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Lynx

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
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Tintin said:
True, mate. But I wasn't looking at the time and I'd been on CC for a good length of time (1.5 years) before anything even happened. I got to know people as family in that time (some stayed, some left, some returned, also new members) and eventually I got to know the one who is now my lady love through her posts and eager but baffling PMs.
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EXACTLY! That's how I plan to find my lady. When I'm not looking for her.

Does that make sense? It makes perfect sense to me, but maybe that's just me. But I'm not going to go looking for Mrs. Right. From what I have observed that's a really good way to find the wrong Right.
 
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ServantStrike

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Oncefallen said:
Not likely, we chased all the potential good wife material off to Christian Mingle. :p
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Does that place actually work?

Like... I've sen advertisements and what not... I'm not sold on it though.
 
ArtsieSteph

ArtsieSteph

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Im thankful to God that I haven't had that experience of going "the heck with it, I want to just date someone to have something to do today." Patience yo
 
JesusLives

JesusLives

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Lynx said:
EXACTLY! That's how I plan to find my lady. When I'm not looking for her.

Does that make sense? It makes perfect sense to me, but maybe that's just me. But I'm not going to go looking for Mrs. Right. From what I have observed that's a really good way to find the wrong Right.
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I have observed that at least one of the people really isn't looking while the other one might be looking....I guess that is a good thing other wise it is a blind leading the blind situation... The one looking seems to have their eyes open to the possibilities I know I was not looking not even trying. I have heard also that you find it when you least expect it for me this was certainly true.... Happy unhunting to you and I guess that would mean the she will have to be the one looking for possibilities....lol

P.S. If the she looking PM's you it is a good thing to respond..
 
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Tintin

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I don't know. Two people might not be looking, but God can draw them together, to the point where they both begin to take notice of each other. Yes, then one person may get the ball rolling, but there's often some outside help, as well. Once the other person realises they're in the crosshairs, they can respond in kind. Sometimes that person needs really overt clues though. :)
 
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Dante

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I would like to add one other point to my message,I firmly believe that people need to relax. I have talked with young Christians who think life has stopped because they do not have a spouse,right at that moment. Please all you single precious believers out there,trust in the Lord. He will guide you,get to know people. Trust me, you will know when that person comes along. Make Christ Jesus,your family,and friends your center. God bless you all out there. Oh and for those who have met that special someone. Praise God when you get a chance,and make that person smile. God bless. Dante
 
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