and yes they were perfectly presentable.
Though I don't prefer walking in heels, I can walk very gracefully in them when I do wear them.
I enjoy wearing skirts and dresses. In fact I wear them 95% of the time
and back to the OP. Things that could get my woman-card revoked:
i despise shopping for clothes/accessories. I despise it with a fiery burning passion.
I rate the majority of chick flicks as awful.
I have never had a professional pedicure.
A man could get major points for building a house, and a woman gets tons of points for giving birth.
Also, I know PLENTY of women who love chick flicks, are shopaholics, and could probably do a triathlon in 4 inch stiletto heels. Just because the majority of the women HERE don't do or enjoy those things doesn't mean that the "woman card" is that unrealistic.
To prove my point, I'll throw in some stuff that Could earn me points on MY woman card:
I can cook
I have sewn my own clothes before, and yes they were perfectly presentable.
Though I don't prefer walking in heels, I can walk very gracefully in them when I do wear them.
I enjoy wearing skirts and dresses. In fact I wear them 95% of the time
and back to the OP. Things that could get my woman-card revoked:
i despise shopping for clothes/accessories. I despise it with a fiery burning passion.
I rate the majority of chick flicks as awful.
I have never had a professional pedicure.