A Man desires a Woman
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I QUIT. I'm getting a dog. I had a moment of flesh, weakness. I let my desires get the best of me and forgot to live in the spirit for the moment. This is why we don't rely on our own understanding but the understanding of the Almighty! Real men don't get lonely. I have decided to go to the highest mountain and find the highest temple and learn the ways of enlightenment... and some kung fu. I realize it is my destiny to have my head beat into a sand bag for two hours a day for the rest of my days. Then I will punch brick for two hours and then do front flips where I will land on my head and roll to land back on my feet. I will become one with myself and spirit. Then I might eat the dog if I get hungry after fasting for 6 months. 
“And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone;"
I QUIT. I'm getting a dog. I had a moment of flesh, weakness. I let my desires get the best of me and forgot to live in the spirit for the moment. This is why we don't rely on our own understanding but the understanding of the Almighty! Real men don't get lonely. I have decided to go to the highest mountain and find the highest temple and learn the ways of enlightenment... and some kung fu. I realize it is my destiny to have my head beat into a sand bag for two hours a day for the rest of my days. Then I will punch brick for two hours and then do front flips where I will land on my head and roll to land back on my feet. I will become one with myself and spirit. Then I might eat the dog if I get hungry after fasting for 6 months.
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Oh man I am never gonna live this one down am I, boohoohoo! On the other hand that could be a good way to pick a winner. ... The first lady who can beat me in a farting, burping, spitting, chugging contest will win my hand in marriage. We will live in our new house with his and hers side by side toilets, share the same toothbrush and see who can produce the fiercest body odor over the period of two weeks. This will be the honey moon period. I almost feel like I may have taken this a step too far... Ladies, thank you for putting up with me while my imagination takes over!
Sorry I'm a bit late to the party, but I'd been wanting to drop by for a while.
A while back, we used to have a gentleman in his 50's here who would regularly sing the praises of dating and trying to marry young, submissive Asian women. If a man is wanting to do that, it's totally his choice, but I also think that while many men are dreaming of a "feminine", "delicate", "womanly" woman, it's also important to keep some realities in mind.
I'm no expert, but I've been around several relationships in which the men went after "more womanly" foreign brides, for the very same reasons stated in this thread.
One of the things that caught these men off guard is that I don't think they anticipated some of the extra costs involved. Yes, family is VERY important in such cultures. Therefore--are you prepared to support not just her, but her entire family? In some of these cultures, especially Asian, you will be expected to support her ties to her family, and to possibly directly support her other family members as well.
This may or may not include: regular visits back to her home country to see her family (doubly so if you have children, which her family will of course, want to have close ties with); supporting her parents and younger siblings if she has them; and, when her parents get older, you may be expected to either bring them to your home country to care for them or move to her country to look after them for the time they have left.
I've heard many men talk about how terrible it is to have to pay for a woman's dinner--I'm wondering how they'd feel about paying for her entire family. But the reality can easily be lost in the fantasy of finding a "real" woman in an exotic country.
I was raised here in the USA, and I've never been ashamed of that fact. I come from a country in which, yes, women are seen as weaker and delicate, meaning, that for whatever her reasons were, my birth mother placed me in a cardboard box and left me on a curb, because the social norm there is to get rid of an unwanted child by any means possible, not raise him or her as a single mother, which would be completely disgraceful.
Well at least the government has found a way to make use of unwanted kids--by pretty much putting putting them up for sale via adoption. Gotta love those Asian countries with good old-fashioned family values!
The US definitely has its flaws and weaknesses. But I'm proud to at least live in a country where a good number of women (and men) are at least strong enough to choose to raise children themselves instead of literally throwing them away. Even women who don't have children of their own often take on the task of raising other young family members (yes, I know this happens in Asian countries as well but my point is, here in the US, many women are raised to be strong enough to raise others, as well as financially supporting them.)
