lol You have a link to one of those? I would be guessing the men complaining about women who want to work don't have fiancees or wives, right?
You'll generally find it more in the Bible Discussion Forum when there is talk about the evils of feminism.
Now I'm certainly not defending any of the many ways that feminism has gone off the rails, but along with feminism will come the talk of evil Jezebels who are pursuing careers and are ruining the family unit. If you skim the BDF now and then, you'll see this discussion come and go.
A long while back, we also had a group of middle-aged men (50-ish age range and above) here in Singles who regularly sang the praises of finding a young, 20-something submissive Asian wife because they saw all Western women as being tainted by the said likes of feminism.
I do understand the frustration behind that, but I think there's a balance. If God has called a woman to be a nurse or a doctor, there's a reason for that, and I thank God that I've been able to go to female doctors for female health concerns in recent years. (When you're having problems with your ovaries, it's nice to be able to talk to a professional who actually has ovaries as well.)
Anyway, I digress.
As explained before, this whole thread is a joke in answer to posts made in other threads about what some of the men in the forum expected from women. For example, the guy saying women are shallow for wanting tall men, but then he also said, Thank God men are not shallow. This particular member also had a thread in the BDF complaining that women should be wearing head scarves when praying, and that because they don't do this, they are "rebelling against God" due to feminism.
Then there was also talk in a thread about men who've had sex themselves, but want only a virgin bride.
Hence, this is why the OP said she wanted a virgin husband who would remain a virgin -- because this whole thread was meant to highlight and parody sky-high expectations.