I think you should quit with the speculations and actually ask them straight up in pm. I’m sure they’d appreciate that.
A little stretch to say that they got anxious - ain’t nobody speculate that you were anxious when you were MIA at one point, in fact we all prayed for you when you were gone.
I’d expect the same for them, for us to pray for them as well as others who don’t or haven’t posted in awhile e.g Magenta, instead of you assuming things.