Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?

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Kauko

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I sometimes wonder what are Estonian girls like... but dont know why. By the way, ignore it.

The thing is I always wanted to visit Estonia someday due to cultural similarities. Not my main priority but, just to see whats the country like.

I did hear long ago Estonia was pretty irreligious, though. Its a shame.
 
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Kauko said:
I sometimes wonder what are Estonian girls like... but dont know why. By the way, ignore it.

The thing is I always wanted to visit Estonia someday due to cultural similarities. Not my main priority but, just to see whats the country like.

I did hear long ago Estonia was pretty irreligious, though. Its a shame.
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I hope things turn around for you kauko. At one time I thought of moving to Armenia, because they have one the largest Christian populations per capita. Plus, I don't speak the language, so it would be hard to get offended by anyone. lol
 
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Owwww I have so much passion.
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You are DEFINITELY not ready to find a spouse yet.

If you can't be happy alone, you can't be happy with somebody else. How can you take on another person's problems if you can't even handle your own?
 
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I hope things turn around for you kauko. At one time I thought of moving to Armenia, because they have one the largest Christian populations per capita. Plus, I don't speak the language, so it would be hard to get offended by anyone. lol
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Nah, just was a way to get posts.

Anyway, Im not interested in moving abroad. I will stay in Finland.
 
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You are DEFINITELY not ready to find a spouse yet.

If you can't be happy alone, you can't be happy with somebody else. How can you take on another person's problems if you can't even handle your own?
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Im 29. I already have lived alone for a long time. Its really boring. Whats wrong with wanting a wife ?
 
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Im 29. I already have lived alone for a long time. Its really boring. Whats wrong with wanting a wife ?
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Nothing is wrong with wanting to find a wife.

Wanting it as bad as you say you want it... Something wrong with that.

Maybe you just overstated it? Maybe you don't want to find a wife as urgently as I got the impression you do?
 
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Nothing is wrong with wanting to find a wife.

Wanting it as bad as you say you want it... Something wrong with that.

Maybe you just overstated it? Maybe you don't want to find a wife as urgently as I got the impression you do?
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Its my passion. My passion is so strong..
 
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Its my passion. My passion is so strong..
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That's precisely why you do not need a wife right now. Or rather, SHE does not need YOU. You would be very bad for her at this time.

Also, finding a wife would not fix the problem. It would just make new ones.

Don't believe me? Try it and see. You'll find out.

Or just look around you. Every place I've ever seen that had people has had MANY examples of what you say you want, at the stage where you say you are, and they have always wound up with regrets. You should have a lot of examples to go by.
 
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That's precisely why you do not need a wife right now. Or rather, SHE does not need YOU. You would be very bad for her at this time.

Also, finding a wife would not fix the problem. It would just make new ones.

Don't believe me? Try it and see. You'll find out.

Or just look around you. Every place I've ever seen that had people has had MANY examples of what you say you want, at the stage where you say you are, and they have always wound up with regrets. You should have a lot of examples to go by.
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So do you want me to be single forever and die of depression ?
 
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Also, finding a wife would not fix the problem. It would just make new ones.


Well spoken!

I suspect it would be the same for a woman who finds her fella...

Solomon once said it was all vanity... or something like that.
 
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So do you want me to be single forever and die of depression ?
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Being single forever automatically equates with dying of depression? Wow...

I'm 43, single, and fairly content with life. If I find a lady next week, we hit it off and eventually get married... great! But in the meantime there's a lot of life to live.

First you have to get over the idea that being single is a bad thing and you MUST find a wife. You are not ready for a wife until you have a life without a wife. If you depend on a wife to make your life complete, you don't have anything to offer her.
 
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Being single forever automatically equates with dying of depression? Wow...

I'm 43, single, and fairly content with life. If I find a lady next week, we hit it off and eventually get married... great! But in the meantime there's a lot of life to live.

First you have to get over the idea that being single is a bad thing and you MUST find a wife. You are not ready for a wife until you have a life without a wife. If you depend on a wife to make your life complete, you don't have anything to offer her.
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But Im 29. Im going to turn 30 in November. If I was 19 right now, I could wait but now I must start real life. I cant live like a boy. My clock is ending. I must get a wife, or atleast a girlfriend. Now.

If I dont do this, who knows what person will I be with 40. Probably the stereotypical Finn.
 
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Stop idolizing a future spouse. You are letting your “passion “get the best of you. Focus on God. Focus on Jesus Christ. Everything else will fall in alignment. You sound obsessive.
 
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But Im 29. Im going to turn 30 in November. If I was 19 right now, I could wait but now I must start real life. I cant live like a boy. My clock is ending. I must get a wife, or atleast a girlfriend. Now.

If I dont do this, who knows what person will I be with 40. Probably the stereotypical Finn.
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Finn could have had a good life, without a good wife.

What happens if you never find a wife? Is your life a failure? If so, why?
 
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I'm starting to wonder if this is a troll. Nobody can be THIS obsessed with finding a wife... right? Right?! I sure hope it's just a troll.
 
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Finn could have had a good life, without a good wife.

What happens if you never find a wife? Is your life a failure? If so, why?
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Right? God’s in control. God has a plan for his life. Man plans, God laughs.

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I'm starting to wonder if this is a troll. Nobody can be THIS obsessed with finding a wife... right? Right?! I sure hope it's just a troll.
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In that case, let’s stop feeding the troll. I love the ignore button on this site. Time to use it again. Amen Lynx
 
Kauko

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Finn could have had a good life, without a good wife.

What happens if you never find a wife? Is your life a failure? If so, why?
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No, I mean the fat alcoholic Finn dying of chronic depression and bad temper.

My life is empty without a wife. My life is a failure right now. Boredom is just the worst thing existing in this world.
 
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Lynx said:
Finn could have had a good life, without a good wife.

What happens if you never find a wife? Is your life a failure? If so, why?
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You can live a good life,
Without a good wife,
For a life,
Without a wife,
Is a life,
Without strife,
I spread my peanut butter,
With a butter knife...

Sorry,..
It's the best I can do right now...
I've only had one coffee...
 
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Lynx said:
I'm starting to wonder if this is a troll. Nobody can be THIS obsessed with finding a wife... right? Right?! I sure hope it's just a troll.
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I guess this is flaming right ?
 
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No, I mean the fat alcoholic Finn dying of chronic depression and bad temper.

My life is empty without a wife. My life is a failure right now. Boredom is just the worst thing existing in this world.
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Man, I sure hope you're just a troll. If you're not a troll... if you really are that desperate to find a wife... that... That's just pathetic!
 
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