Pre-marital sex - No brainer

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Test_F_i_2_Luv

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Its a no brainer. If he respects you he'll wait,in fact he wouldn't even ask.
In fact, he ought to be encouraging abstinence while he and kaylagrl are single.

Heck, I tell my gf that I find it very attractive and sexy that she has waited & intends to continue waiting until marriage.

 
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Lily777

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I wanted to also share real quick this link from Focus on the Family website. It's pretty awesome.

Three Lies About Premarital Sex | Focus on the Family


Alice Fryling, in an article titled, "Why Wait for Sex?" writes:
"Genital sex is an expression of intimacy, not the means to intimacy. True intimacy springs from verbal and emotional communion. True intimacy is built on a commitment to honesty, love and freedom. True intimacy is not primarily a sexual encounter. Intimacy, in fact, has almost nothing to do with our sex organs. A prostitute may expose her body, but her relationships are hardly intimate."
 
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In fact, he ought to be encouraging abstinence while he and kaylagrl are single.

Heck, I tell my gf that I find it very attractive and sexy that she has waited & intends to continue waiting until marriage.

I agree with you 1000% and it shows conviction, character and strong morals.
 
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kaylagrl

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Well... Speakin from a guy's point of view..... Hmm... Ok, not a guys point of view, just mine... But whatbchaps my hide these fellas runnin around havin the chance of a life time with a young lady and all they can do is talk about "the sack"..!!...one punch... Just one punch for them knuckle heads ruin things for the likes of us!.. Anyway, the second part is the "L" word... Yup, gets used way too much.. So much so that its lost what it's supposed to mean...... AND for the last part of my wooden nickles worth, I hate the "S" word... Day I find my gal I'll tell her straight ahead, darlin, I can't have "sex" with you, even after we're married. Now I can make love to you, ain't no doubt.... But that "S" word.. Naw naw...... Ok.... Do I need to head for cover now?

Hello brother! Long time no see. How are things in the great state of Texas?
 
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kaylagrl

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In fact, he ought to be encouraging abstinence while he and kaylagrl are single.

Heck, I tell my gf that I find it very attractive and sexy that she has waited & intends to continue waiting until marriage.


Ummm I didn't write the OP.lol Im married. :)
 

Angelsnow

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He is a user. Men like him aren't worth much. It shows. His words are cheap. And his actions? cheaper. Don't let yourself be pulled into his web of lies. Once the challenge has been attained. He will be gone. My brother..married the (second time) the ONLY women...who ever said NO to him. (its been 19 yrs and 4 kids later) It pays to be unattainable. Ignore him. Ignore his calls. His texts. And WATCH him snap. Play the game. IF He loves YOU? he will wait. If not?? then you lost NOTHING..while he lost YOU. you are worth more...then being used. You are God's beloved daughter. Don't cheapen that gift..or title. You are a "beloved" of God. *** be Patient ***
 
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Txroads

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Hello brother! Long time no see. How are things in the great state of Texas?
Hey darlin.... They were doin aight till earlier today... I posted bout it on a thread Ashamed... It's still buggin me... Anyway, glad ta see ya... Big hug
 
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th1bill

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There is a marriage recognised by God and then there is a ceremony that profits some in monetary return and that is coupled with a state tax, all of this accepted as normal. But youngster, if this creep is demanding to try the shoes on before he opens the box, let him take a hike!

The Old testament is a wonderfully educational book that this creep needs to read because had he talked you into sex God would have written it down that he married you, period. and knowing full well how this goes 99 and nine-tenths percent of the time, when he then walked on you because he had, in his dirty little mind, made you a soiled woman and walked away without so much as a divorce decree, that also would be recorded in God's records and the boy would never forget that he had pulled the wool over your eyes and was stupid enough to believe he could do the same to God... it would ruin his eternity because better than 98% of the men in the Church are guilty of this very sin and hate men like myself that are willing to teach this exceptionally unpopular teaching.

If he can not live without sex you can do much better.
 
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Donkeyfish07

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Yep, it's a no brainer. I am officially your leave it be enabler person :p.