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What's with some Christian women not wearing makeup? Makeup helps a woman look better, so please do. Makeup also is feminine, and I want a feminine woman, not a woman who looks like a boy.
I know some women are frugal with money, but not the ones I meet. Even women living on their own and financially struggling still love to wildly spend money, and want me to do the same. Don't ask me or your dad to help with your electric bill when you keep the oven running and your home chilly in the summer.
While this isn't nearly as much of a problem with Christian woman as with secular woman, feminists attitudes make everyone miserable. I dated a girl who claimed to be a Christian feminist. She was generally conservative and wanted to be a stay-at-home mom. What kind of feminist wants a man to support her? (And, what kind of man wants a woman who claims to be a feminist?)
Most modern Christians, male and female, are pathetic when it comes to sound doctrine, including the refusal of Christian submission. I think I have the soundest doctrine of all
. If you're a Christian woman who can't name five books of the Bible, in order, don't you think you should be a little less militant in objecting to my doctrines and causing needless conflict? It's not just doctrine, so many people seem to insist on believing nonsense things, even when it hurts their quality of life.
Men might be worse on this point than women, but men aren't my concern right now. So many women seem to have little interest in dressing nicely, controlling weight, or cultivating sophistication. Twenty years from now, I want a woman who is a woman, not a middle-aged girl.
I know some women are frugal with money, but not the ones I meet. Even women living on their own and financially struggling still love to wildly spend money, and want me to do the same. Don't ask me or your dad to help with your electric bill when you keep the oven running and your home chilly in the summer.
While this isn't nearly as much of a problem with Christian woman as with secular woman, feminists attitudes make everyone miserable. I dated a girl who claimed to be a Christian feminist. She was generally conservative and wanted to be a stay-at-home mom. What kind of feminist wants a man to support her? (And, what kind of man wants a woman who claims to be a feminist?)
Most modern Christians, male and female, are pathetic when it comes to sound doctrine, including the refusal of Christian submission. I think I have the soundest doctrine of all
. If you're a Christian woman who can't name five books of the Bible, in order, don't you think you should be a little less militant in objecting to my doctrines and causing needless conflict? It's not just doctrine, so many people seem to insist on believing nonsense things, even when it hurts their quality of life.Men might be worse on this point than women, but men aren't my concern right now. So many women seem to have little interest in dressing nicely, controlling weight, or cultivating sophistication. Twenty years from now, I want a woman who is a woman, not a middle-aged girl.
My last gf, who was not much into makeup, worked hard and provided for herself. And when she was able to she would actually spend money on me, as a surprise, just to be nice.
So you're either dating strangers or dating people that hold beliefs you disagree with. No wonder your view of women is skewed. You place yourself in situations that set you up for a fall.
The proclamation that women require makeup to he attractive and feminine, that you blast most Christians as beneath you for their ignorance, seem to take joy on instructing other on how they "should" talk/act/think and then proceed to condemn women that may be overweight. Well have you considered that women may not exactly be happy to meet you either?
What about biblical teachings on humility? Or have you gotten that far yet?
Frankly its guys like you that ruin it for the rest of us.
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Yes, people should live within their means, even if it means passing on some luxuries and comforts.
My priority here is being honest about issues I face dating. It's not to butter up any women here for a date. I have no requirement that a woman have an athletic body. And, I realistically expect men and women to gain some weight after they're married or get older. But, a single woman in her twenties who is obese is probably not someone I would consider having a relationship with. I'm not fat myself, so I'm not wanting anything in a woman that I'm not living up to myself.
Yes, there's a visual issue. But, also life-span issue. There's also concern that poor mental health could be the cause of the obesity. There is also a physical activity issue.
I know there are a few medical issues and drugs which make weight control very difficult.
My priority here is being honest about issues I face dating. It's not to butter up any women here for a date. I have no requirement that a woman have an athletic body. And, I realistically expect men and women to gain some weight after they're married or get older. But, a single woman in her twenties who is obese is probably not someone I would consider having a relationship with. I'm not fat myself, so I'm not wanting anything in a woman that I'm not living up to myself.
Yes, there's a visual issue. But, also life-span issue. There's also concern that poor mental health could be the cause of the obesity. There is also a physical activity issue.
I know there are a few medical issues and drugs which make weight control very difficult.
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What's with some Christian women not wearing makeup? Makeup helps a woman look better, so please do. Makeup also is feminine, and I want a feminine woman, not a woman who looks like a boy.
I know some women are frugal with money, but not the ones I meet. Even women living on their own and financially struggling still love to wildly spend money, and want me to do the same. Don't ask me or your dad to help with your electric bill when you keep the oven running and your home chilly in the summer.
While this isn't nearly as much of a problem with Christian woman as with secular woman, feminists attitudes make everyone miserable. I dated a girl who claimed to be a Christian feminist. She was generally conservative and wanted to be a stay-at-home mom. What kind of feminist wants a man to support her? (And, what kind of man wants a woman who claims to be a feminist?)
