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RodB651

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My post was saying that the single and married members seem to be mutually encouraging to one another on here.
I'm not sure what you mean by pushing positive feedback.
I would never tell someone they should get married.
It may not be God's will for them. 🤷‍♀️
Oh but but TamLynn... I think you are saying it's ok for me to have concubines... :cool::LOL:
 

Lynx

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Nah... I don't need the drama
Hence the concubines. Multiple wives, multiply the drama, but concubines don't have any rights, including the right to cause drama. ;)

MY problem is, I'm not married. Can you have concubines without having a wife, or do you have to be married first before you can acquire concubines?

Shoot, even if it IS okay to have concubines without a wife, if you don't have a wife then who keeps the concubines in line?
 

RodB651

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It's a valid argument. One that should be thought through carefully.
 

RodB651

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Eventually the wife would complain that you're spending too much time with the concubines even though you haven't left her sight since the first one moved in. Even the concubines ask what was the point of being here if you can't cut loose from the missus.
 

1ofthem

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Eventually the wife would complain that you're spending too much time with the concubines even though you haven't left her sight since the first one moved in. Even the concubines ask what was the point of being here if you can't cut loose from the missus.
Um...I don't think I'd be totally against it.

As long as all they did was cook and clean house....

Nothing more, though:p
 

Lynx

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Um...I don't think I'd be totally against it.

As long as all they did was cook and clean house....

Nothing more, though:p
Weeeeeell... I don't have any personal experience with the subject, but I'm pretty sure they play roles other than cooking and cleaning. =^.^=
 

RodB651

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Weeeeeell... I don't have any personal experience with the subject, but I'm pretty sure they play roles other than cooking and cleaning. =^.^=
Where's that facepalm emoji???
 
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We getting personal now, are we?

Slow down a bit.

I'm not that kinda girl.

I'll have to get to know you better first.

At least buy me a coffee or something before getting so personal...... :ROFL:

hahahahahaha
Oh so its not personal when speaking in general, but asking for honesty frm your point of view made it personal?! Okay..Noted!!!
 

1ofthem

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:rolleyes:

:sneaky:

Seriously, where is that face palm emoji???;):whistle:

:censored:

:giggle:
 

DeeGee

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I tend to think that having all of those wives and concubines may not have been all that it was cracked up to be, but what do I know? :unsure:🤷 🤦‍♀️
 

TamLynn

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Oh so its not personal when speaking in general, but asking for honesty frm your point of view made it personal?! Okay..Noted!!!
Even when people share their point of view with you, you misinterpret what they mean and respond to what you've read into it or what you're assuming they mean, not whats actually stated.
 

17Bees

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I tend to think that having all of those wives and concubines may not have been all that it was cracked up to be, but what do I know? :unsure:🤷 🤦‍♀️
This was too funny! No wonder ole Solomon was writing down all his proverbs. Nobody else was listening to him.
 
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Even when people share their point of view with you, you misinterpret what they mean and respond to what you've read into it or what you're assuming they mean, not whats actually stated.
Do you not see that I merely ask questions? That's why I always put a question mark. So what's misinterpreting about that? Normal people ask questions when they don't know something not sit and look ignorant
 
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Do you not see that I merely ask questions? That's why I always put a question mark. So what's misinterpreting about that? Normal people normally ask questions when they don't understand or know something not sit and look ignorant
 

17Bees

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I sit and look ignorant all the time! Nobody asks me anything!
 
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I sit and look ignorant all the time! Nobody asks me anything!
People usually don't ask ignorant people anything, that's maybe why hun. Expand your brain a little more, such as reading researching history, its things you can do to work on your ignorance. God bless