I am not good with small talk. I love to explore ideas or laugh but conversations about stuff, social status, and diets bore me to tears. I get restless. I am particularly bad with complainers. I am good with people looking to solve problems, but if you start trash talking your spouse I will turn my back and walk away. My mom told me that if woman will betray her husband by sharing secrets and hold him up to ridicule then no one will escape her tongue. I have never met the exception to this.
People that make vows to God and are quick to break them like that are not people I can even pretend to talk to. Honouring and cherishing are as vital as love. Someone who would dishonour another in not someone with whom I can communicate. The trust is gone. In reality I have stopped someone and said, "I am sure you do not mean to disrespect your husband like that." To her credit she blushed and stopped. As you can see, I'm not good with mean girls.