Most modern Christians, male and female, are pathetic when it comes to sound doctrine, including the refusal of Christian submission. I think I have the soundest doctrine of all. If you're a Christian woman who can't name five books of the Bible, in order, don't you think you should be a little less militant in objecting to my doctrines and causing needless conflict? It's not just doctrine, so many people seem to insist on believing nonsense things, even when it hurts their quality of life.
Men might be worse on this point than women, but men aren't my concern right now. So many women seem to have little interest in dressing nicely, controlling weight, or cultivating sophistication. Twenty years from now, I want a woman who is a woman, not a middle-aged girl.
I know some women are frugal with money, but not the ones I meet. Even women living on their own and financially struggling still love to wildly spend money, and want me to do the same. Don't ask me or your dad to help with your electric bill when you keep the oven running and your home chilly in the summer.
While this isn't nearly as much of a problem with Christian woman as with secular woman, feminists attitudes make everyone miserable. I dated a girl who claimed to be a Christian feminist. She was generally conservative and wanted to be a stay-at-home mom. What kind of feminist wants a man to support her? (And, what kind of man wants a woman who claims to be a feminist?)
Most modern Christians, male and female, are pathetic when it comes to sound doctrine, including the refusal of Christian submission. I think I have the soundest doctrine of all
. If you're a Christian woman who can't name five books of the Bible, in order, don't you think you should be a little less militant in objecting to my doctrines and causing needless conflict? It's not just doctrine, so many people seem to insist on believing nonsense things, even when it hurts their quality of life.Men might be worse on this point than women, but men aren't my concern right now. So many women seem to have little interest in dressing nicely, controlling weight, or cultivating sophistication. Twenty years from now, I want a woman who is a woman, not a middle-aged girl.
I'm reminded of Paul when he spoke to the Galatians (If there are errors in here, sorry, my IQ is stupidly drunk from reading this asinine post and trying to comprehend any kind of credibility in the OP.), but when Paul asked them, Oh foolish Galatians, who hath bewitched you?....Sounds like you're a bit wroth like Cain was with God when the Lord did not accept his sacrifice, he had a good sacrifice, but God looked at his heart.....
I would say this poster needs some serious prayers, that kind of bitterness and anger isn't healthy.
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It's interesting though that you mention in your original post that you apparently want a woman to look good for you even 20 years from now, even after possibly having your children? (I know you didn't mention children in your OP... so forgive me for the assumption here.)
So it seems that you are also expecting yourself to be fit, trim, and about as attractive as you believe you are now, even after 20 years?
(And, as you say you are doing here, these are honest questions that I'm trying to ask.)
So it seems that you are also expecting yourself to be fit, trim, and about as attractive as you believe you are now, even after 20 years?
(And, as you say you are doing here, these are honest questions that I'm trying to ask.)
Ah, so she did wear some makeup. Why didn't you told her to stop wearing it? No woman is going to be offended by you telling her that she looks great au natural.
What about your current gf?
Why do most women wear makeup, if we all agree that women without makeup look no less beautiful or non-feminine? Are you going to accuse my loan voice of representing the majority?
You've said nothing to convince me that my view of women is skewed.
You should look at some polls of Christians that measure their knowledge of the Bible.
When I'm the only one here expressing these views, how can I ruin it for all guys? Your statement is nonsense on the face of it. But, if your goal is to pander to others, then mission accomplished.
What about your current gf?
Why do most women wear makeup, if we all agree that women without makeup look no less beautiful or non-feminine? Are you going to accuse my loan voice of representing the majority?
You've said nothing to convince me that my view of women is skewed.
You should look at some polls of Christians that measure their knowledge of the Bible.
When I'm the only one here expressing these views, how can I ruin it for all guys? Your statement is nonsense on the face of it. But, if your goal is to pander to others, then mission accomplished.
I think you missed your own point. Your point in the OP seemed to be that women should spend money on makeup as some sort of priority; my response is that it makes far more sense to spend money on good food and comfortable shelter than to sacrifice those things for makeup.
Yes I'm well known for my sense of humor, and for being almost as outwardly emotional as Mr. Spock. Since I'm not being hysterical in the emotionally unbalanced sense of the word I can only conclude that you meant that you understood my attempt at humor and didn't appreciate it.
Yes I'm well known for my sense of humor, and for being almost as outwardly emotional as Mr. Spock. Since I'm not being hysterical in the emotionally unbalanced sense of the word I can only conclude that you meant that you understood my attempt at humor and didn't appreciate it.
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I think he's side stepping the fact that women do not meet his standards (or whatever they are) and require material things to make them beautiful, when women were created in God's image just as man was, man doesn't need makeup, so why do women need to have make up? They are beautiful just the same.
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I feel so ignored. The OP isn't saying a thing to me.
Somebody must have been REALLY bored to approve this thread.
Somebody must have been REALLY bored to approve this thread.
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