A problem I have found with some men is that often they are too self-sacrificing - and what I mean is that all too often its like ok, we can do whatever you want to do, when really I want to do what he wants as well. It was like well, sheesh, you are losing your identity because you think it will make me happy to do whatever I want, when that isn't the case?? LOL i don't ask for that and it makes me lose respect for them, big time!
Men think, women think this. Women think, men think that.
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Good one😲
I get the emotional wrecks you see on TV. I however don't know any of them. My female friends are ranchers, teachers, medical field, and missionary work. Not much room in them fields for drama. Gotta keep your head and keep your cool.
I get men in general are not the sharing type. I would help alot if they shared with their help meet (mate). Hint hint gents 😉
I get the emotional wrecks you see on TV. I however don't know any of them. My female friends are ranchers, teachers, medical field, and missionary work. Not much room in them fields for drama. Gotta keep your head and keep your cool.
I get men in general are not the sharing type. I would help alot if they shared with their help meet (mate). Hint hint gents 😉
True, neither sex knows how to listen or we go on defense. Instead of seeing: for example. ( "insert name", I FEEL this relationship is more one-sided) instead of seeing the "feel" knowing feelings are not always factual, the other party goes on defense, thinking it is acussing or blaming. ( with some mates they are ) but not always.
If I sit down to talk to someone about a problem, I'm going to # 1 expect they listen to what I say, #2 let me finish without interruptions. Then repeat back what they heard or understood it to be. Then address their side. However honestly, depending on how long I let something go before addressing it. That determines how open I am to receiving the other persons feelings.
It is a two way street of open and honest communication, and listening.
If I sit down to talk to someone about a problem, I'm going to # 1 expect they listen to what I say, #2 let me finish without interruptions. Then repeat back what they heard or understood it to be. Then address their side. However honestly, depending on how long I let something go before addressing it. That determines how open I am to receiving the other persons feelings.
It is a two way street of open and honest communication, and listening.
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Probably, but problems can't be solved if there is not a known cause. Mask the symptoms, but not solve the problem.
I may be a different type of woman. I don't need emotional support. I desire stability, Steady, reliable, trustworthy. Honest and open. The Lord and I take care of my emotions.
I did word the original post wrong. Empathy, compassion, and willing to show and share emotions.
"If your pissed at something I did, by George tell me". Don't just throw a fit. Or push it down and let it fester to the point of explotion. Then it becomes out of control. I guess that's what I'm getting at.
I did warn words aren't my strengths 😏
I may be a different type of woman. I don't need emotional support. I desire stability, Steady, reliable, trustworthy. Honest and open. The Lord and I take care of my emotions.
I did word the original post wrong. Empathy, compassion, and willing to show and share emotions.
"If your pissed at something I did, by George tell me". Don't just throw a fit. Or push it down and let it fester to the point of explotion. Then it becomes out of control. I guess that's what I'm getting at.
I did warn words aren't my strengths 😏
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Good thread 
I’ve always wondered why the men that I’ve come across in my lifetime, whether it’s family, friends, social circles, online close friends of even colleagues aren’t as sensitive as women are.
Is it male attitude (not trying to be offensive), cultural or just a alpha ego?
I’ve always wondered why the men that I’ve come across in my lifetime, whether it’s family, friends, social circles, online close friends of even colleagues aren’t as sensitive as women are.
Is it male attitude (not trying to be offensive), cultural or just a alpha ego?
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Maybe, but oh Lord, I could not handle a needy feminine man. Good thing I don't get hormonal😁. I only turn into a Witch if I'm given a narcotic. Not to say I don't have bad days. Just not hormonal days.
Lol the fun in getting folks to open the windows. Its all good, keep it coming!!!😂
Lol the fun in getting folks to open the windows. Its all good, keep it coming!!!😂
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