I know what you mean. I'm already at the point where I've basically given up. If it takes any longer, I won't see the point in having children if I'm too old and tired. I'm not sure I want them anymore, just to make them go through this nonsense. I would feel like I had cursed them, maybe. I've already got ankle and shoulder arthritis. So I probably couldn't enjoy playing with them. I still live at home and my jobs up n down. So getting a house with a partner would be stupid unless God guided me. Having relations living at home is just wierd for me. So I don't see where god's plan is going hardly at all. Except growing me somehow. If I'm too old, I might not care for anyone to be with.
Soft Christians and dating.
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Maybe your right, but I haven't been around any women for ages working in a male environment, with no friends except Sunday church. So on-line dating is the only poor option. But there's very few to message. Online I just don't even get any mail. Being timid doesn't apply there. So not much of a problem. Plus I'm on a dating site, they already know my intention.
I feel you. It is difficult to cope with "It'll happen for you someday" as year after year passes by without that hope.
I dove into dating last year and it ended so badly that even dipping my toes back in the dating pool again recently made me yank them back out.
I know I'd like to be married someday (I think), but I wish I could skip that whole dating part.
I dove into dating last year and it ended so badly that even dipping my toes back in the dating pool again recently made me yank them back out.
I know I'd like to be married someday (I think), but I wish I could skip that whole dating part.
I feel you. It is difficult to cope with "It'll happen for you someday" as year after year passes by without that hope.
I dove into dating last year and it ended so badly that even dipping my toes back in the dating pool again recently made me yank them back out.
I know I'd like to be married someday (I think), but I wish I could skip that whole dating part.
I dove into dating last year and it ended so badly that even dipping my toes back in the dating pool again recently made me yank them back out.
I know I'd like to be married someday (I think), but I wish I could skip that whole dating part.
I feel you. It is difficult to cope with "It'll happen for you someday" as year after year passes by without that hope.
I dove into dating last year and it ended so badly that even dipping my toes back in the dating pool again recently made me yank them back out.
I know I'd like to be married someday (I think), but I wish I could skip that whole dating part.
I dove into dating last year and it ended so badly that even dipping my toes back in the dating pool again recently made me yank them back out.
I know I'd like to be married someday (I think), but I wish I could skip that whole dating part.
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No it doesn't. Some people have the false impression that God will just drop mr perfect or ms perfect in our lap. Wish it was that easy...as Christians our standards should be exceedingly high. As far as the dating scene , yeah it's rough out there. Like I told the guy above , don't ever settle just because you haven't found the one yet...keep looking even if it takes a lifetime. If that's not enough, well who cares you're in heaven then. ??????
