Pity everything is predictable

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AuntieAnt

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Pity i can predict the rest of my lonely life it’s a given i will be alone till i die im a failure about to turn 34 i am stuck with nothing to be proud of nothing to feel positive about nothing to look forward to. Finding love is an impossible pipe dream for me. The impossible unexpected miracle. I’m too screwed up to ever have it, to feckless to ever find it. My life is an inconsolable waste. Truth be told I never should’ve been born. I suffer desiring while living nonstop as a lost unloved loner loser with not a sliver of a possibility that love is anywhere on the horizon. I will die a very lonely person and hopefully in a not too distant future.
Everything you just posted is the direct opposite of what God says. You're willfully choosing to disbelieve Him. I just Googled free mental health counseling in California and found these resources for you. At least be reasonable and look into some of these organizations before you decide to push the Lord away and say, "There's no hope."

http://www.dhcs.ca.gov/services/Pages/MentalHealthPrograms-Svcs.aspx

http://www.hosannacounseling.org/

http://ciftcounseling.com/

https://www.sdrock.com/ministries/carecounseling/professionalcounselors/

https://www.sovcal.com/treatment-programs/cross-program/

https://www.hopeservices.org/our-services/counseling/

https://communityconnectionssjc.org/services/details/mental_health_counseling/

https://www.opencounseling.com/california/pasadena

http://dmh.lacounty.gov/wps/portal/dmh

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FENNER2

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I wish I had ideas to help. I just want you to know you aren't alone. I remember depression starting when I was about 9 years old, I remember feeling bad about life and being to afraid to tell anyone because I thought I was crazy. I come from a line of mental ilness my Dad I think was manic deppresive. But back then it wasn't talked about. I hid in shame.

I still isolate myself when I feel depressed because there are times I can't fake it. Yes I am in therapy and.i do take medication.

I have great days and days when I wake up and wish I could hide in my bed, I can't, which is good.

Please Brother there are places to call and get free help. Please seek these sources out. I want you to know you aren't alone. I am praying for you. Please message me if you ever need.to talk about it.
 
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Pity i can predict the rest of my lonely life it’s a given i will be alone till i die im a failure about to turn 34 i am stuck with nothing to be proud of nothing to feel positive about nothing to look forward to. Finding love is an impossible pipe dream for me. The impossible unexpected miracle. I’m too screwed up to ever have it, to feckless to ever find it. My life is an inconsolable waste. Truth be told I never should’ve been born. I suffer desiring while living nonstop as a lost unloved loner loser with not a sliver of a possibility that love is anywhere on the horizon. I will die a very lonely person and hopefully in a not too distant future.

Quite an image you have hanging on the wall there, Dpecheur.
This image is formed in unrighteousness,
and you do need the paths of God to walk in the ways of life.
It seems like you notice this.

God is a God of righteousness,
He is light, and there is no darkness in Him.
Do you understand what this means for you, if He is the head of your life?

His word tells you and I in John 10:10 that "the thief comes only to steal, and to kill, and to destroy ... but that He came that we might have life, and have it more abundantly."

It seems to me that you are holding onto a false image of yourself,
that you have nailed to your wall.

This image is formed in, and after unrighteousness,
and the thief has framed it for you - but you sure do listen to him.
Turn your ears away from the wicked one,
and listen to the other voice,
the voice of God.

He has given you His word, so you better listen!
He longs for your company.
In misery, you should come to your senses, and realize that you've messed it up.

You need the Lord, and His ways.
His love.
His forgiveness.

Run to Him, He is waiting for you.
Open arms, and shelter.

He provides!
He will show you who you truly are.

His image,
no darkness in that one.
We need discipline.
The discipline of a Father.
Become like Him.
His image.

Get to know Him!
If you already do,
know that what you're saying is not after truth,
and the failures you mention,
seek His light!

Obey the voice of light, and be kind to yourself.
Bring this to that image you have of yourself.

What does God say about it?
He can set you free, you better believe it.
He destroys the works of darkness.

God is good.
Seek Him!


Kind regards.