I was talking to a woman at work today whose hobby (and I know several other women who love this as well) is redesigning antique furniture and remodeling houses. She's redone her own house from the inside out, is completely self-taught, and is thinking about taking it up as a second job or part-time business. And yes, for this kind of work, when you're hauling things like tables, sinks, and lumbar, a "feminine" car (what would that be exactly... a pink Smart Car?) just isn't going to cut it.
Most people today are not finding their potential spouse until later on in life. This means that we all have to spend several years fending for ourselves until (or if ever) we should meet that special someone. This would mean getting an education and a job, and if you're going to do that, you're going to have to take on a stance that apparently some men will find "unfeminine".
Most women (and I'm sure many men as well) I know have undergone some kind of sexual harassment in their daily lives--most often, at their jobs--and I, for one, always strive to be strong enough to stand up to wrongdoing, whether against myself, or others who have "weaker", more "delicate" personalities.
As much as I've love to spend my life in a tower waiting for someone to rescue me, I personally believe that the most "womanly" thing I can do in the meantime is to get out, learn as much as I can, and become a strong, capable, fully independent adult. I'm certainly not saying that women in foreign countries are any less; I just like to keep things balanced by throwing in a few reality checks.
This is just my own personal point of view, but I believe that God made the Proverbs 31 woman to be an active help mate... and not a passive lap dog.
A while back, we used to have a gentleman in his 50's here who would regularly sing the praises of dating and trying to marry young, submissive Asian women. If a man is wanting to do that, it's totally his choice, but I also think that while many men are dreaming of a "feminine", "delicate", "womanly" woman, it's also important to keep some realities in mind.
I'm no expert, but I've been around several relationships in which the men went after "more womanly" foreign brides, for the very same reasons stated in this thread.
One of the things that caught these men off guard is that I don't think they anticipated some of the extra costs involved. Yes, family is VERY important in such cultures. Therefore--are you prepared to support not just her, but her entire family? In some of these cultures, especially Asian, you will be expected to support her ties to her family, and to possibly directly support her other family members as well.
This may or may not include: regular visits back to her home country to see her family (doubly so if you have children, which her family will of course, want to have close ties with); supporting her parents and younger siblings if she has them; and, when her parents get older, you may be expected to either bring them to your home country to care for them or move to her country to look after them for the time they have left.
I've heard many men talk about how terrible it is to have to pay for a woman's dinner--I'm wondering how they'd feel about paying for her entire family. But the reality can easily be lost in the fantasy of finding a "real" woman in an exotic country.
I was raised here in the USA, and I've never been ashamed of that fact. I come from a country in which, yes, women are seen as weaker and delicate, meaning, that for whatever her reasons were, my birth mother placed me in a cardboard box and left me on a curb, because the social norm there is to get rid of an unwanted child by any means possible, not raise him or her as a single mother, which would be completely disgraceful.
Well at least the government has found a way to make use of unwanted kids--by pretty much putting putting them up for sale via adoption. Gotta love those Asian countries with good old-fashioned family values!
The US definitely has its flaws and weaknesses. But I'm proud to at least live in a country where a good number of women (and men) are at least strong enough to choose to raise children themselves instead of literally throwing them away. Even women who don't have children of their own often take on the task of raising other young family members (yes, I know this happens in Asian countries as well but my point is, here in the US, many women are raised to be strong enough to raise others, as well as financially supporting them.)
I was talking to a woman at work today whose hobby (and I know several other women who love this as well) is redesigning antique furniture and remodeling houses. She's redone her own house from the inside out, is completely self-taught, and is thinking about taking it up as a second job or part-time business. And yes, for this kind of work, when you're hauling things like tables, sinks, and lumbar, a "feminine" car (what would that be exactly... a pink Smart Car?) just isn't going to cut it.
Most people today are not finding their potential spouse until later on in life. This means that we all have to spend several years fending for ourselves until (or if ever) we should meet that special someone. This would mean getting an education and a job, and if you're going to do that, you're going to have to take on a stance that apparently some men will find "unfeminine".
