Coming On Too Strong
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If I were a betting man, I would bet on this.
Depends on what the deeper questions are, depends on the girl, depends on how you are presenting the questions. Are you asking theological questions or discussing whether she will want you to get a vasectomy? Also, why is the "getting to know you" talk rubbish? If all the talk before the deeper questions is rubbish, somebody needs to find better stuff to talk about.
Do you often call people inane? I'm starting to get a very good idea why those women are being driven away from you.
Mattyboy I would welcome you to the forum, but it seems you are already busy insulting people and will not last long. I will beat the rush and wish you adieu.
Depends on what the deeper questions are, depends on the girl, depends on how you are presenting the questions. Are you asking theological questions or discussing whether she will want you to get a vasectomy? Also, why is the "getting to know you" talk rubbish? If all the talk before the deeper questions is rubbish, somebody needs to find better stuff to talk about.
Do you often call people inane? I'm starting to get a very good idea why those women are being driven away from you.
Mattyboy I would welcome you to the forum, but it seems you are already busy insulting people and will not last long. I will beat the rush and wish you adieu.
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God bless you man... I hope you find one good woman who is patient and caring who you will appreciate more than anything until death do you two part.
(i think you're not going to scare the right one away if you just are honest and you examine yourself and take it step by step...which would make everything up until then a blessing)
(i think you're not going to scare the right one away if you just are honest and you examine yourself and take it step by step...which would make everything up until then a blessing)
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I'm sorry for being rude. Being anonymous makes it very easy...that and I can never seem to ask questions without somebody giving an answer that I don't understand at all nor can contemplate how it remotely relates to my question. I'm not trying to be a smart alec here and serious. And I'm genuinely sorry for being a jerk. That is all.
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Matt. Let's slow down a bit. Welcome to CC!
Now reread your opening post. YOU ASK for advice! Advice is not always something we like to hear, but if we're going to ask for it, we need to be prepared to hear stuff we don't like.
You need to calm down, get closer to the Lord, read your Bible more, and experience His Peace. I think the person who suggested Proverbs is a great idea. It will give you a sense of the type of man God wants us to be.
Be Blessed down under, and get some sleep.
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Well think about what you just said in the couple minutes you been here.
You basically said, if women reject me because of my "intense nature" I'm gonna throw a tantrum and get drunk!
I got news for ya. We ALL have an "intense nature". It's called our dead flesh. That is why again and again people are trying to get you to see that the answer is NOT to find a woman who likes your intense dead flesh, but to walk in your NEW LIVING Spirit. THAT is what a Godly woman is looking for.
You basically said, if women reject me because of my "intense nature" I'm gonna throw a tantrum and get drunk!
I got news for ya. We ALL have an "intense nature". It's called our dead flesh. That is why again and again people are trying to get you to see that the answer is NOT to find a woman who likes your intense dead flesh, but to walk in your NEW LIVING Spirit. THAT is what a Godly woman is looking for.
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Keeping you in prayers Matt. God loves you, and you are not a freak okay, you are created in His perfect image 
Keep seeking the Lord and His Ways. He is our ultimate Councillor, and absolutely knows the best for you. Take what you experienced with these women as a learning curve, and surrender it all to God.
Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, our Saviour, and when you do, I guarantee God will show and equip you on how to act, and speak with wisdom and a humble heart.
Blessings in Jesus Christ!
Keep seeking the Lord and His Ways. He is our ultimate Councillor, and absolutely knows the best for you. Take what you experienced with these women as a learning curve, and surrender it all to God.
Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, our Saviour, and when you do, I guarantee God will show and equip you on how to act, and speak with wisdom and a humble heart.
Blessings in Jesus Christ!
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Seriously, I would not rely exclusively on Christian pastors advice on how to start a romantic relationship. The part God would play is to assist you in not being such an awkward, intense and weird person that is affecting your confidence and self-esteem. In response to your opening question, no, I have never wondered about this.
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