sometimes its just not anything you do or who you are its just cos you happen to be female (and young)
rape and violation/sexual harassment happen all the time to young women, sadly. Its just the flesh and the world.
Thats not say we should expect it but the bubbles we live in are fragile. In spiritual terms we need to put on Gods armour. Yes even females need to do this. We cant always expect to have a bodyguard with us at all times.