Most women (and I'm sure many men as well) I know have undergone some kind of sexual harassment in their daily lives--most often, at their jobs--and I, for one, always strive to be strong enough to stand up to wrongdoing, whether against myself, or others who have "weaker", more "delicate" personalities.
As much as I've love to spend my life in a tower waiting for someone to rescue me, I personally believe that the most "womanly" thing I can do in the meantime is to get out, learn as much as I can, and become a strong, capable, fully independent adult. I'm certainly not saying that women in foreign countries are any less; I just like to keep things balanced by throwing in a few reality checks.
This is just my own personal point of view, but I believe that God made the Proverbs 31 woman to be an active help mate... and not a passive lap dog.
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Oh man I am never gonna live this one down am I, boohoohoo! On the other hand that could be a good way to pick a winner. ... The first lady who can beat me in a farting, burping, spitting, chugging contest will win my hand in marriage. We will live in our new house with his and hers side by side toilets, share the same toothbrush and see who can produce the fiercest body odor over the period of two weeks. This will be the honey moon period. I almost feel like I may have taken this a step too far... Ladies, thank you for putting up with me while my imagination takes over!
Enjoying "humanness" side by side... Well, it is realistic!
P.S. As most here are accustomed to, I'm sorry for the typos in my post. I always try to re-read what I post but seem to somehow always manage to miss a few things here and there.
But I'm working on being strong enough to store up a big enough stash of chocolate, tea, and wine gum candy in order to hire some other brave CC members as my personal editors (ongoing joke from another thread.)
But I'm working on being strong enough to store up a big enough stash of chocolate, tea, and wine gum candy in order to hire some other brave CC members as my personal editors
(ongoing joke from another thread.)
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P.S. As most here are accustomed to, I'm sorry for the typos in my post. I always try to re-read what I post but seem to somehow always manage to miss a few things here and there.
But I'm working on being strong enough to store up a big enough stash of chocolate, tea, and wine gum candy in order to hire some other brave CC members as my personal editors (ongoing joke from another thread.)
But I'm working on being strong enough to store up a big enough stash of chocolate, tea, and wine gum candy in order to hire some other brave CC members as my personal editors
(ongoing joke from another thread.)
I QUIT. I'm getting a dog. I had a moment of flesh, weakness. I let my desires get the best of me and forgot to live in the spirit for the moment. This is why we don't rely on our own understanding but the understanding of the Almighty! Real men don't get lonely. I have decided to go to the highest mountain and find the highest temple and learn the ways of enlightenment... and some kung fu. I realize it is my destiny to have my head beat into a sand bag for two hours a day for the rest of my days. Then I will punch brick for two hours and then do front flips where I will land on my head and roll to land back on my feet. I will become one with myself and spirit. Then I might eat the dog if I get hungry after fasting for 6 months.
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I do believe it is vital for the woman and the man to do what is necessary to make a family work if they are going to make one. A woman having a craft, trade or even a hobby that she can excel at and add meaningful value to the family should be an obligation. I have not known women in my encounters to seek to better themselves for the good of the family but rather for their own gains. I have known many women who's only desire is when they will be able to ditch the man and go shake their rompis on the dance floor. In fact, that is about all that I have known is maybe not even women but men too who are just out for themselves and I don't fit in with that thinking and I have not for a long time. Maybe it is where I live and maybe it is US or world wide, the Hollywood lust that has taken over everybody's spirit and their temptations that they give in to. Perhaps the people have been trained up by sex scenes and pornography.
Pornography is another thing that has stepped into relationships where it does not belong. Some women or the tv portrays it that they accept that, that is who the man is and porn is ok and it doesn't hurt anyone. That is far from true. It is a poison a serpent that infiltrates and burrows to destroy and sickens the minds of those who allow it in. Even promiscuous flirtations such as music videos that show half naked women twerking and.... bikini magazines even have the same harmful effects of pornography. It is so readily available to even children and nobody can search through the youtube home screen without seeing a half naked body or some seductive selfie on facebook.
