Do you have a 'Body Type' preference?

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Jullianna

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Matthew made the top 10 celebs with bad hygiene list, so....ugh.

Ten Celebrities with the Extremely Gross Hygiene Practices

I have a preference for dark hair and have no idea why. Healthy (don't mean ripped) is good, but not a fan of overly thin. Just being honest... I have a thing for nice shoulders.

Height is not a big deal, but would prefer not shorter than me (I'm 5.6). I do like to wear heels though, which would put me at about 5.9 at times. As long as a guy is okay with that, I am too. :)
 

Nautilus

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I normally start these preference things with not blonde. not sure why it just never worked for me as a haircolor on women. Reds, brunettes, blacks, rainbow are all far more attractive hair colors than blonde. Also women need to be shorter than me. but not so short i have to double over to kiss them. I'm 6'3'' so anything like 5'8'' to 5'11'' is good there.
 
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arb71

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I definitely have a body type preference, but my body is not perfect, so I would not reject a man if he did not meet my ideal body type preference.
 

Pipp

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I'm not much for blonds either but I don't find it unattractive.... I love black hair but it's not a must at all....shoot hair is not even a must. Lol
 
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Relena7

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Matthew made the top 10 celebs with bad hygiene list, so....ugh.

Ten Celebrities with the Extremely Gross Hygiene Practices

I have a preference for dark hair and have no idea why. Healthy (don't mean ripped) is good, but not a fan of overly thin. Just being honest... I have a thing for nice shoulders.

Height is not a big deal, but would prefer not shorter than me (I'm 5.6). I do like to wear heels though, which would put me at about 5.9 at times. As long as a guy is okay with that, I am too. :)
Wow...

That's a lot of stinky celebs. 0.o
 

Liamson

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You know, just because we take the moral high road and we say things like, I want a woman's personality or I think her relationship with God is the most attractive part of her, doesn't make it so. No one is ignoring how someone looks. Even Ray Charles, who was blind, said that he could tell how beautiful a woman was, by how her wrist felt in his hand.




And nothing outside of body type was even part of the question.





She asked a question, and I think its a little bit insulting to both her and the people who answered the question honestly to make this about something its not.


Were not being shallow.


No one is saying that the most important qualities that a person has are their physical features.


This is why I have a problem with the "Jesus Juke"



You can take Anything, and warp it into being evil because the it doesn't point to a sunday school answer.

So were not allowed to talk about physical attractiveness?


We should be able to talk about anything.
 

rachelsedge

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I just think it's interesting that a question about body types evolved into hair and eye color preference, as well as pictures of ideal men in general.

Just an observation. :)
 
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I just think it's interesting that a question about body types evolved into hair and eye color preference, as well as pictures of ideal men in general.

Just an observation. :)
Would you like us to also add lipstick and nail polish color and pictures of ideal women? :p
 
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isaria

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Cant say I have a body type preference but maybe I do.

I do not seem to see many males and am alone a lot.

If he is incredibly skinny or obese that can be worked on and supported as can bad teeth, breath, smelly etc.

There have been men every one says are attractive in body that I have had no interest in what so ever because I do not think they are nice.

That simple.

Inner beauty does matter and count.

A true inner beauty seems to make any body look and feel beautiful unless they make other feel so good they locked out of there own true body...lol

Others may lock this in there body as it make them feel good.

Charisma, shine and inner beauty but it has to be with his "true meat" for humble our souls winging swinging should not be cheated and locked out of true body.


Some eyes are cold and hateful and i dont like a male who tantrum and abusive and shadow me and isolate and use as slave and lock up and then say he dominant that is abuse and criminal not dominant.
A true leader leads with love, care, respecta nd with the Lord to guide and humble him.


Maybe some bodies are not as attractive to one but so much takes part.


Saw this "thing " once a director who likes a mediums work , eyes, colours but did not like her body and used some one elses body for her work but then she never got it back to her body.


Dreamt once jesus spoke to me and said be match maker for me compatible.
be patient on it.


:)


Nice to cuddle, affectionate, caring etc.

I saw one dating site that seemed to be one falls in love with inner beauty of them and then one see body later.
One man was seeing a body that was not her real body but kept see her because he loved her inside.
What ever body you have he said: i there.
She was not attractive and made to look ugly to test him and then they took veil of and she was not so demonised and like dead face as they had made out.
They wanted her feel and look ugly and they did not like her but he found his way as did she and got her real "meat" back in end.


Nice take care of body.
But understand difficult take care body if not feel well so support, encourage eachother care for body and make best of what God created.

Maybe there is a special body i favour if it be the body of he whom i am in romance with then i favour attracted to this real body of the man i love.
 
