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Sam might be my dream guy... if he didn't require that I wear a bag over my head on our dates... So... I would like my dream date to not want me to have to cover my face in public (not because I think I'm all that, but because I'd like to be able to see.)
*hugs to Sam* *Notice I STILL haven't answered the werido question yet.* *skips away*
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no one can read minds but its in the way they act theres still something different & the look in their eyes when someone feels sad or hurt.
Just like my mom she can act happy when shes sad I have started noticing when she is faking it...
sometimes im to blind but honestly ANYONE can notice if you really are paying attention.
Or if God tells you.
Plus NO ONE can be happy all the time, as long as we are on this earth there will be times were we cry, frown or get a little upset or serious or quiet,stressed out, in a hurry & so on...
Just like my mom she can act happy when shes sad
I have started noticing when she is faking it...sometimes im to blind but honestly ANYONE can notice if you really are paying attention.
Or if God tells you.
Plus NO ONE can be happy all the time, as long as we are on this earth there will be times were we cry, frown or get a little upset or serious or quiet,stressed out, in a hurry & so on...
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I agree with both sharp and notears.... guys really should get better at "reading" pepople BUT, we girls should get alot better at just telling the truth... if your bf/ man asks you how you feel and you say "great!", you really can't get angry at him for not realizing you lie. It's just as much up to you as him
lol yes thats what i was getting at.
the thing i hate most is,
"whats wrong?"
"nothing..."
"you seem sad, whats wrong?"
"nothing..."
"ok cool, lets go to pizza hut"
quietness for the rest of the day....then half an hour after we go our separate ways, BAM a text or email..."why dont you ever care how i'm feeling?"
baaaaaaaaaaaaaah gimme a break
the thing i hate most is,
"whats wrong?"
"nothing..."
"you seem sad, whats wrong?"
"nothing..."
"ok cool, lets go to pizza hut"
quietness for the rest of the day....then half an hour after we go our separate ways, BAM a text or email..."why dont you ever care how i'm feeling?"
baaaaaaaaaaaaaah gimme a break
Sharp, your amazing insight into the mind of a woman is absolutely astounding.
But, I have to also say you're right on the money--if you want someone to know how you're feeling, especially a significant other, TELL THEM. I know it seems like a radical, possibly insane idea... but... expecting someone to know how you're feeling or ask you persistently to the point of OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) is a good foundation for a divorce later on in life. (Please note--I am NOT saying that it WILL lead to divorce, but it definitely can BECOME a major factor that contributes to a breakup and/or divorce.)
And yes, you can ask me how I know... because it's from experience... both my own, and talking to/watching many other couples who have broken up/divorced around me.
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Lol thanks for the laugh but i dont mean that,
I dont show my sad feelings, so of course no ones going to ask whats wrong... especially twice...
& i dont nag at people for not knowing that i feel sad, BUT i do feel that if you care/love someone you should be able to see when they are happy sad or mad... Like for example strangers can't tell But when you love someone you start to notice how they act when they are sad or mad... or happy... Honestly NO ONE can be happy all the time theres gotta be a moment were they get sad, serious or a little frustrated as long as we are humans on this earth we still have feelings...
I have not cried in front of anyone who is not in my family in years,
Plus in the past every time i tried to talk to someone about how i feel i got shut up or ignored so in time i learned if someone cares they will ask whats wrong or be able to tell that something is a little weird ...
Like for example if im looking at the table with a thinking look that right there shows im thinking...
IN the past there was this guy i used to really like, he used to be sad & have a sad look in his eyes sometimes especially when he got quiet & started thinking, i was able to notice something was wrong BUT i really dint think much of it/ look into it & bother to ask... thats my example at FAILING to ask or even truly notice something was wrong ....
I hope i dint confuse you or anyone...
Now theres a difference, im have a big sad face & im not laughing & you ask what is wrong & i say nothing then keep acting all deperessed well thats different & thats their fault for not saying something is wrong when someone actually cared to ask if something is wrong,