Aside, I know there are those men and women who have not been deceived by such vial temptations of the enemy and reckless actions of sinful flesh. Then there are those that had to learn the hard way and those who don't care. Unfortunately for me, I have only known the dark side of the world until recently. I asked God to show me the Good in the world, I told him that I was tired of the bad and that if there was good to please reveal it to me and God answered in many ways. God is awesome! This started out as a search for opinions but is maybe turning into a quest for what is unknown to me... Godly people, those who live to seek out the Lord. I had to get myself right first and that meant giving up the old life and drawing close to God.
I know what it is to be emotionally abused and physically abused, cheated on, lied to, ripped off, deceived, I know what it feels to give everything and get nothing but hatred in return. I know the depths of pain and suffering and I leave that all behind. So what I seek now is Love, forgiveness, joy, laughter, smiles that mean something, and Christ first. No longer do I want to be effected by how someone is treating me but overcome with love.
I do not have the confidence to get through one day without Jesus let alone try to engage someone.
So I guess you pulled it out of me. But here comes the punchline.
After having everything above me and used as a weapon, a bigger truck than me, more money, older than me, more kids than me,... it was all used to defeat me and crush me. Now I know that it was not because of me but what she was dealing with inside of herself and had to feel she was higher and mightier it became a competition for her and for me just trying not to drown. I little tiny woman in a big enormous truck that made her look like a little child in comparison. does cry out and seeking attention by any means = complete sabotage of marriage.
Everybody should own a pickup truck and a four wheel drive at that, man and woman both. But mine has to be bigger! LOL she can make all the money in the world, but she can spend it on me.
It really isn't about what a woman does but does she do it in LOVE.
I got nothing else, but there is so much more.
Pornography is another thing that has stepped into relationships where it does not belong. Some women or the tv portrays it that they accept that, that is who the man is and porn is ok and it doesn't hurt anyone. That is far from true. It is a poison a serpent that infiltrates and burrows to destroy and sickens the minds of those who allow it in. Even promiscuous flirtations such as music videos that show half naked women twerking and.... bikini magazines even have the same harmful effects of pornography. It is so readily available to even children and nobody can search through the youtube home screen without seeing a half naked body or some seductive selfie on facebook.
Aside, I know there are those men and women who have not been deceived by such vial temptations of the enemy and reckless actions of sinful flesh. Then there are those that had to learn the hard way and those who don't care. Unfortunately for me, I have only known the dark side of the world until recently. I asked God to show me the Good in the world, I told him that I was tired of the bad and that if there was good to please reveal it to me and God answered in many ways. God is awesome! This started out as a search for opinions but is maybe turning into a quest for what is unknown to me... Godly people, those who live to seek out the Lord. I had to get myself right first and that meant giving up the old life and drawing close to God.
I know what it is to be emotionally abused and physically abused, cheated on, lied to, ripped off, deceived, I know what it feels to give everything and get nothing but hatred in return. I know the depths of pain and suffering and I leave that all behind. So what I seek now is Love, forgiveness, joy, laughter, smiles that mean something, and Christ first. No longer do I want to be effected by how someone is treating me but overcome with love.
I do not have the confidence to get through one day without Jesus let alone try to engage someone.
So I guess you pulled it out of me. But here comes the punchline.
After having everything above me and used as a weapon, a bigger truck than me, more money, older than me, more kids than me,... it was all used to defeat me and crush me. Now I know that it was not because of me but what she was dealing with inside of herself and had to feel she was higher and mightier it became a competition for her and for me just trying not to drown. I little tiny woman in a big enormous truck that made her look like a little child in comparison. does cry out and seeking attention by any means = complete sabotage of marriage.
Everybody should own a pickup truck and a four wheel drive at that, man and woman both. But mine has to be bigger! LOL she can make all the money in the world, but she can spend it on me.
It really isn't about what a woman does but does she do it in LOVE.
I got nothing else, but there is so much more.