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JesusLives

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Im not trolling, Im just not going down without a fight. Second, I might not even get married.

I'm thinking this is a probable true statement....however, if you soften a bit and learn to love a little more like 1 Corinthians chapter 13....There might be a chance.
 
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coby

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She was deceived, Adam knowingly sinned, which is greater or are they both equal in guilt?
But it is the reason she has to submit.
Let a woman learn in silence with all submission.*12*And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence.*13*For Adam was formed first, then Eve.*14*And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression.

I'll shut up now.

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CatHerder

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She was deceived, Adam knowingly sinned, which is greater or are they both equal in guilt?
This is a very interesting question, and certainly worthy of its own thread. I often wonder - if Adam had not sinned after Eve's deception, would God have intervened as he did after Adam's sin? Since only after Adam sinned that "both their eyes were opened" (Gen 3:7) it suggests that the Fall would not have happened if only Eve had eaten the fruit.
This also suggests an acknowledgement of the man as the head: their eyes were opened after HE took the fruit...and as the head goes, so goes the whole body. The fact that God addresses the man first in verse 9, further holds the man accountable.

Some will say this is not the case because of the difference between being deceived and intentional sin. Others may look at this as the first acknowledgement of man as the spiritual head of the family. Maybe it's both.

I am certainly more motivated to look at this further, so I thank you for bringing it up!!
 

JesusLives

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But it is the reason she has to submit.
Let a woman learn in silence with all submission.*12*And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence.*13*For Adam was formed first, then Eve.*14*And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression.

I'll shut up now.

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I have no problem submitting to my husband, however, I might have a problem if he tried to rule with an iron fist.
 

JesusLives

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This is a very interesting question, and certainly worthy of its own thread. I often wonder - if Adam had not sinned after Eve's deception, would God have intervened as he did after Adam's sin? Since only after Adam sinned that "both their eyes were opened" (Gen 3:7) it suggests that the Fall would not have happened if only Eve had eaten the fruit.
This also suggests an acknowledgement of the man as the head: their eyes were opened after HE took the fruit...and as the head goes, so goes the whole body. The fact that God addresses the man first in verse 9, further holds the man accountable.

Some will say this is not the case because of the difference between being deceived and intentional sin. Others may look at this as the first acknowledgement of man as the spiritual head of the family. Maybe it's both.

I am certainly more motivated to look at this further, so I thank you for bringing it up!!
I see it as equal guilt on both their parts - You are right though it would be interesting to know what God would have done if only Eve sinned....Maybe it's a good question to ask God when we see Him....
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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This is a very interesting question, and certainly worthy of its own thread. I often wonder - if Adam had not sinned after Eve's deception, would God have intervened as he did after Adam's sin? Since only after Adam sinned that "both their eyes were opened" (Gen 3:7) it suggests that the Fall would not have happened if only Eve had eaten the fruit.
The prevailing interpretation seems to be that the first and original sin still rests with Adam due to his silence, as he was with Eve and the serpent when Eve was being deceived, yet said or did nothing to prevent her partaking of the fruit.

My question, then, is that if Adam was among them, might he have been deceived then, also?
 
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The prevailing interpretation seems to be that the first and original sin still rests with Adam due to his silence, as he was with Eve and the serpent when Eve was being deceived, yet said or did nothing to prevent her partaking of the fruit.

My question, then, is that if Adam was among them, might he have been deceived then, also?
Answer is no. Bible says Adam was not deceived.

1 Timothy 2:14

[SUP]14 [/SUP]And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
 

Angela_grace

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I've thought about this before. Eventually i decided that God knows everything past, present, or future. He already knew they were going to sin before they even thought about sinning. And all the while had the perfect plan for us ( the human race) to be reunited with Him.
 

Lynx

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Sounds like you would believe that, however, woman was made out of a rib from Adam's side not a toe bone for him or you to walk all over her... God took a rib from Adams side so she would walk beside him not in front or behind but beside him. We are human and we are equal in God's eyes.
*Lynx scribbles a note for later.

Not a toe bone for the man to walk on. Gonna have to use that one. :D
 

Lynx

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But it is the reason she has to submit.
Let a woman learn in silence with all submission.*12*And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence.*13*For Adam was formed first, then Eve.*14*And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression.

I'll shut up now.

