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NoNameMcgee

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imfinallyfree said:
No it's not that.

I just have the ability of logic reasoning,my reasoning tells me that the eventual extinction of God's greatest creation (us) has got to be a bad thing.

Think logically....what is going to happen to ANY mammal species when the female half of that species consciously decides to stop procreation because it's no fun? What with the responsibility and whatnot.
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id suggest using "your reasoning" less

and more scripture

proverbs 3:5
Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

Proverbs 3:6 - In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

Corinthians 10:31 - Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.


John 5:30 - I can of mine own self do nothing: as I hear, I judge: and my judgment is just; because I seek not mine own will, but the will of the Father which hath sent me.
 
Tommy379

Tommy379

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Women are everywhere, I don't know why you would need the internet to find them. Males also.
Just the other day, took my car to a carwash. Super hot girl comes over and wipes the car down, we talk a few minutes, she ask for my number. Super easy to meet them. Like shooting fish in a barrel.
 
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NoNameMcgee

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Tommy379 said:
Women are everywhere, I don't know why you would need the internet to find them. Males also.
Just the other day, took my car to a carwash. Super hot girl comes over and wipes the car down, we talk a few minutes, she ask for my number. Super easy to meet them. Like shooting fish in a barrel.
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i think people arent looking for immodest women
or lustful men

this if im correct in my assumptions

its about findin someone not interesting in superficial things

like how "hot" you are


i dont think ill ever get a wife

but if i do

im not worried about how her body is

im worried about her relationship with God and character and spirit
 
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josephwasily

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The problem is generally with online relationships, or in other words, is the internet a good place for an intimate relationship? or at least beginning an one? those dating apps matching techniques are based on the assumptions that user entered accurate and literal description of him/her-self which as you know is impossible because our self-image is usually fictitious and often Inaccurate, also these websites build upon our consumerism culture, it lists the users as if you are going to LoveMart, but to be honest, for some people this is the only hope to find a relation.
 
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JosephsDreams

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imfinallyfree said:
Please excuse me for being abrasive,I was just saying that in today's world most females go about their everyday life with the mindset of looking for someone new.

They do this for decades so I mean come on,there has to be reasoning behind it....as flawed as it is.
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You make it sound like all woman have this mindset. In fact the most do not most of the time.
 
Tommy379

Tommy379

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NoNameMcgee said:
i think people arent looking for immodest women
or lustful men

this if im correct in my assumptions

its about findin someone not interesting in superficial things

like how "hot" you are


i dont think ill ever get a wife

but if i do

im not worried about how her body is

im worried about her relationship with God and character and spirit
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I'm starting to think that a woman's relationship with God doesn't matter. You can marry a super awesome, prayer ninja, Christian woman, and she still leave. Read up on it, Christian woman are divocing at a higher rate than the rest of society.

And BTW, if I don't want obese women with neck tats and 4 kids by 4 different men, why should I have to.
 
JosephsDreams

JosephsDreams

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It is a sad state of Christianity when the divorce stats are the same as the world. We will be held accountable.
 
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NoNameMcgee

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Tommy379 said:
I'm starting to think that a woman's relationship with God doesn't matter. You can marry a super awesome, prayer ninja, Christian woman, and she still leave. Read up on it, Christian woman are divocing at a higher rate than the rest of society.

And BTW, if I don't want obese women with neck tats and 4 kids by 4 different men, why should I have to.
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if a woman claims to be following christ
she may leave her husband unjustly


if a woman IS following christ she wont


we are to judge everything by the fruits

(i dont know if i ever met even 1 christian woman)
 
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loneman

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Tommy379 said:
Women are everywhere, I don't know why you would need the internet to find them. Males also.
Just the other day, took my car to a carwash. Super hot girl comes over and wipes the car down, we talk a few minutes, she ask for my number. Super easy to meet them. Like shooting fish in a barrel.
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Ok first do you know if that girl is even a Christian? and second if it's so easy you should write a book and teach a class on it!
 
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loneman

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I have been at many places and events even try to connect with a couple of ladies. Something or someone else always interfered with me trying to connect with them. They might not even have been looking. At least on a dating site you know they are looking and if your shy like me. It is easier to talk!

Also about 10 years ago I made peace with being single all my life. Than in 2012 SHE walk into my life and really trip my trigger! Because of the professional relationship we had I could not ask her out; but boy did I want too! I tried to find a way to tell her but could not find the right time. She walk out of my life in 2014! Now I cannot get the trigger to turn back off!
 
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loneman

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JosephsDreams said:
It is a sad state of Christianity when the divorce stats are the same as the world. We will be held accountable.
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The trouble with the world and Christians today is that no one wants to make a commitment anymore! People do understand love! You must make a commitment to your partner and stick with it through the good types and bad types!
 
Tommy379

Tommy379

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loneman said:
Ok first do you know if that girl is even a Christian? and second if it's so easy you should write a book and teach a class on it!
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That's the point. I don't care if her or anyone else is Christian anymore. Seems like a sham. Christians guarantee nothing.

I don't need to write a whole book. How about this, instead of waiting for God to do something for you, on a planet we rejected him from, you do something.
 
Tommy379

Tommy379

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loneman said:
I have been at many places and events even try to connect with a couple of ladies. Something or someone else always interfered with me trying to connect with them. They might not even have been looking. At least on a dating site you know they are looking and if your shy like me. It is easier to talk!

Also about 10 years ago I made peace with being single all my life. Than in 2012 SHE walk into my life and really trip my trigger! Because of the professional relationship we had I could not ask her out; but boy did I want too! I tried to find a way to tell her but could not find the right time. She walk out of my life in 2014! Now I cannot get the trigger to turn back off!
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Wow, 2 years and you couldn't ask her out, that's on you.
 
Tommy379

Tommy379

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Everyone on here wants a Christian woman. More and more females come into this earth everyday, and fewer Christians than ever.
 
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GaryA

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loneman said:
The trouble with the world and Christians today is that no one wants to make a commitment anymore! People do understand love! You must make a commitment to your partner and stick with it through the good types and bad types!
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good times and bad times...?
 
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JosephsDreams

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loneman said:
The trouble with the world and Christians today is that no one wants to make a commitment anymore! People do understand love! You must make a commitment to your partner and stick with it through the good types and bad types!
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Actually, you need to make a commitment to God even before making one to your spouse.
 
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imfinallyfree

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You are absolutely right about that,we are supposed to set a example of God's advice.
 
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imfinallyfree

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That's a broad statement (No pun intended),I might enjoy having one around sometimes but....
 
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