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Thank you, dear brother. I kind of got to the point this year where I wrote off relationships. Deep down I wanted to get married, but I didn't see it ever happening. Now I'm just living life as it is, but with a slight glimmer of hope for something more. Either way, speaking words of Life, not Death will help.
P
Has much has I know sins mean "missing the target" the target being God.
People do what they can with all the suffering that they have and with all there deception.
The more we "miss the target" and the more we suffer, at a certain point suffering give you a really big need not to suffer and the seeking of none suffering starts and the seek of God consciously or not begins.
We are all at a different stage and we cannot ask a green apple to be ripe.
People don't really shoose to live in sins they are seaching a way to reduce there suffering the best that they can and to be happy. The more we love people and the more we really listen to then out of any system of thaugth where there is no judgement and we guide them to generate the fruite of the spirit not from are point of view but from where they are in there life and by entering there world. From what I understand, Jesus was not being analytic or seeking to find what was wrong and he talk's from is heart.
People do what they can with all the suffering that they have and with all there deception.
The more we "miss the target" and the more we suffer, at a certain point suffering give you a really big need not to suffer and the seeking of none suffering starts and the seek of God consciously or not begins.
We are all at a different stage and we cannot ask a green apple to be ripe.
People don't really shoose to live in sins they are seaching a way to reduce there suffering the best that they can and to be happy. The more we love people and the more we really listen to then out of any system of thaugth where there is no judgement and we guide them to generate the fruite of the spirit not from are point of view but from where they are in there life and by entering there world. From what I understand, Jesus was not being analytic or seeking to find what was wrong and he talk's from is heart.
U
I think there are too many marriage minded Christians and that that may not be God's will for someone. Or perhaps not the right time, which I think is the bigger issue.
I knew of a woman who prayed all of her adult life for the right man. She was 36 I believe, or older, before she met him. Up to that point she'd not gone on a single date. The man she married went to her own church, they had just never crossed paths. He did well financially, they would vacation twice a year. Even had a baby girl. But she had to wait a long time and stick to the commitment she made to God not to date.
Really it seems marriage is an idol for many single Christians.
I knew of a woman who prayed all of her adult life for the right man. She was 36 I believe, or older, before she met him. Up to that point she'd not gone on a single date. The man she married went to her own church, they had just never crossed paths. He did well financially, they would vacation twice a year. Even had a baby girl. But she had to wait a long time and stick to the commitment she made to God not to date.
Really it seems marriage is an idol for many single Christians.
I am a very judgemental person 
and when I just started on this website I always thought that Blain was a bit out there (to much to my liking ) but subsequent to that I have to apologise to him as I can see that he is a real stand-up guy. I like his passion and the way he investigates everything.
We will not always agree with everybody but his passion is contagious man
and when I just started on this website I always thought that Blain was a bit out there (to much to my liking ) but subsequent to that I have to apologise to him as I can see that he is a real stand-up guy. I like his passion and the way he investigates everything. We will not always agree with everybody but his passion is contagious man
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I know it's not easy getting a Christian spouse with same mind set, but I rather obey God.........what profit a man to gain the world world answer still lost his soul.............the bible says............God help me to kill my flesh for not wanting to ran around for man, till he send the right man for me.
I am a very judgemental person and when I just started on this website I always thought that Blain was a bit out there (to much to my liking ) but subsequent to that I have to apologise to him as I can see that he is a real stand-up guy. I like his passion and the way he investigates everything.
We will not always agree with everybody but his passion is contagious man
and when I just started on this website I always thought that Blain was a bit out there (to much to my liking ) but subsequent to that I have to apologise to him as I can see that he is a real stand-up guy. I like his passion and the way he investigates everything. We will not always agree with everybody but his passion is contagious man
That wasn't what people were saying. What they mean is that it is unrealistic to think, just because two people are Christians and desire to put God in the center, that a relationship between the two of them will be easy and perfect with never a conflict or problem because they are both sold out for God. It just doesn't work that way.
While I wouldn't want to bring up painful memories, I do feel like I should remind you that there was a time when we often joked about you being the eligible CC bachelor (what exactly does that word eligible mean anyway? Here dictionary…… ah here we are: having the right to do or obtain something; satisfying the appropriate conditions … yeah I'll keep that word) Just because things didn't work out well with your first foray into love and romance, don't think that you aren't a terrific, godly man. Around here we know you well enough to know better.
While I wouldn't want to bring up painful memories, I do feel like I should remind you that there was a time when we often joked about you being the eligible CC bachelor (what exactly does that word eligible mean anyway? Here dictionary…… ah here we are: having the right to do or obtain something; satisfying the appropriate conditions … yeah I'll keep that word) Just because things didn't work out well with your first foray into love and romance, don't think that you aren't a terrific, godly man. Around here we know you well enough to know better.
