How do you beat the human disguise when finding a life partner?

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coby

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How can I tell if my fiancee is a seed of God? I believe that not every person is a seed of God so I have tried to get a girl from Christian avenues like churches. I planned to test potential fiancees on their knowledge of the bible as well as their church activities in order to know if they are seeds of God or not. But on getting to the churches I discovered that all the girls there are probably not seeds of God and to make matters worse they seem to have a good knowledge of the bible and they even pray and sing in the choir but you can suspect that they are not seeds of God. All of the girls I have met so far in churches are probably not seeds of God. What can I do to know for sure that my fiancee is a seed of God since my plan to test knowledge of the bible and church activities appear to be ineffective? I will really appreciate your answers.
If you're close to God you see that immediately and don't look at outward stuff, reading the Bible 10 hours a day, look at the heart. If you don't have to ask her on a date but if she wants to evangelize with you or go to the prayer meeting.
 

violakat

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*takes notes*
Between a raptor and a puppy, who do you think, has a better chance?
Raptor. You can swoop the girl up. Puppies may or may not get the girl of choice.
 
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pete13

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If you're close to God you see that immediately and don't look at outward stuff, reading the Bible 10 hours a day, look at the heart. If you don't have to ask her on a date but if she wants to evangelize with you or go to the prayer meeting.
I know exactly what you mean and doing what you said will probably identify may be 90% of those that are not seeds of God, but there are some surreptitious ones that will evangelize with you without you asking her, she may be nice, gentle, caring, loving, prayerful, generous and innocent looking but yet not be a seed of God, she may even be a on the pastoral team and yet not be a seed of God. i advise you that you should not use such tests to figure out if she is a seed of God or not because even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14). Remember that they are very crafty, the same way the serpent deceived Eve with its craftiness, they know what signs you are looking for and they may act that way just to deceive you. What should a christian do in such a situation? I am considering shaking her off by letting her know that i am a strict Christian (just short of radical christian/the type of christian that will go to war for Jesus Christ). when she sees this and if she is not a seed of God she will not want to marry a christian warrior, she will be scared and she will run for her safety. I also plan to ask her directly "are you a seed of God"?
 
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Tintin

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I know exactly what you mean and doing what you said will probably identify may be 90% of those that are not seeds of God, but there are some surreptitious ones that will evangelize with you without you asking her, she may be nice, gentle, caring, loving, prayerful, generous and innocent looking but yet not be a seed of God, she may even be a on the pastoral team and yet not be a seed of God. i advise you that you should not use such tests to figure out if she is a seed of God or not because even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14). Remember that they are very crafty, the same way the serpent deceived Eve with its craftiness, they know what signs you are looking for and they may act that way just to deceive you. What should a christian do in such a situation? I am considering shaking her off by letting her know that i am a strict Christian (just short of radical christian/the type of christian that will go to war for Jesus Christ). when she sees this and if she is not a seed of God she will not want to marry a christian warrior, she will be scared and she will run for her safety. I also plan to ask her directly "are you a seed of God"?
Oh, my! You're definitely one Fruit Loop short of a healthy breakfast.
 

jsr1221

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How can I tell if my fiancee is a seed of God? I believe that not every person is a seed of God so I have tried to get a girl from Christian avenues like churches. I planned to test potential fiancees on their knowledge of the bible as well as their church activities in order to know if they are seeds of God or not. But on getting to the churches I discovered that all the girls there are probably not seeds of God and to make matters worse they seem to have a good knowledge of the bible and they even pray and sing in the choir but you can suspect that they are not seeds of God. All of the girls I have met so far in churches are probably not seeds of God. What can I do to know for sure that my fiancee is a seed of God since my plan to test knowledge of the bible and church activities appear to be ineffective? I will really appreciate your answers.
If you're focusing on your fiance, then are you really a seed of God?
 
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pete13

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I am surprised that some people gave shocking replies, they seemed shocked that a person will ask such a question. i am not against anyone or trying to expose anyone, its just that i don't want to marry into anything weird. i have heard true stories of christian married men that wake up in the middle of the night to see their wives who are supposed to be christian practicing fetish witchcraft with blood, bones and skeletons all over the place and i have also heard true stores of christian married men waking up in the middle of the night to see creatures lying beside them on the bed instead of the bodies of their wives. i just don't want to marry into anything weird, i want to marry a pure Christian child of God and people who are probably non seeds of God have infiltrated every avenue where a Christian can find a partner. so what should a Christian do in such a situation? however i must agree with those that said that dating may allow you to know the true faith of your fiancee, but what if she stealthily pretends during dating? this is why i asked if there is a particular test that can be done to know a seed of god and a non seed of god. Non seeds of God marrying seeds of God is biblical as stated in Genesis 6:2 "When man began to multiply on the face of the land and daughters were born to them, 2the sons of God saw that the daughters of man were attractive. And they took as their wives any they chose. 3Then the Lord said, “My Spirit shall not abide in[SUP]a[/SUP] man forever, for he is flesh: his days shall be 120 years.” 4The Nephilim[SUP]b[/SUP] were on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of man and they bore children to them. These were the mighty men who were of old, the men of renown".
 
