How long did your first relationship last?

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Ruby123

Ruby123

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CozHElivesIcanface2morrow said:
I remember the name but I don't remember the memories anymore 😁

What I do remember is... I was desperate,unwise and inexperienced about that thing called love 😅




What it taught me...

Always include God in everything and listen...I didn't ask Him from the very start and was very stubborn to listen.


Second, Make sure you both want the same thing because even if he thinks you are amazing,even if he keeps you around...even if he keeps on coming back to you... but he has no vision of where the relationship will go...let him go...because you, staying and waiting for him won't change his mind...

I am no saint I have had my fair share of flaws also but the red flags were too much to ignore already...I waited 5 years to finally end it (sighs*) didn't know that much 😁

One of my biggest flaws I communicate poorly . I was the master of silent treatment...I am still but I am trying to change slowly 😅

Thank God for giving me another chance and also for the lessons I learned from my past relationship. I'll do better 😊
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This sounds so much like me and my experience (y)
 
Lanolin

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I had some board games in my bookshop but never saw the game of love. Is it a game????

I did see one called 'Cards against humanity' though. and Taco Cat.
 
Lanolin

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Im very good at Patience, also known as Solitaire.
But I can play Speed too. The problem with that game is its very short.

I wonder if maybe Love is like Poker...? I have never seen or heard anyone playing it...and it seems nobody knows the rules.
 
Lanolin

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This is why I have suggested tennis. so we can go courting...but it seems people arent game.
 
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Prycejosh1987

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Well technically we were friends that became more over time. It was more of an online romance above all else. We were "friends" for 4 years. She was very its all about me. She invited me to her "birthday do" at a bowling place. What she didnt tell me was she invited 7 friends, and i got the least attention. I was angry about it, we fell out and now i do not speak to her.
 
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