That is so true. People dont usually say to someone "that comment that you made hurt my feelings" or whatever, so sometimes you dont know that you may have hurt someone. And i think the general sentiment is that, oh we are all here to give our opinions, you dont like it, thats your business haha.
But if you think about it really, there are just some things that we wouldnt say in person and so we do need to try not to say it on the internet cause we never know what the other person is going through.
I think perhaps we need to contact each other by PM and say lets talk about it over here cause things are getting too heated in the thread. Or maybe we can say, dear sister or brother you dont seem like your usual self to day, your comment was really rude, are you OK? Yah you never know🤷🏽♀️