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Nope not at all, i might get stabbed in the street for saying this by some crazy girl, but Paul washer did say it's not bad to put new paint on an old barn xD. Im gonna die lol. But seriously i think some guys just appreciate the effort sometimes, the fact that you try to look good for him instead of just giving up once you feel like he's yours. Please, PLEASE don't go all in though like some girls spend an hour on their make up with all the contouring and stuff and look like completely different people and idc how good you look that's not cute fam.....it's not, it just makes you seem like you think you're ugly and ik girls like confidence but guys do to, nobody wants someone who thinks they look like a foot, especially if they're cute then it makes them seem like they want attention and I'm done i don't wanna rant forever xD.
Everyone does it, when it comes to looking for a mate. Everyone should do it. And, anyone who says they don't score looks is a liar. Also, in my book, a woman loses points for telling lies, including PC lies. Hating people for telling the truth also costs points.
You condemn yourself by saying it's "pretty messed up"
Who said looks looks is the only factor?
You condemn yourself by saying it's "pretty messed up"
Who said looks looks is the only factor?
Well tru i did assume looks were the only factor my bad, but the way you made this post at the least it's the most important factor based off of how you approached the subject. The point of marriage isn't two super cool people getting together to make a power couple or something along those lines it's for sanctification, love covers a multitude of sins, it also covers flaws in appearance or whatever else. We should look for someone we are physically attracted to but that doesn't need to be extreme and the fact that your requirements are unfair, unrealistic, and vain shows that making this thread wasn't exactly the most fit thing for you to do. You've done more harm then good here man and you've hurt a lot of women as well. Maybe some girl should make a thread about us xD. SOMEBODY DO ITTTTT
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Most men want girls who look like Selena Gomez though. And they themselves look like Danny Devito. 
What's with some Christian women not wearing makeup? Makeup helps a woman look better, so please do. Makeup also is feminine, and I want a feminine woman, not a woman who looks like a boy.
I know some women are frugal with money, but not the ones I meet. Even women living on their own and financially struggling still love to wildly spend money, and want me to do the same. Don't ask me or your dad to help with your electric bill when you keep the oven running and your home chilly in the summer.
While this isn't nearly as much of a problem with Christian woman as with secular woman, feminists attitudes make everyone miserable. I dated a girl who claimed to be a Christian feminist. She was generally conservative and wanted to be a stay-at-home mom. What kind of feminist wants a man to support her? (And, what kind of man wants a woman who claims to be a feminist?)
Most modern Christians, male and female, are pathetic when it comes to sound doctrine, including the refusal of Christian submission. I think I have the soundest doctrine of all. If you're a Christian woman who can't name five books of the Bible, in order, don't you think you should be a little less militant in objecting to my doctrines and causing needless conflict? It's not just doctrine, so many people seem to insist on believing nonsense things, even when it hurts their quality of life.
Men might be worse on this point than women, but men aren't my concern right now. So many women seem to have little interest in dressing nicely, controlling weight, or cultivating sophistication. Twenty years from now, I want a woman who is a woman, not a middle-aged girl.
I know some women are frugal with money, but not the ones I meet. Even women living on their own and financially struggling still love to wildly spend money, and want me to do the same. Don't ask me or your dad to help with your electric bill when you keep the oven running and your home chilly in the summer.
While this isn't nearly as much of a problem with Christian woman as with secular woman, feminists attitudes make everyone miserable. I dated a girl who claimed to be a Christian feminist. She was generally conservative and wanted to be a stay-at-home mom. What kind of feminist wants a man to support her? (And, what kind of man wants a woman who claims to be a feminist?)
Most modern Christians, male and female, are pathetic when it comes to sound doctrine, including the refusal of Christian submission. I think I have the soundest doctrine of all
. If you're a Christian woman who can't name five books of the Bible, in order, don't you think you should be a little less militant in objecting to my doctrines and causing needless conflict? It's not just doctrine, so many people seem to insist on believing nonsense things, even when it hurts their quality of life.Men might be worse on this point than women, but men aren't my concern right now. So many women seem to have little interest in dressing nicely, controlling weight, or cultivating sophistication. Twenty years from now, I want a woman who is a woman, not a middle-aged girl.
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What it means to be “traditional” is changing. We no longer live in a 1 income society, due in large part to the voting record of Boomers.
Many who advocate for the man to be “provider and protector” are dismissive of the female role of being her husband’s helper.
Making me food and viewing sex as “equal” (women want sex far more than men do) to me working 80 hours a week to provide “resources” is not helping me. Not when her ability to work would provide me the ability to be home more to PROVIDE guidance an emotional support to both my wife and children.
You see a disgusting increase of Millennial women seaking exclusively dirty old men for this very reason; for “resources” and “confidence” and whatever nonsense. They use “raising children” as an excuse to live a paid vacation.
The “stay-at-home” mother’s of the Bible harvested the fields, gardened, sewed, sheered sheep, made clothing, churned butter, cooked and cleaned. She provided economic help to her husband, as he hunted and gathered meat and died in battle.
Many who advocate for the man to be “provider and protector” are dismissive of the female role of being her husband’s helper.
Making me food and viewing sex as “equal” (women want sex far more than men do) to me working 80 hours a week to provide “resources” is not helping me. Not when her ability to work would provide me the ability to be home more to PROVIDE guidance an emotional support to both my wife and children.
You see a disgusting increase of Millennial women seaking exclusively dirty old men for this very reason; for “resources” and “confidence” and whatever nonsense. They use “raising children” as an excuse to live a paid vacation.
The “stay-at-home” mother’s of the Bible harvested the fields, gardened, sewed, sheered sheep, made clothing, churned butter, cooked and cleaned. She provided economic help to her husband, as he hunted and gathered meat and died in battle.
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I want my children to be homeschooled so my wife can't work, one person income is easily livable ik my mom raised me and 4 others by herself and we were fine, we didn't have fancy stuff but we were fine. Being single made it hard but if i had a Father who worked even close to as much as she did we would've been fine. Nothing wrong with a stay at home wife if she's doing something, she can still do other things or even work when she has the time it doesn't really matter but her first priority is her family.
One income is easily available?! HA! In WHAT world?! CLEARLY you are not a Millennial male, the modern SLAVE in American society!
Here in Minnesota, the a man needs $40 an hour to raise a “traditional” 2 child family and have his wife stay home.
That pay DOES NOT exist here! Namely due to Baby Boomer greed.
The Minnesota Timberwolves have a job opening that they cannot fill, for a videographer. The job description calls for $60,000 worth of work ... yet the year demand a college degree, and are only willing to pay $10 an hour.
Wake up, dude. That is the reality of the job market for young men.
Here in Minnesota, the a man needs $40 an hour to raise a “traditional” 2 child family and have his wife stay home.
That pay DOES NOT exist here! Namely due to Baby Boomer greed.
The Minnesota Timberwolves have a job opening that they cannot fill, for a videographer. The job description calls for $60,000 worth of work ... yet the year demand a college degree, and are only willing to pay $10 an hour.
Wake up, dude. That is the reality of the job market for young men.
Im 18.......I'm a millenial...., but say your right....who cares about how hard it is, you're a man figure it out. If you need college then go, if you need to work long hours do it, pray for help, but I'm not going to settle because the cards I'm dealt( did i spell that right? Proly not). Complaining won't fix anything and we don't deserve anything so do what you need to provide for the people you love.