I don't like games either. If a guy I wasn't sure about asked me out but I wasn't totally against it, I'd probably say "I'll think about it", or "not right now". I'd save the no for when I really meant no.
There goes rel, reading my mind. But, yeah, that's what I was going to say, it's important, guys, that we READ the girl's body language as well as the actual words, and, if you need some examples of words need you look NO further than the above said ones by rel
The Lord leads. Some of you seem so dead-set on 'no,' and, I think, that just may lose you out, guys. wellmaxsmart, are you listening, bro
And, i get it, too. Sure, you don't want a girl who is playing games, but, isn't a legitimate reason for saying 'no' good enough for you, guys? If she's just trying to see what kind of reaction we will have to her 'no,' then, that works for me. It's not a reaction to hurt us either, she just wants a guy to be STRONG. And, if he can come back to her ,after she's rejected him ONcE, to ask her again, then, she could go crazy on you, that is true. But, she could also be all smiles.
Of all the answers said, I like deelizee's answer best, and, also, stilledwater, who says words , 'case by case situation.'
I agree, all girls are DIFFERENT and putting them all into the same box of how they 'screen' guys is not something we should do, plus, the Lord leads, as I believe, His Spirit in our temple, accompaying, helping our spirit
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And, we do not know her heart, like God does, and, He is leading her life and He just may be leading her life to say 'no' to you the FIRST time only
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