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I think we just throw around different words with the same meanings... But for me, if I was interested in someone, I would get to know them or whatever, we could just hang out, grab lunch, whatever. After a few times of that, ask her out on a legitimate date. After a couple of those, decide whether we wanted to date exclusively or not, and if so, then do it.
Being in a college relationship with someone whose parents may or may not be 1000+ miles away, "courtship" like you guys are describing is not feasible. Group dates aren't really possible, and supervision isn't possible. That doesn't bother me, but of course I probably have different standards for what can happen in a relationship before marriage than most of you anyway.
Being in a college relationship with someone whose parents may or may not be 1000+ miles away, "courtship" like you guys are describing is not feasible. Group dates aren't really possible, and supervision isn't possible. That doesn't bother me, but of course I probably have different standards for what can happen in a relationship before marriage than most of you anyway.
Certainly. But I am a legal adult, and I would be in a relationship with another adult. I love my parents, and respect them both a lot, but they would not have any say over the progress of the relationship outside of an advisory role. However, since I do respect them a lot, I probably wouldnt be dating someone they didnt approve of anyway. In any case, all I'm saying is, I will decide who I date; its not my parents decision anymore.
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DanuckInUSA - Well, I do not think God wants us to live according śome stricktly lined rules, even in relationship between a man and a woman. On the other hand, you are right, that it surelly prevents many pairs of adultery, which is good of course. But I would not call this dating nor courting this is probably not about any relationship between those two before marriage, is it? Well I conclude by the form of my sisters church where the two even do not court, they are just said, they belong to each other and they usually marry very soon after.
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I guess courting is more about getting to know the person. True there shouldn't be too much difference between the 2 in Christian relationships. You know, God willing there's no sex before marriage, and the couple get to know each other properly before commiting, whether dating or courting.......due to human nature though, not always the way things go.
However, even some non Christians in the past used to spend time courting getting to know each other. Sometimes in the prescense of family or friends, to limit temptation. That's why in England (and around the world?) you'll get older people, Christian or not, asking if your courting, or cooourtin' if your from Yorkshire like me
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I guess courting is more about getting to know the person. True there shouldn't be too much difference between the 2 in Christian relationships. You know, God willing there's no sex before marriage, and the couple get to know each other properly before commiting, whether dating or courting.......due to human nature though, not always the way things go.
However, even some non Christians in the past used to spend time courting getting to know each other. Sometimes in the prescense of family or friends, to limit temptation. That's why in England (and around the world?) you'll get older people, Christian or not, asking if your courting, or cooourtin' if your from Yorkshire like me
But the rest of your post, I'm afraid, doesn't do much to clarify things. If your definition of courting is 'about getting to know the person' then how does 'dating' differ?