Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?

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RodB651

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But Im nobody of Biblical importance.
Oh well... You've skipped over a lot of scripture.

I suspect you are one of those guys who will finally find "Her" the woman of your dreams. Then one day you'll pray to be rid of this woman cause you found somebody else. That's just my guess.
 

Kauko

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Search again. She is probably going to renew her books. Reading is a wholesome activity. Well, generally speaking depending what you are reading.
I could try again but its very unlikely.
 

Kauko

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I suspect you are one of those guys who will finally find "Her" the woman of your dreams. Then one day you'll pray to be rid of this woman cause you found somebody else. That's just my guess.
What the ??? Why would I be unfaithful to her ???
 

tourist

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But I cant be single, I cant be !!!
I said something similar during my 6 1/2 year horrendous first marriage- "But I can't be married, I can't be!!!". I deserved better. Not.
 

Kauko

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Pick up your cross and follow me. Do you recognize that saying?

The path has been plainly laid before you in Scripture.
Yes, and what ??? I want the girl of my life !
 

cinder

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But its harder and harder everyday. Its like hiking a mountain that turns more vertical the higher I hike endlessly.

I will end destroyed internally this way.
It's not like you have much choice. You stay single while holding out for a good woman (and your chances of getting that good woman increase if you find a way to be a happy vibrant single rather than a whiny needy dismal single) or you make the mistake of thinking any relationship is better than being single and then find out how horrible a bad relationship can make your life.
 

tourist

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I could try again but its very unlikely.
Yeah, and hit up the produce aisle at your local grocers. You might bump into her when you are thumping the honey dews to see which one is ripe. Laundry Mat. Actually, that's a thread of mine that I started in my single days as a member of this site. I was a lost cause. Or thought that I was.
 

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It's not like you have much choice. You stay single while holding out for a good woman (and your chances of getting that good woman increase if you find a way to be a happy vibrant single rather than a whiny needy dismal single)
AGAIN, the problem is NOT that I cant attract that girl ! The problem is that I cant even find that girl !
 

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What the ??? Why would I be unfaithful to her ???
I don't believe that you would do such a thing. I pray each day for God to help me to be a loving and faithful husband. You should to when the time comes.
 

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But I cant be single, I cant be !!!
You are ignoring the countless stories of those here, but apparently God thinks otherwise.

If for some reason God has it in the future to be single, then single you will be.

And you'll learn to deal with it, through the endless tear-stained nights, constant emotional turmoil, and suicidal thoughts like some of here are going through.

Reality can't be sugared up and you will eventually have to learn to live with what you're given, just like the rest of us.
 

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Yes, and what ??? I want the girl of my life !
I want! I want!! I want!!! Yes, you have made that plain.

I do not recall Jesus saying that was necessarily His plan for everybody's life.

In fact, if you were saved as a single person, you are more likely meant to remain single.

And also, Jesus said in this life you would have trouble. He did not promise a rose garden free of thorns.
 

Kauko

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or you make the mistake of thinking any relationship is better than being single and then find out how horrible a bad relationship can make your life.
This is why I want a good Christian girl !
 

RodB651

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AGAIN, the problem is NOT that I cant attract that girl ! The problem is that I cant even find that girl !
Even in nature ... We know that every dog has his day!

you will too!
 

Kauko

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You are ignoring the countless stories of those here, but apparently God thinks otherwise.

If for some reason God has it in the future to be single, then single you will be.

And you'll learn to deal with it, through the endless tear-stained nights, constant emotional turmoil, and suicidal thoughts like some of here are going through.

Reality can't be sugared up and you will eventually have to learn to live with what you're given, just like the rest of us.
I JUST CANT !!! SINGLEDOM IS NOT FOR ME !!! SOME PEOPLE MAY BE FINE SINGLE BUT I CANT !!!!!!!!!
 

seoulsearch

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AGAIN, the problem is NOT that I cant attract that girl ! The problem is that I cant even find that girl !
You truly believe you could attract that girl in your current state of mind?

You'd be putting on one HECK of a show if you did. 😒
 

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AGAIN, the problem is NOT that I cant attract that girl ! The problem is that I cant even find that girl !
You should join the Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band thread that I started years ago. It worked for me. I proposed to my wife on that thread in a song. The band's about to play...

"Lonely days. Lonely Nights. Where would I be without my woman?"

That's not me. It's the Bee Gee's.
 

Kauko

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I want! I want!! I want!!! Yes, you have made that plain.

I do not recall Jesus saying that was necessarily His plan for everybody's life.

In fact, if you were saved as a single person, you are more likely meant to remain single.

And also, Jesus said in this life you would have trouble. He did not promise a rose garden free of thorns.
BUT SINGLEDOM IS NOT FOR ME !!! IM NOT ONE OF THOSE WHO CAN LIVE SINGLE FOREVER !!!

And what the ? Having a girlfriend or wife doesnt mean not going to having trouble !
 

seoulsearch

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I JUST CANT !!! SINGLEDOM IS NOT FOR ME !!! SOME PEOPLE MAY BE FINE SINGLE BUT I CANT !!!!!!!!!
Many of us aren't fine with it.

But here we are.

Single and still waiting, still searching.

Go ahead and keep crying about it and see how much good it does.

I've cried to the point of running out of tears, and for a lot longer than you, with the thought that he could be anywhere in the world - not your backyard, as you seem to think - and it hasn't changed a darn thing.