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mad4christ

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#71
Definitely as to be taller than me...And a handsome face...cause I'm thinking of how my children will look.
 
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Ugly

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#72
If he is incredibly skinny or obese that can be worked on and supported as can bad teeth, breath, smelly etc.
This. Women approaching men and thinking 'can i make him what i want?'. If you think someone is too fat, too skinny or whatever. Then why not just move on? Why look at someone and think 'with a little work they could be attractive'?

Yes, i've been ranting on things lately. I hate when all these gender posts start popping up.

And i'm aware that men have wrong attitudes about women and expectations. But as a man, i'm obviously going to be more personally affected by the things directed at men. So you're going to see me speak up on those more. So no need to show me how one sided i am and how bad men are about things too. I already know. I've been hearing it all my life as a male.
 
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isaria

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There are men I see pictures of on internet and so forth I find attractive.
A good steady real guy.
No woman dressed as men etc. :)
 

vanillakay

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Hmmm unlike most women, i dont like very muscular guys. I prefer them tall (at least 6,1 minimum) lean, but yet with some muscle. Green eyes preferably *nods* :)
 
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Often in our society, we are 'taught' what a perfect man or perfect woman looks like. I wonder, as single people, do you have a preference in how a potential partner looks? Blonde or brown hair? Tall or short?
I believe that we have these pre-conceived notions on what we want, that we miss what's right in front of us. Can you imagine, when God gave Eve to Adam, Adam turning to God and saying 'Sorry, she's not what I imagined my woman to look like. Try again.'? Or getting out his sketch pad and drawing a picture of his 'perfect' woman? Instead, God created Eve, as Adam's helpmate, and he accepted what God had for him.
What are your thoughts and comments?
Allow me to congratulate you, whomever you are...

You are right when saying "society" has modelled PART of our likes and taste but, if you like milk shaked, I cannot force to drink my lemmonade. Understood?

When you get old, you know more about you and your "socialized" likes. You take one and dismiss others (unavoidable!). Regarding the color of the hair, depends on your likes, but social intercourse may have influenced you to like people with long hair (That's up to YOU).

I'm quite sure I like short women since I'm short (5', 5"). The reason is biological, not social, because I don't like tall people and never kissed a bigger one (Ha! Ha!) Portada Manual Supervivencia.jpg

So you will see those ideas are not PRE-CONCEIVED, you are your own, but life modelled you, same way as me (who are twice older). You like what and who you like. That's your right (and your need also).

As far as I understand, Eve was a perfect clone of Adam. His rib was taken and, what he missed, was he himself (someone having his likes, needs, taste, etc) Why so many people missED this LOGICAL idea?

They often say, in Venezuela, that oposite people attract as + and - attracts (that's true in the electrical field). Are human beings like charged batteries?

At this age I see similar people attract. Christian people should be attracted to Christians, but something went wrong when this is the opposite way around.

So, do you think Adam would have asked God: "Hey! Give me another woman?"

In fact, he never said that to God but, when God asked him and punished that "garden", Adam said: "It was the woman WOMAN YOU GAVE ME..." Was he asking God a better woman or blaming God for anything?

He was hiding, running away from responsibility, UNWILLING TO KNOW no one is perfect, except God.

I would admire someone who is my size, but I love a tiny one I could hug without using a brick to be lift at her face.
 

AzureAfire

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as ugly as I am, I am only attracted to women with great curves. Ample bust, butt, slim waist, and thick thighs. This means most asian women just don't do it for me and I am asian.
Hey, don't be too hard on yourself, brother :) you are NOT ugly!!!

Well, yes, most asian women don't have your preference, alright XD

I am asian, but thankfully, i am blessed with good shape that i just have to work on just a little bit more (i dare not write my vital stats at present XD wouldn't want people to think i'm advertising!!!)
 
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Ugly

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#79
Hey, don't be too hard on yourself, brother :) you are NOT ugly!!!

Well, yes, most asian women don't have your preference, alright XD

I am asian, but thankfully, i am blessed with good shape that i just have to work on just a little bit more (i dare not write my vital stats at present XD wouldn't want people to think i'm advertising!!!)
Oh yeah. As if that doesn't just make them curious enough to start PMing you now to find out =P
 
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Hey, don't be too hard on yourself, brother :) you are NOT ugly!!! (...)

I am asian, but thankfully, i am blessed with good shape that i just have to work on just a little bit more (i dare not write my vital stats at present XD wouldn't want people to think i'm advertising!!!)
BELIEVE ME! She looks like her present day AVATAR and she is not a liar: "i am blessed with good shape..."