well you all are lucky......I've been single my entire life, so really I should be used to it by now and not mind it so much. But it seems like the older I get, the harder it is, especially considering that I really want to have kids and there's only so many years that women can have babies before all of the risks and complications go up. I know God is in control and that if it's His will for me to ever get married, it will happen, but I feel like it's hopeless for me to even meet anybody. I kind of feel like if I get married at all, it won't be until I'm a lot older, and it's just discouraging to think about spending the next 20 or 30 (or more) years all alone.