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My life has been, thankfully, pretty free of drama, but one time in college I got up the courage to ask a girl out to a movie. She said she couldn't because she had a test to study for that night. So I made other plans... went up to the college observatory to look thru the telescope. It was kinda dark in there (for which I am grateful) but I saw the girl I asked out there with another guy, and she saw me too. That was, umm... unpleasant. Like a scene from a teen movie.
Daffy girls like that really make me mad I want to put blue dye in their showerhead and tissues through her laundry or plastic wrap over their toilet bowl or something as pay back for people who don't like "nice guys". Then when she's seen my bad side she can think about whether she wants to re-think that remark or not.
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You shouldn't have to work up courage to ask out a girl, if your heart is in the right place the courage will come from God. You shouldn't go around asking girls out all of the time, almost like a salesman approach to dating, it's thoughtless. I think dating is for people who settle for a bad story. You shouldnt just try people on for size, in any capacity. I believe in Jesus for the fulfillment of deep desires, and He never does anything shabilly. He always exceeds expectations. So dont try to make it happen yourself. It simply will not work......Just do what you know God is telling you to do and His blessings will over take you. At 26 I have seen many cheap stories and only a few extrordinary ones...i think the trick is a pure heart and being patient. When You really love Jesus more than Life itself...the needs fade away in His Glory anyways. Focus on Him, He's where it's at anyways!!