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Perseus

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"Now I beseech thee,brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them. For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple" - Romans 16:17-18
 

Nautilus

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"Now I beseech thee,brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them. For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple" - Romans 16:17-18
Guess you should take your own advice then...especially considering youre acting this way over things in the bible that arent even that important.
 
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Donkeyfish07

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As I said, zero surprise, although perhaps the degree of infestation here is. Let's all hold hands, sing kumbaya, not judddddddge anyone
Excellent Idea. Matthew 7:1-2

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1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.

[SUP]2 [/SUP]For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again."
 
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I can hold ur hands guys I can be the middle person! ;)
 
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Guess you should take your own advice then...especially considering youre acting this way over things in the bible that arent even that important.
How do we decide what's "that important" and what's not?
 
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Perseus

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Guess you should take your own advice then...especially considering youre acting this way over things in the bible that arent even that important.
Sure. I think you've been sufficiently marked. You shall henceforth be avoided.

Excellent Idea. Matthew 7:1-2 "1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.

[SUP]2 [/SUP]For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again."
The real problem, as typified in this thread, is there's a lot of people who claim to be Christians(such as the OP), but really only have a superficial or mainstream understanding of the scripture, and as such fall for common deceptions over and over again.

Another example of this is the scripture you misquoted, a common distortion that has been popularized by secular, worldly sinners who use it in an attempt to shut down any and all rebuke of their sinful actions.

I'd give you the same advice as the OP. Maybe spend a little more time studying your bible and less time supporting worldly, sinful, left-wing political causes.

The words of Jesus in Matthew 7:1 are probably one of, if not, the most misused words in all of the bible. Jesus says, "Judge not, that ye be not judged."

The immediate assumption by those who hear and/or use this quote is that no one is allowed to judge or decide whether the actions of others are wrong, sinful or immoral. Often followed or in place of the judge not statement with, "Only God can judge me."

This is a completely wrong and erroneous understanding of the passage.
 
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Nautilus

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How do we decide what's "that important" and what's not?
Well I dont think my lack of concern over gay marriage really has an effect one way or another on my salvation. I don't have the scripture memorzied but Im pretty sure Jesus said 'Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life;' and not Whoever believes in the Son and actively opposes gays has eternal life. Hence the reason I dont see this issue as anything close to as serious as other Christians make it out to be.
 
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Well I dont think my lack of concern over gay marriage really has an effect one way or another on my salvation. I don't have the scripture memorzied but Im pretty sure Jesus said 'Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life;' and not Whoever believes in the Son and actively opposes gays has eternal life. Hence the reason I dont see this issue as anything close to as serious as other Christians make it out to be.
I think the real danger here is to their salvation. If the church isn't actively mobilizing to preserve its institutions while being a voice as to God's standards, then we will be found wanting in our evangelistic outreach. Conviction and repentance are central to the start of the Christian walk.

Thankfully, the Holy Spirit still convicts if we fail to, but I don't think that will be an adequate excuse when the Lord judges our sins of omission.
 

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This has turned into a biblical debate. Maybe Stilly should move this thread. :p
 

Nautilus

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I think the real danger here is to their salvation. If the church isn't actively mobilizing to preserve its institutions while being a voice as to God's standards, then we will be found wanting in our evangelistic outreach. Conviction and repentance are central to the start of the Christian walk.

Thankfully, the Holy Spirit still convicts if we fail to, but I don't think that will be an adequate excuse when the Lord judges our sins of omission.
While true lets be honest this is america, and we are still a nation with a fairly large christian population. To think these people havent heard the gospel and about salvation isnt practical. Theyve chosen to live these lives and while it may put their salvation at risk it was their personal choice. As long as they arent hurting others Ill let them choose that.
 

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The real problem, as typified in this thread, is there's a lot of people who claim to be Christians(such as the OP), but really only have a superficial or mainstream understanding of the scripture, and as such fall for common deceptions over and over again.

I'd give you the same advice as the OP. Maybe spend a little more time studying your bible and less time supporting worldly, sinful, left-wing political causes.
Perseus I want you to know that your actions here have made me feel angry and quite offended.


