dumb excuses

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Leilaii425

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SandStorm said:
I think it was something along the lines of " Sorry I don't go out with guys who have more hairspray in their hair than me". Go figure. She was kinda mean anyway :p j/k
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Will have to agree with the mean one.
 
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christiancollegegirl

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SandStorm said:
I think it was something along the lines of " Sorry I don't go out with guys who have more hairspray in their hair than me". Go figure. She was kinda mean anyway :p j/k
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That was a retarded excuse.
 
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jasperjedi

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dovey said:
You shouldn't have to work up courage to ask out a girl, if your heart is in the right place the courage will come from God. You shouldn't go around asking girls out all of the time, almost like a salesman approach to dating, it's thoughtless. I think dating is for people who settle for a bad story. You shouldnt just try people on for size, in any capacity. I believe in Jesus for the fulfillment of deep desires, and He never does anything shabilly. He always exceeds expectations. So dont try to make it happen yourself. It simply will not work......Just do what you know God is telling you to do and His blessings will over take you. At 26 I have seen many cheap stories and only a few extrordinary ones...i think the trick is a pure heart and being patient. When You really love Jesus more than Life itself...the needs fade away in His Glory anyways. Focus on Him, He's where it's at anyways!!
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you ever try asking a guy out? there's reason to be nervous lol..
 
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Tootles_1

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#24
Actually I have. And yeah it was nerve racking but honestly EVERYONE fears rejection. And fear's just a crutch. So if there's a guy I really like then I'll pray for the courage to put myself out there. And if he says no, it might hurt but I won't be destroyed.And on a lighter note, I've been told I'm too tall. :)
 
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Leilaii425

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I was told by a guy that his parents thought i was to backward and didnt talk enough......... imagine that.
 
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Leilaii425

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Silex said:
Girls don't wanna date nice guys. They wanna go out with the bad boys.

Girls break up with bad boys 'cause they aren't nice guys.

So....

Girls just don't know what they want.
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Not true. Every girl is different. Some equal nice guys to being really boring, and the bad boys as fun and exciting. I've heard that nice guys can be funny and not so boring, i have yet to prove this theory.
 
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Groundhog

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#27
Ha ha ha. I was once told, "I'm not ready to date anyone right now," by a girl who started dating another guy a couple of weeks later. *sigh*
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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#28
#28
haha you're going to love this: "I only like you sometimes"
 
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ClimbingUpward

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#31
can't say I've heard that one. My friend's usually give legit reasons as to why they can't go out. "I've got no one to look after (child's name)"....."(Child's name) was sick all night, so I'm shattered, sorry"....... hehehe sorry.
 
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christiancollegegirl

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ClimbingUpward said:
can't say I've heard that one. My friend's usually give legit reasons as to why they can't go out. "I've got no one to look after (child's name)"....."(Child's name) was sick all night, so I'm shattered, sorry"....... hehehe sorry.
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Is (childs name) really a child, or a cat? hee hee! :D
 
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christiancollegegirl

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#33
It's been a while since this thread was active. Maaybe y'all have something to add to it.
 
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GreenNnice

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#34
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dovey said:
You shouldn't have to work up courage to ask out a girl, if your heart is in the right place the courage will come from God. You shouldn't go around asking girls out all of the time, almost like a salesman approach to dating, it's thoughtless. I think dating is for people who settle for a bad story. You shouldnt just try people on for size, in any capacity. I believe in Jesus for the fulfillment of deep desires, and He never does anything shabilly. He always exceeds expectations. So dont try to make it happen yourself. It simply will not work......Just do what you know God is telling you to do and His blessings will over take you. At 26 I have seen many cheap stories and only a few extrordinary ones...i think the trick is a pure heart and being patient. When You really love Jesus more than Life itself...the needs fade away in His Glory anyways. Focus on Him, He's where it's at anyways!!
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Hooo. Hooo. Wisely said. You're not an owl are you, loveydove? :D

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I always say , 'The Lord leads,' and that's DEFINITELY letting Him lead. I would correct one thing though that you said (sorry, it's the analyst inside me. GET OUT! GET OUT ! :D ) . I think there would be a lot more happiness, joy, christian relationships included, IF guys had the guts to ask girls out all the time. There are enough girls out there just waiting.... my opine. Nothing more. Before you hit me, loveydove, make sure you look at my name :D
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Dumb excuse: I just don't see anything happening beyond this.
 
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Lecrae

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Silex said:
Girls don't wanna date nice guys. They wanna go out with the bad boys.

Girls break up with bad boys 'cause they aren't nice guys.

So....

Girls just don't know what they want.
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I second this statement...
 
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kayem77

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#37
#37
Lame excuses are good if you want to avoid drama from the guy/girl :p Ok, I was kidding....kind of.
Actually if I don't want to date a guy or I want to reject an invitation I like to be honest, but it also depends on the guy. There are some guys that prefer a lame excuse than a NO, I DONT WANT TO DATE YOU because then you are a ... I can't say the word here :).
 
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christiancollegegirl

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That's why I ressurected it.

I once told a guy I couldn't go out cus I had PMS. Me PMSing isn't really that bad, I just didn't feel like being with him that day.
 
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kayem77

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christiancollegegirl said:
That's why I ressurected it.

I once told a guy I couldn't go out cus I had PMS. Me PMSing isn't really that bad, I just didn't feel like being with him that day.
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In high school the PMS was a free pass to the nursery (where you took a pill and then you could wander around the cafeteria). You could see a bunch of girls "PMSing" in the middle of math class. After the class finished, PMS was miraculously gone.:) I came to the conclusion that math causes PMS.
 
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