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1 Corinthians 10:13
13 No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.
Actually, I find being anonymous really brings out my flesh. In point of fact I've never spoken to a woman like that before in my life, but hey, how would you know that?
Anyway dude... you should lift your advice a little. Im just saying...Im not complaining, I dont spend my life complaining I'm just ONCE saying it ONCE and for all (and online for all to see, no less) That the majority of women I've ever met, liked or dated were REPELLED BY THIS INFECTION YOU CALL 'GOD'S GIFT TO ME'... Im gonna start giving my own advice to guys, itll be a lot more useful. sorry if that's rude but my life is a living testimony to what 'doesn't' work when it comes to women. God bless.
Perhaps a more specific question... How much talking of rubbish must one do and for how long until the woman opens up...and it is safe to ask deeper questions? Respectfully, sir, I don't think the answer is in Proverbs...
Depends on what the deeper questions are, depends on the girl, depends on how you are presenting the questions. Are you asking theological questions or discussing whether she will want you to get a vasectomy? Also, why is the "getting to know you" talk rubbish? If all the talk before the deeper questions is rubbish, somebody needs to find better stuff to talk about.
NOOOOOOOO!!!! YOU'RE MISSING THE POINT, BRAH !!! hahahahahahhahahah.... seriously. YOU. are missing the point. NO WOMAN LIKES ME. Must I really spell it out? I've repelled more women than Andy Dick, and that's before he was a pervert. All because I misread signs, came on too strong, asked too many questions, fall in love to easily. I am broken... I don't think God intended me to be a one man puppet show anymore than He intended for you to try to cheer me up with platitudes. While your at it, why dont you cut off my weiner with a dull axe and throw salt in it? Its a lot less painful than telling somebody that God created you a freak.
I'm sorry for being rude. Being anonymous makes it very easy...that and I can never seem to ask questions without somebody giving an answer that I don't understand at all nor can contemplate how it remotely relates to my question. I'm not trying to be a smart alec here and serious. And I'm genuinely sorry for being a jerk. That is all.
Now reread your opening post. YOU ASK for advice! Advice is not always something we like to hear, but if we're going to ask for it, we need to be prepared to hear stuff we don't like.
You need to calm down, get closer to the Lord, read your Bible more, and experience His Peace. I think the person who suggested Proverbs is a great idea. It will give you a sense of the type of man God wants us to be.
(and because she knew me so well by then maybe it was harder for her to say no.... all I gotta do now is wrestle a ring on her finger and make her sign some papers...then I'm certain God will join us😏🙄)
The Bible is our instruction book for life. It has all kinds of advice including slow to speak slow to anger. Ask God to show you what you need to do to be a Godly man and look into the scriptures. Wish you the best!
Well think about what you just said in the couple minutes you been here.
You basically said, if women reject me because of my "intense nature" I'm gonna throw a tantrum and get drunk!
I got news for ya. We ALL have an "intense nature". It's called our dead flesh. That is why again and again people are trying to get you to see that the answer is NOT to find a woman who likes your intense dead flesh, but to walk in your NEW LIVING Spirit. THAT is what a Godly woman is looking for.
Has anybody ever wondered how so many christian pastors can give assert God's being so providential in our intimate relationships, while we are the ones who either repel or draw romantic partners? If you're the type who has a tendency to come on too strong, and have repelled (scared) more women away because of your intense personality...isn't it logical to assume God isn't really so involved in this regard when you come on too strong to potential dating partners? (Seriously, I've never understood this and wanted other christians advice because I'm single based on the awkward, intense, and weird person I am. I don't see what part God has to play in all of this, if any..?
Seriously, I would not rely exclusively on Christian pastors advice on how to start a romantic relationship. The part God would play is to assist you in not being such an awkward, intense and weird person that is affecting your confidence and self-esteem. In response to your opening question, no, I have never wondered about this.