Lets get a few facts straight... None of us (As far as I am aware) are saying that homosexuality is not sin, NOR that should it be accepted within a church. If someone was claiming to be a Christian while openly and proudly practicing homosexuality I would advocate throwing them out. What some of us are of the opinion, is that the best way to save these people is not to condemn them. (How did Jesus act towards the woman caught in Adultery?) But to love them, show them God's love.

Ahh yes, the old judgmental accusation that generally comes after the theocracy one. The trusty toolbag of the leftoid. Perhaps I should be more tolerrrrrrrant and openminnnnnded? After all, it doesn't affect me, right?

As I said, zero surprise, although perhaps the degree of infestation here is. Let's all hold hands, sing kumbaya, not judddddddge anyone, and bask in the self-appropriated label of Christianity.
Yep... I'm on the left and not ashamed of it. I'd like to point out that the RIGHT in Australian is well to the LEFT of your Democrat party. As are probably most of the mainstream European conservative parties.

A note to others reading this - I do apologise that this view below is simplistic and controversial and I am not suggesting that the right generally doesn't want to take care of people - they wish to do it in a different and individualistic way. I simply want to make a point.

I believe in looking after the poor. Or perhaps our society should let people who are poor through no fault of their own starve?

I believe in looking after the Aliens in our society, those who don't have citizenship. Making them feel welcome and protecting those who have the least rights in our society. Or perhaps we should continue to force them to live underground?

I believe in looking after the health of those who can't afford to. Or perhaps our society should let them die?

I support the restriction of firearms so that those in our society who choose not to buy them, those who wish to live peaceful, non violent lives, can live safe lives without fear. (I'm not saying those who have guns don't want to live peaceful lives!)

My point is that the left has values of looking after the weak in society - giving everyone a fair go that isn't dependent on birth - so to condemn all 'lefties' as heretical is quite frankly insulting and incredibly... TeaParty/Rightwing/American.
I will also point out that I do not agree that abortion is right, nor other things that the left advocates. But on social issues I'm way down the left spectrum.

Self appropriated label of Christianity? This is deeply offensive to me. May I ask? What do you need to be, to be a Christian? Do I need to be a gun toting republican to be a Christian? Do I need to believe that homosexuals are going to burn in hell and that in every conversation I speak to them I need to remind them of this and condemn them for their horrible horrible sin? Do I need to be holy and righteous, I could never fall into sexual sin after all, I'm a Christian. If I did I'd go to hell.... Jesus came to save sinners, and though the world and all it's evil will be judged when Jesus returns, we aren't to condemn those outside of the church. Leave that to God.

I'll list a few things that I believe.

I believe that Jesus died for our sins and rose from the dead.
I believe that Jesus will return.
I believe that Jesus is God the Son. God is one, Father, Son and Spirit.
I believe that none of us are sinless. I believe that without Jesus paying the price for our sins, none of us can be saved.
I believe that since we are forgiven our sins - through propitiation if you like - we should try and live our lives for God.
I believe this should effect our lives so deeply, our lives should revolve around God, every aspect of it!
I believe that non-Christians will go to hell.
I believe that our life is about God, Love and Evangelism.
If you are looking for other stuff I believe you can go find the Westminster Confession of Faith - other than the article on infant baptism which I haven't made my mind up that would pretty well sum it up.


So please... to come in here and deride my beliefs without knowing a thing about me other than what I have posted here is extremely offensive. No Church has their doctrine perfect, no person has their doctrine perfect. And you would do well to avoid questioning motivations, you cannot see into my heart from behind your computer screen, you do not know what is in here. I can tell you that I am in Christ, to deny that is hurtful.
 

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Ritter and Nautilus - In regards to your last two posts.

Hmmm, it's a tricky one. I kind of take the approach that there are far bigger battles to be fighting - Abortion is one that I think we should be expending energy on.

Having said this, God doesn't stop people sinning, generally. He calls people back, but doesn't stop them sinning. I think I take an approach similar to this... if it isn't hurting others, we probably don't need to legislate against it. Let our personal testimony call them from their life of sin and let our lives display TRUE life and display Christ wherever we can.

Heck look what happened during the Prohibition. :p (We took a different approach and used Rum as currency!)

Those who go around holding 'God hates fags' placards have no idea how much damage that are doing....


Perseus - I also have further question for you.