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Tintin

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I am surprised that some people gave shocking replies, they seemed shocked that a person will ask such a question. i am not against anyone or trying to expose anyone, its just that i don't want to marry into anything weird. i have heard true stories of christian married men that wake up in the middle of the night to see their wives who are supposed to be christian practicing fetish witchcraft with blood, bones and skeletons all over the place and i have also heard true stores of christian married men waking up in the middle of the night to see creatures lying beside them on the bed instead of the bodies of their wives. i just don't want to marry into anything weird, i want to marry a pure Christian child of God and people who are probably non seeds of God have infiltrated every avenue where a Christian can find a partner. so what should a Christian do in such a situation? however i must agree with those that said that dating may allow you to know the true faith of your fiancee, but what if she stealthily pretends during dating? this is why i asked if there is a particular test that can be done to know a seed of god and a non seed of god. Non seeds of God marrying seeds of God is biblical as stated in Genesis 6:2 "When man began to multiply on the face of the land and daughters were born to them, 2the sons of God saw that the daughters of man were attractive. And they took as their wives any they chose. 3Then the Lord said, “My Spirit shall not abide in[SUP]a[/SUP] man forever, for he is flesh: his days shall be 120 years.” 4The Nephilim[SUP]b[/SUP] were on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of man and they bore children to them. These were the mighty men who were of old, the men of renown".
Maybe you should stick to bran flakes.
 

tourist

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I am surprised that some people gave shocking replies, they seemed shocked that a person will ask such a question. i am not against anyone or trying to expose anyone, its just that i don't want to marry into anything weird. i have heard true stories of christian married men that wake up in the middle of the night to see their wives who are supposed to be christian practicing fetish witchcraft with blood, bones and skeletons all over the place and i have also heard true stores of christian married men waking up in the middle of the night to see creatures lying beside them on the bed instead of the bodies of their wives. i just don't want to marry into anything weird, i want to marry a pure Christian child of God and people who are probably non seeds of God have infiltrated every avenue where a Christian can find a partner. so what should a Christian do in such a situation? however i must agree with those that said that dating may allow you to know the true faith of your fiancee, but what if she stealthily pretends during dating? this is why i asked if there is a particular test that can be done to know a seed of god and a non seed of god. Non seeds of God marrying seeds of God is biblical as stated in Genesis 6:2 "When man began to multiply on the face of the land and daughters were born to them, 2the sons of God saw that the daughters of man were attractive. And they took as their wives any they chose. 3Then the Lord said, “My Spirit shall not abide in[SUP]a[/SUP] man forever, for he is flesh: his days shall be 120 years.” 4The Nephilim[SUP]b[/SUP] were on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of man and they bore children to them. These were the mighty men who were of old, the men of renown".
I find this post to be troubling.
 
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colby25

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I am surprised that some people gave shocking replies, they seemed shocked that a person will ask such a question. i am not against anyone or trying to expose anyone, its just that i don't want to marry into anything weird. i have heard true stories of christian married men that wake up in the middle of the night to see their wives who are supposed to be christian practicing fetish witchcraft with blood, bones and skeletons all over the place and i have also heard true stores of christian married men waking up in the middle of the night to see creatures lying beside them on the bed instead of the bodies of their wives. i just don't want to marry into anything weird, i want to marry a pure Christian child of God and people who are probably non seeds of God have infiltrated every avenue where a Christian can find a partner. so what should a Christian do in such a situation? however i must agree with those that said that dating may allow you to know the true faith of your fiancee, but what if she stealthily pretends during dating? this is why i asked if there is a particular test that can be done to know a seed of god and a non seed of god. Non seeds of God marrying seeds of God is biblical as stated in Genesis 6:2 "When man began to multiply on the face of the land and daughters were born to them, 2the sons of God saw that the daughters of man were attractive. And they took as their wives any they chose. 3Then the Lord said, “My Spirit shall not abide in[SUP]a[/SUP] man forever, for he is flesh: his days shall be 120 years.” 4The Nephilim[SUP]b[/SUP] were on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of man and they bore children to them. These were the mighty men who were of old, the men of renown".
that's pretty messed up man.

I would just pray on it. God will lead you to the woman you're suppose to marry.
 

Tinkerbell725

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As the cliche goes, you will know if he or she is the one you will marry. Is this true? Is it through gut feeling that you will know? Or is it through divine intervention? How will you really know? So many thought they knew but made a mistake.
 
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coby

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I know exactly what you mean and doing what you said will probably identify may be 90% of those that are not seeds of God, but there are some surreptitious ones that will evangelize with you without you asking her, she may be nice, gentle, caring, loving, prayerful, generous and innocent looking but yet not be a seed of God, she may even be a on the pastoral team and yet not be a seed of God. i advise you that you should not use such tests to figure out if she is a seed of God or not because even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14). Remember that they are very crafty, the same way the serpent deceived Eve with its craftiness, they know what signs you are looking for and they may act that way just to deceive you. What should a christian do in such a situation? I am considering shaking her off by letting her know that i am a strict Christian (just short of radical christian/the type of christian that will go to war for Jesus Christ). when she sees this and if she is not a seed of God she will not want to marry a christian warrior, she will be scared and she will run for her safety. I also plan to ask her directly "are you a seed of God"?
Well if it's a deceiver she'll say yes if you ask, so that's no use. Look at the fruits. A deceiver doesn't fervently pray and save souls and look if she's honest. And don't forget to ask God and other christians. I once told a guy who was rich and met some that were after his money, so he had some tricks to find out if one was: hey it's easy, if she gives a lot of money away and doesn't spend much on herself she's not interested in money.
 
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coby

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If someone has a demon or is into occultism the Holy Spirit can just show you that immediately or ask someone who has that gift when the pink glasses are blinding.
 
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Tintin

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If someone has a demon or is into occultism the Holy Spirit can just show you that immediately or ask someone who has that gift when the pink glasses are blinding.
Don't bother. The OP just wants to avoid marrying a Nephilim woman (hilarious).
 
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coby

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Don't bother. The OP just wants to avoid marrying a Nephilim woman (hilarious).
Oh okay, lol. I'll make a machine then to test the nephilim genes.