Sexual frusteration

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Hoffco

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coby, That pastor should be fired. He has no concept as to God's ways. He don't minister to souls of people with a real heart for them. He is hung up up Man centered legalistic ungodly rules.
 
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We need a real view on sex, according to the bible. Paul says, if you can not go without sex, then get married; This is the problem with many young persons today. they need a marriage partner ,NOW. WELL,? as soon as you find a HOLY one suited for you.! Single is no more holy than married.! Who says, studying the human body is sin,? Not the Bible.! Paul says, "don't touch" but looking must be ok,! If God gives you the opportunity to study the naked body, do so. but don't marry anyone who would parade their naked body for other to see; UNLESS, the get converted and stop prostituting their body. "All things are lawful for me." but, "is it profitable", does it help me flee youthful lusts? With many, pictures can keep them from real sin.
Good grief! The conflicting contradictions in that post are staggering.
 
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Hoffco

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The Bible never condemns masturbating. James Dobson did not condemn it. Before you joint a band you better learn how to play your instrument. God allows us legal learning and playtime before we get married. Only those who are euniches should refuse to marry.
 

melita916

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.................................... wat
 
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Hoffco

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Willie, Sorry you do not know the word of God . You have skimmed the surface so long. you are happy with dangerous partial trues.
 
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Just go for prayer. In our church it's simply after the preaching: Who has problems with masturbation? Almost all the hands up in the air, unclean demons kicked out, problem solved.
Uh........ If "almost all the hands [are] up in the air", and all those "unclean demons [are] kicked out", then next week there should be no hands up in the air. And the only person in your congregation with that problem, ever again would only be the occasional visitor. That's pretty good.

This is why I do not push such a cure-all........ It just doesn't seem to work that way too often.
 

seoulsearch

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*Sigh.*

Here we go again.

Well, it was nice while it lasted... These days I'll take what I can get, even if it's just 8 or so (and that's pushing it) peaceful, caring, non-contentious posts in a row.
 
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Willie, Sorry you do not know the word of God . You have skimmed the surface so long. you are happy with dangerous partial trues.
Well, if telling someone it is fine to drool over pictures, and to look at photos of women (for "study of the naked body") that you, yourself, claim are prostituting themselves, then I hope I NEVER learn THAT word of god.
 
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coby

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Uh........ If "almost all the hands [are] up in the air", and all those "unclean demons [are] kicked out", then next week there should be no hands up in the air. And the only person in your congregation with that problem, ever again would only be the occasional visitor. That's pretty good.

This is why I do not push such a cure-all........ It just doesn't seem to work that way too often.
No it was once in church with those people. It was rather funny, the bluntness. It's not every week. I was just out of a relationship with a guy who was on porn so I was glad he prayed. Demon got out, problem solved. I also prayed for him once when he watched porn. I saw 3 unclean spirits dressed up as women, kicked them out and it was over. God set him free, so he never judges and helps all those people. Maybe he did more to help them, I don't know, for me it was one prayer to be set free, but I'm not a guy. He also needed a wife.
 
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Sometimes I feel the urge to correct a crazy error in someone's beliefs about God giving people opportunities to look on the naked body... and sometimes just no.

 
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The Bible never condemns masturbating. James Dobson did not condemn it. Before you joint a band you better learn how to play your instrument. God allows us legal learning and playtime before we get married. Only those who are euniches should refuse to marry.
"Learn how to play your instrument" ???????????????

That is disgusting.
 
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kaylagrl

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"Learn how to play your instrument" ???????????????

That is disgusting.

Just some friendly advice, let it go. Even if you agreed with Hoffco he'd tell you you were wrong to agree with him. Done time on that merry go round,not worth the headache.
 
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sealabeag

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Woahhhh. If the OP returns to this thread he is NOT going to be edified, especially with all the fighting. Can I suggest you guys "take it outside". Also, I recommend not engaging with Hoffco.
 
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Hoffco

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We all know, 1Tim.1:8-11 is true, but how many understand it.? "...the law is not make for a righteous person, but for the lawless, and insubordinate, for the ungodly and for sinners, for the ungodly and for sinners for the unholy and profane, for murderers of fathers and murderers of mothers,for manslayers, for fornicators, for sodomites, for kidnappers, for liars, for perjurers, and if there is any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine, according to the glorious gospel of the blessed God which was committed to my trust. I am not in that list; Therefore NO one has to lay those rules on me, because y Savior already taught me to stop those sins and I have. Now I LOVE to keep clean, of sin. It is not the deadly sins that trip me up. It is the forgivable sins, in a real sense, that I deal with daily, and confess. like anger, lust and covertness. Paul confessed these "little" sins daily. in Rom. chapter 7.
 
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kaylagrl

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Woahhhh. If the OP returns to this thread he is NOT going to be edified, especially with all the fighting. Can I suggest you guys "take it outside". Also, I recommend not engaging with Hoffco.
I second that recommendation,don't engage.
 
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Hoffco

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The way of salvation is still; Repent of sin, Trust in Jesus as you Savior and Obey Jesus as your Lord. If you preaches can not preach the truth of salvation, according to the BOOK. How can you preach the way of holiness by the BOOk, The BIBLE. ??
 

seoulsearch

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The Bible never condemns masturbating. James Dobson did not condemn it. Before you joint a band you better learn how to play your instrument. God allows us legal learning and playtime before we get married. Only those who are euniches should refuse to marry.
So if anyone with this philosophy started to say, "This one time, at band camp..."

I'm running.

(And before someone yells at me, no, I didn't watch American Pie. It's just one of those infamous quotes that's embedded itself into everyday culture...)
 

Lynx

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*Sigh.*

Here we go again.

Well, it was nice while it lasted... These days I'll take what I can get, even if it's just 8 or so (and that's pushing it) peaceful, caring, non-contentious posts in a row.
Yep. These days we just have to take our victories where we can.
 
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The Bible never condemns masturbating. James Dobson did not condemn it. Before you joint a band you better learn how to play your instrument. God allows us legal learning and playtime before we get married. Only those who are euniches should refuse to marry.

James Dobson? Are you kidding? James Dobson? What books of the Bible did he write?
 
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Hoffco

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Grace , are you so naive as to think you can post such a provocative picture of you waist and open legs and not make a man think, oh wow, cute,! Your clip makes you out as a very young innocent school girl. And ; I am not arguing with anyone, I am just pointing out facts , as they appear to me. Coby , I didn't realize you are a girl, you tolally misled me by you dress. Again, I would say, It is OK with me , you may look as weird as you wish, I will still love you as a soul that needs salvation,!