If you advocate legislating against homosexuality. Would you take this to the logical conclusion of legislating against all sexual immorality. Would you then legislate against Pre-Marital sex? What penalties would you have? (We can't stone people nowadays)
 
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Yourfriend4life

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i dont believe political beliefs are important enough to ever react in anger about. in the broad spectrum of things all leaders right now ( not including israel possibly) are just playing pretend. they have no real power when it comes down to it anyway.

thats just my opinion about politics...im not trying to argue/debate or anything
 
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While true lets be honest this is america, and we are still a nation with a fairly large christian population. To think these people havent heard the gospel and about salvation isnt practical. Theyve chosen to live these lives and while it may put their salvation at risk it was their personal choice. As long as they arent hurting others Ill let them choose that.
What I am concerned about is the dilution of the salt, not the complete disappearance of it. If we start caring about who they are hurting or not hurting or become sensitive to momentary political tides, we are being delinquent in our role as a moral and prophetic voice for the people around us.
 
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Ritter and Nautilus - In regards to your last two posts.

Hmmm, it's a tricky one. I kind of take the approach that there are far bigger battles to be fighting - Abortion is one that I think we should be expending energy on.

Having said this, God doesn't stop people sinning, generally. He calls people back, but doesn't stop them sinning. I think I take an approach similar to this... if it isn't hurting others, we probably don't need to legislate against it. Let our personal testimony call them from their life of sin and let our lives display TRUE life and display Christ wherever we can.

Heck look what happened during the Prohibition. :p (We took a different approach and used Rum as currency!)

Those who go around holding 'God hates fags' placards have no idea how much damage that are doing....


Perseus - I also have further question for you.

If you advocate legislating against homosexuality. Would you take this to the logical conclusion of legislating against all sexual immorality. Would you then legislate against Pre-Marital sex? What penalties would you have? (We can't stone people nowadays)
Why do we have to contend for one issue at a time? That would be my answer. If you advocate a worldview, you can advocate a whole array of policy positions at once. Sure you can place emphasis on one for a few months, then another, but the center can still hold.
 

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While true lets be honest this is america, and we are still a nation with a fairly large christian population. To think these people havent heard the gospel and about salvation isnt practical. Theyve chosen to live these lives and while it may put their salvation at risk it was their personal choice. As long as they arent hurting others Ill let them choose that.
What about them hurting themselves? Choosing to ignore God calling them out of their sin and towards Him? Isn't that hurtful enough?
 
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Where's your compassion for the lost? Like Lil_Christian said.. They are hurting themselves by not coming to know Jesus, because that will ultimately will send them to hell. That doesn't bother you at all? If some of these people are your family.. Do you still not care that they are doomed to an eternity of Godlessness, burning and extreme tormenting thirst? Christians are supposed to try and help lead others to God.. Not just get saved and then think, "Okay, I'm not going to hell, that's good enough for me. Everyone else can do whatever.."


While true lets be honest this is america, and we are still a nation with a fairly large christian population. To think these people havent heard the gospel and about salvation isnt practical. Theyve chosen to live these lives and while it may put their salvation at risk it was their personal choice. As long as they arent hurting others Ill let them choose that.
 
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If the differences are minor and both parties are willing to listen to one another's views with open minds and open hearts, I think it can work out. There is room for learning from one another's viewpoints. Lining up politically 100% would be pretty convenient, but personally, I'm happy with lining up on just the issues that are the most important to myself and my partner.

I would be troubled if there were major differences on extremely controversial topics.
 

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What about them hurting themselves? Choosing to ignore God calling them out of their sin and towards Him? Isn't that hurtful enough?
Where's your compassion for the lost? Like Lil_Christian said.. They are hurting themselves by not coming to know Jesus, because that will ultimately will send them to hell. That doesn't bother you at all? If some of these people are your family.. Do you still not care that they are doomed to an eternity of Godlessness, burning and extreme tormenting thirst? Christians are supposed to try and help lead others to God.. Not just get saved and then think, "Okay, I'm not going to hell, that's good enough for me. Everyone else can do whatever.."
I guess Im just not the type to force it down someone's throat if they already chose a lifestyle against God. He gave us free will. And if they chose that life I dont count it as hurting themselves. They are happy, so Ill let them be. They can deal with consequences later on. Id rather out effort towards someone that isnt set in their decisions isn't going to end up being a futile waste of time.