When I care about someone I care about their health too, so I would be concerned about someone being overly heavy, overly obsessed with their bodies or overly thin. Like kayem, I'm not a fan of guys who are terribly thin and don't find that attractive. I'm not a fan of guys with ripped abs because they seem to be totally obsessed and, silly me, I like to be the pretty one in a couple
. If a guy is carrying a little extra weight, but tries to be healthy and is up for/has the energy to do the activities I like to do, I don't have a problem with it. Balance, overall health, staying active and being energetic is more important to me than the superficial aspect....except the part about me wanting to be prettier than him