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*Lynx checks that one off the checklist.

That was predictable. Every time the "Women should submit to their men" topic comes up, someone yanks that scripture out of context and uses it as "proof."

I'm not even going to bother refuting it this time though, because as the OP pointed out THAT IS OFF TOPIC!
Please either revert to the topic of this thread, start a new thread to discuss women submitting or choose one of the many, many, many (many many many many manymanymanymany) threads already started about it.
The prevailing interpretation seems to be that the first and original sin still rests with Adam due to his silence, as he was with Eve and the serpent when Eve was being deceived, yet said or did nothing to prevent her partaking of the fruit.

My question, then, is that if Adam was among them, might he have been deceived then, also?
Curious. I always got the impression Eve was alone when the serpent was talking to her. Can you explain why you think Adam was with her during this conversation?

Mind you, I'm not arguing. I'm intrigued. I have no verses proving she and the serpent were alone, but now I'm curious why Adam was there.
 

CatHerder

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Curious. I always got the impression Eve was alone when the serpent was talking to her. Can you explain why you think Adam was with her during this conversation?

Mind you, I'm not arguing. I'm intrigued. I have no verses proving she and the serpent were alone, but now I'm curious why Adam was there.
It's speculation popularized by John Eldredge in Wild at Heart.

I think it's an interesting theory, but you are correct in that there is no biblical evidence to support this. But there is no biblical evidence to refute it either, so he may be correct.
 

JesusLives

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*Lynx scribbles a note for later.

Not a toe bone for the man to walk on. Gonna have to use that one. :D
Blond does what she can to help write sermons....lol
 

JesusLives

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*Lynx checks that one off the checklist.

That was predictable. Every time the "Women should submit to their men" topic comes up, someone yanks that scripture out of context and uses it as "proof."

I'm not even going to bother refuting it this time though, because as the OP pointed out THAT IS OFF TOPIC!
Please either revert to the topic of this thread, start a new thread to discuss women submitting or choose one of the many, many, many (many many many many manymanymanymany) threads already started about it.

Curious. I always got the impression Eve was alone when the serpent was talking to her. Can you explain why you think Adam was with her during this conversation?

Mind you, I'm not arguing. I'm intrigued. I have no verses proving she and the serpent were alone, but now I'm curious why Adam was there.
There was an if in his sentence so he was just wondering the what if's..... He wasn't saying Adam was there....
 

blue_ladybug

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I have no problem submitting to my husband, however, I might have a problem if he tried to rule with an iron fist.

Tourist's iron fist would meet with Darlene's cast iron frying pan.. ;)
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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Answer is no. Bible says Adam was not deceived.

1 Timothy 2:14

[SUP]14 [/SUP]And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
Oh, interesting. Even more interesting is how the surrounding text focuses on Eve and her transgression, and women's redemption through childbirth; the tone of the text almost makes it seem as though she was the real troublemaker, not Adam.

Curious. I always got the impression Eve was alone when the serpent was talking to her. Can you explain why you think Adam was with her during this conversation?

Mind you, I'm not arguing. I'm intrigued. I have no verses proving she and the serpent were alone, but now I'm curious why Adam was there.
He was waiting for her to make him a sandwich.

Okay, I don't have scripture to back up the sandwich claim, but─

Genesis 3:6 - When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable to make one wise, she took from its fruit and ate; and she gave also to her husband with her, and he ate.

The phrasing, or context, of course, is incumbent upon the translation, though I've read that it's widely inferred (or assumed) that Adam was indeed within earshot of the whole thing. Who really knows? *shrug*
 

phil36

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I'm just putting this out there... But, is the money thing an American thing? It doesn't seem to be as big an issue with european Christians? I'm not sure if thats right but sometimes it seems that way.
 

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Mind you, I'm not arguing. I'm intrigued. I have no verses proving she and the serpent were alone, but now I'm curious why Adam was there.

When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it. Genesis 3:16




 

Lynx

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It's speculation popularized by John Eldredge in Wild at Heart.

I think it's an interesting theory, but you are correct in that there is no biblical evidence to support this. But there is no biblical evidence to refute it either, so he may be correct.
That's what got me curious. I couldn't remember any verses for OR against this theory, and I could swear there were none either way. So I was intrigued.

Now I'm still all curious and no way to find out...