Do you find it hard to be "just friends" with people of the opposite sex?

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TOMMY777

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I don't see why she obligated to tell you her feelings. Is she not pretty?
Yes she s pretty but not the point. She is not obligated to me her feelings. She should of though She wasted her time for two years and was only my friend for the wrong reason. I thought she was a good and honest friend but anyway.
 

Tommy379

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Yes she s pretty but not the point. She is not obligated to me her feelings. She should of though She wasted her time for two years and was only my friend for the wrong reason. I thought she was a good and honest friend but anyway.
I still don't see why you're bent about it.
 

dpdaniel

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Some one rightly said in this thread, you need to know your boundaries irrespective of gender. Often good conversation happens with the opposite gender but that is purposeful and meaningful. When anyone gets close and personal, thats the first trigger or what I call the safety fuse, let it blow and take guard. In most cases, though many may not agree, the devil is like a roaring lion waiting to devour and kill. He will use all the tricks in his book to destroy. So be on your guard and press on in Kingdom building.
 

Lighthearted

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It's a question that's commonly asked. That is, can a guy and a girl be just friends and nothing more?


Until recently, I always thought that was a stupid question. I always thought I'd have no problem being just friends with a girl. But I found out it's not as easy as I thought it would be.


I had never really had a close friend that was a girl. Until recently.


I've been talking a lot to this girl that I met. She's not single, but she was still looking for a friend, I think. But since I've been talking to her, I haven't been myself. I kind of fell for her. I think about her all the time and that's not an understatement either.


It's kind of an embarrassing thing to admit. But then again, it's the Internet and no one really knows who I am. So maybe I shouldn't be embarrassed.


Anyone else have any similar stories like mine? I'm sure I'm not the only one here.


This is a loaded question....
In your case, if she is indeed married you should not continue this friendship if you are having any type of romantic feelings for her. If she is expressing the same kind of feelings towards you...what does that say about her view of marriage?
 
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Astonishing how essays are written, users are alienated over a total misnomer.