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I think, and I am certainly not an expert in any sense of the word, that a smile back is nice but, you may consider speaking to him in a social gathering to see what intentions are underlying the smile. That way, you will find out what is going on and how far you want it to go and curtail anything you do not want. The guy will know where he stands as well and won't be hoping for anything more than just what you are interested in. Just my opinion. Take it with a grain of salt.

To all the comments: Luke chapter 7, verses 37-42
 
JDean

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Whoa!

First thing I think you might want to do is to cool your jets...

It is a smile. Not an invite to marriage, nor even an invite to dinner - a smile.

The first thing I think you should do (after cooling your jets! :) ) is decide what you might want it to be.

-If you would like to explore dating him, then pray on it and maybe take a leap and ask him out. Saves lots of time and effort worrying about "what all his looks MEAN!" As long as you intend to date in a manner which glorifies God, and respects each other's faithful commitment to our Lord, I see no problem whether he asks you out (which he might be too shy to do) or you ask him out.

-If you do not want it to be a prelude to a date, then prepare a very polite "no" in case he asks you out. Pretty simple really...

As an adult in our society, you have choices and power to decide how you interact with the opposite gender. So long as you treat him with politeness and respect no matter what you decide, and so long as he treats you the same, AND so long as both of you interact with your hearts open to God's true guidance, all will be ok I'm sure.

Good luck!
 
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