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it removes inhibitions and dissolves judgement, and things that are in peoples hearts that they would normally keep a lid on, come out. it doesn't make people irrational or wicked; it helps tear down the personal boundaries and let all the evil and foolishness come out.
& like alcohol, it's addictive.
that doesn't make it evil -- just like alcohol - it makes it something you need to be careful with and to use self-control with.
if the person in the OP didn't trust herself, she's right to do what she did. when i got married there were women i knew i needed to make efforts not to have in my life anymore ((this was before social media)). i deleted some phone numbers. i stopped going to some places where i would have seen them. if she was doing it for love, i respect that too. love is jealous; God is jealous over us!
if i just think of it as taking the liquor bottles out of your house if you've decided to quit drinking, it makes a lot of sense.
So my question in this, is this someone she's been seeing for awhile, and now they've decided to make it official, or is this someone she's only been with for less then a few weeks, much less know? That might make a difference in what I would think.